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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 19, 2018
maynia:


There is more to marriage that just loving!

Don't push your opinion on others, why being so excessive?
"There's more to marriage than just loving "
Food?
Okay o!
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 19, 2018
chiefqueen:

"There's more to marriage than just loving "
Food?
Okay o!

Alot is involve
Money is involve
Attitude is involve
Food is involve

You will be marrying someone for LIFE
Are you gonna tell me you will still have that love for your man after 10/15 years

Be true to yourself

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by IFEOLUWAKRIZ: 5:37pm On Dec 19, 2018
yes
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Bussy23(m): 5:41pm On Dec 19, 2018
To be kindid, I am yet to either read it in the Bible except that I have heard from our self defined rules in the name of culture about women or men, it not a crime if a woman can't cook( are you probably marrying her to be cooking for you all through her life or you love her for whom she is), if your woman can't cook ( it has got to do with your understanding and maturity before embarking on marriage or better still teach her) your upbringing and background are different. No law states only the women are meant to go through the rigorous stress in the so called marriage) Love is based on your understanding, Maturity, communication and trust not on whether she is a top culinary chef or not nor age. You might probably not even help her if she is stressed out please retrace your steps and understand the word marriage before stepping into it.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Bussy23(m): 5:43pm On Dec 19, 2018
Marriage is full of ups and downs, it can be rosy today and might not be tomorrow.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Yoighaman(m): 5:45pm On Dec 19, 2018
Many people have sense on this thread Sha...nice one.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 19, 2018
maynia:


Alot is involve
Money is involve
Attitude is involve
Food is involve

You will be marrying someone for LIFE
Are you gonna tell me you will still have that love for your man after 10/15 years

Be true to yourself
You're saying that somehow the love is gonna fade?
But the fact that she can cook will keep you two together?
You don't believe in love, admit it.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Dec 19, 2018
chiefqueen:

You're saying that somehow the love is gonna fade?
But the fact that she can cook will keep you two together?
You don't believe in love, admit it.

Yes, the love will fade not all, it's normal

I said alot is involve in the Marriage
And cooking is a very important part in marriage.

Whatever sha

Time will tell

Do you know in the brain falling in love is seen as addiction not emotion
You can always get out of an addiction.

I don't know about others
But if you can't cook, I can't marry you.
I won't let the western world confuse me!

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Wuraola01(f): 6:09pm On Dec 19, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Me wey be guy lock up learn how to cook talk less.... That's the highest I can do.... I fit dey put her through in the course of her learning,that's if I no dey busy



Interesting grin cheesy cheesy
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:11pm On Dec 19, 2018
Wuraola01:




Interesting grin cheesy cheesy
Hehehegringringrin
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by enambobo(m): 6:15pm On Dec 19, 2018
A woman being able to cook is a sign of good parenthood. I'm not saying i can't assist o. But haba it's a shame! All these slay queens that will have housemaids at home. The housemaid does the cooking, the fetching, the cleaning and even the washing including her pants. All they do is sit and watch TV. You can't expect me to be working for the family to feed and still do the cooking always. Do you want me to die? Moreover women learn more from their mothers.I won't like my daughter to copy such trait. The fact that I can tolerate it doesn't mean others will.

Like honestly, what's the need marrying her if she can't cook? Being able to cook is a necessity o. Because on the long run when every other aspect of love dies, the fact that she's got your belly is enough motivation to keep going as a family. Someone like me, I don't joke with stomach infrastructure. She must learn o.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by onyxo76(m): 6:18pm On Dec 19, 2018
I take the cooking part seriously,the first time I visited my wife then as a fresher in the university she served me amala and ewedu, something no other lady has ever served me before her, the food was just too much jare. her mother trained her well o, I got married to her 6 years later and I don't regret at all, I do a lot of cooking too, it's highly important ladies know how to cook if not those ladies out there who have good cooking skills will snatch him o. real men appreciate good food and sex, not indomie and corn flakes

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by mhizbel(f): 6:19pm On Dec 19, 2018
There is nothing wrong with not knowing how to cook but there is definitely something wrong with not learning how to cook.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Dec 19, 2018
Where did the traditional African go to?, the woman who cooked, cleaned, took care of the house and was submissive

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Chenzee(m): 6:34pm On Dec 19, 2018
Am loving this..... tongue
I luv ppl esp ladies dat r being realistic and not sentimental/ feministic...Such ladies should email...Lol..
I guess the long & short of this is to teach her ( in a catering school ooo)....Is it?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by David160(m): 6:35pm On Dec 19, 2018
Chenzee:
I can vividly recollect, during my university days how beans(cowpea) and garri were so popular in the male hostel. Meanwhile, provision shops prefer to stock more than half of their shops with indomie (noodles) without any sceptism. These shop owners know very well that these noodles will be devoured completely by none other than those in the female hostels.
A friend of mine visited his girlfriend come fiancee several times in her house, and was always welcomed with garnished noodles and chilled soft drinks. It continued for their two years of courtship. Anytime he asks why she isn't cooking any other food, she says it's because she has been busy all through the day.
If he tells her to cook a special delicacy, she spends the whole day cooking and then serves him with a delicious and palatable rubbish (tasteless meal).
I told him that I can only marry a woman who can cook exceptionally well, and can also cook meals I can't cook (especially my traditional meals). I told him that I will be so proud to invite anyone to my house.
They ( My friend and his fiancee) are preparing to get married soon, though they haven't fixed a date yet.
I need your candid and unbiased advice. Thanks.
yea I can.... She's my wife not my maid
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Wuraola01(f): 6:37pm On Dec 19, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Hehehegringringrin



Lol. So you can cook well grin cheesy shocked

Husband material. 1k yards grin
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:41pm On Dec 19, 2018
Wuraola01:




Lol. So you can cook well grin cheesy shocked

Husband material. 1k yards grin
I still have my flaws nagringrin....Though working on them... Husband material?? See as my head expand... cheesycheesy
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by SaturnNick(m): 6:44pm On Dec 19, 2018
Of course. She can learn. What I cannot stand is a ill mannered and or lazy/dirty lady

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Dec 19, 2018
chiefqueen:

Cho Cho Cho until you fall in love
You want to tell me that if you meet someone now, fall for her, and you propose to her, then you find out she can't cook you'd break up with her?
Easier said than done man, easier said than done. Unless you're not marrying for love.
lol...you have a point there but unlike most people I fall in love with my head and not my heart. I've been able to train myself to look at a girl I admire, no matter how pretty, and treat her like any other gurl and with time the feeling dies.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Wuraola01(f): 7:20pm On Dec 19, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
I still have my flaws nagringrin....Though working on them... Husband material?? See as my head expand... cheesycheesy




Yeah, everyone has. smiley

Lol,don't let ur head swell too much sha grin cheesy
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:23pm On Dec 19, 2018
Wuraola01:





Yeah, everyone has. smiley

Lol,don't let ur head swell too much sha grin cheesy
cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by elsom: 7:31pm On Dec 19, 2018
Chenzee:
I can vividly recollect, during my university days how beans(cowpea) and garri were so popular in the male hostel. Meanwhile, provision shops prefer to stock more than half of their shops with indomie (noodles) without any sceptism. These shop owners know very well that these noodles will be devoured completely by none other than those in the female hostels.
A friend of mine visited his girlfriend come fiancee several times in her house, and was always welcomed with garnished noodles and chilled soft drinks. It continued for their two years of courtship. Anytime he asks why she isn't cooking any other food, she says it's because she has been busy all through the day.
If he tells her to cook a special delicacy, she spends the whole day cooking and then serves him with a delicious and palatable rubbish (tasteless meal).
I told him that I can only marry a woman who can cook exceptionally well, and can also cook meals I can't cook (especially my traditional meals). I told him that I will be so proud to invite anyone to my house.
They ( My friend and his fiancee) are preparing to get married soon, though they haven't fixed a date yet.
I need your candid and unbiased advice. Thanks.


What's ur bizness
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Chonmen(m): 7:42pm On Dec 19, 2018
Yes
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by secpowell: 7:45pm On Dec 19, 2018
Every lady that comments above me,keep talking about love. I repeat,many Nigeria women are only in love with your money. I wonder why the keep deceiving themselves with love stories.
chiefqueen:

Cho Cho Cho until you fall in love
You want to tell me that if you meet someone now, fall for her, and you propose to her, then you find out she can't cook you'd break up with her?
Easier said than done man, easier said than done. Unless you're not marrying for love.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Slynation(m): 8:22pm On Dec 19, 2018
That shouldn't be a problem as long as they both in love, he shouldn't ditch a good woman for something she could learn within a short period of time...
The man can help her learn, I know of a Lady who can't cook simply because of how she was brought up, She enrolled into a program for 3months where they teach people how to cook variety of meals & she became a Pro... So ur friend can help her woman enroll in something like that for his stomach sake,no biggie about that.... Wishing them a happy married life in advance

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by tragergeorge(m): 8:36pm On Dec 19, 2018
Valerie47:
Your own problem is sex.
so sex na problem abi?
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by MannieA(f): 8:52pm On Dec 19, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Lol....Highest, I'd enrol her into catering school.... I'd prefer she tells me earlier, even before wedding...



yes..true.
she should even enrol herself and learn quickly. Cooking isn't DAT hard na,before u know she's already a good cook.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by MannieA(f): 8:58pm On Dec 19, 2018
I cannot enter my husband's house without knowing how to cook like a pro. imma treat him like a king..pump him with food..lolll

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by Snow87(m): 9:14pm On Dec 19, 2018
PrettySleek:
Ok. Most men will say they can't marry a woman that can't cook, which is fine. I have no problem with it at all! Everybody has what they can and can't do without so who am I to say otherwise? Dfferent strokes for different folks,but as for me, I can't marry a man that cannot cook or some house chores, I feel it's a sign of laziness. If we are dating and I discover it, he will learn how to do them, not just for me but for the entire family. What if I travel and I leave him with the children, what if I am sick? What if I am on duty? Does it mean he would starve? That's bad. All parents should teach their children how to do these things to avoid stories that touch. No woman would use food to punish my brother or my son. Marriage na partnership o! Help your spouse in their responsibilities, it would improve your marriage, I can't allow my husband to provide for the family alone it might be overwhelming sometimes, no be slavery! He should also do the same for me. That's love.
I don't know that we still have young ladies that reason like this. Abeg how much is bride price for ur area, I am in love already.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by enambobo(m): 9:16pm On Dec 19, 2018
MannieA:
I cannot enter my husband's house without knowing how to cook like a pro. imma treat him like a king..pump him with food..lolll
Confirmed baby! 100% wife material sighted. If you want to kill a man with Love, give him good food.

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