Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

samysmoothfresh:


this girl is so rude, aggressive, ill-mannered and violent!!!

Realhommie:
You don't seem to get it, your argument doesn't hold any weight in this discourse.

Now lemme ask, where's her relationship with the supposed ex now? No one here has said she should have been involved with both (that's what you meant by 'double date'?), she made her choice which is sticking with the ex.. But if this guy wasn't good enough for her then what has changed after 5years? What didn't she see in him then that she sees now? Do you now see why a lot of the guys you earlier quoted as being immature hold the opinions they do? You can take it anywhere but know that they aren't far from the truth. The truth is never going to be appealing or pleasant to the ears.

If she was diligent and had her priorities right she wouldn't be in this quagmire she currently finds herself. I wouldn't advice her to date him as he may be on a vendetta but then what do i know, you may never truly find out his mission.

Let her just be careful, whatever she decides, it's her cross so let her carry it.

LaExpert:


You don't expect her to date all the guy she likes at the same time. It wouldn't even have made sense if she did leave her bf for this dude even if she liked him then.

tikkykay:
Pray abt it. That way...You won't be misled

virago:



Is she supposed to see a vision or something

AryEmber:
I guess my advice is on point then, that way, he won't get to shag a poluted septic tank.

Ikpongiton:
you sound like a macho woman or what american would call a stud, but in nigeria,you are an agbero.but i like your swag,cos with you as a wife,no one will dare your husband

highcollide:
you're destined to be husband and wife with a gold-digging ashawo. Amen!!!

WiseStarr:

What could have been your excuse back then,you have no point,my dear
Were you there for him when he needs you? here you are cooking up stories for us,So you think of considering him when he's making some money right,You too want to fella like anikulapo



You should put yourself in his shoes and think about the consequences before you step into it,you don't know how he got his money,so you think deeply before taking any action.I think yourself esteem is too low,You sound like a Gold digger




Never underrate anyone cos,No oneknows tomorrow

Canadianbreed01:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated



I will personally use you.

NandiIfeoma:


You're insane. Barking mad. She didn't owe and even today doesn't owe a man who's not her boyfriend/spouse anything, just as he didn't owe her anything too. You sound like you're trying to vicariously live through the ex, still pained over one small girl who rejected you in ss1

WiseStarr:

I laughed so deep when i read your text.....Idiot girl
You deserve being a freedom fighter
Blood sister to the OP���

NandiIfeoma:


The same way your parents should've laughed at the idea of giving a test tube baby like you an education. I pity them for all that money wasted investing in a dullard like you. Please kill a goat and borrow it's brain to compensate for your lack, it's better than nothing

WiseStarr:


Have you eaten,An Hungry man is an Angry man,My dear sister,go eat,take something chill before you come back here

NandiIfeoma:


I'll ask the same question to you Some people can be driven mad due to hunger and thirst. If it's hunger that's bothering you, that's easily resolved My dear, have you eaten in three days prior to typing that rubbish?

WiseStarr:



Ifeoma,Let's get off this and be cool,okay?

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

NandiIfeoma:


Lol I can agree to a truce