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Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nature8(m): 7:02am On Dec 20, 2018 |
[quote author=2buffagain post=72853307]Ladies and Gentlemen in Naija, I'll be 100 with you... If you are dating someone and they are trying to migrate to USA with a non-immigrant visa, and they say they are coming back for you....chances are you are better off just freeing them and remaining friends while you face your life where you are. I bet you neither you nor them knows the challenges that will have to be faced along this road. Not every US Visa is a migration Visa. There is schooling visa, visiting visa, etc. And visas are very restrictive about what you can and cannot do, and if you can even be allowed to apply for any other visa. When a person has at least a green card, that is US permanent residency, and they are on a home run to US citizenship. A green card means a person has no serious limitation within the US besides voting (you can do that when you become a citizen). It is also at this GreenCard level that your trans-atlantic lover can BEGIN the process of sending for you. But the road to a green card is long and uneasy if you didn't win a US diversity lottery.. Seeing as Nigeria is one of the countries banned from the Us Visa lottery (a program whereby people gamble to win a US greencard), no Nigerian as at some years back can get a quick GreenCard through that route. They have to go the looooong route. There are various do-able long paths to the US greencard e.g: - Naija -> School in US -> OPT -> H1B -> Eb2/Eb3/Eb4 employment based GreenCard - Naija -> School in US (PHD) -> Lots of exploits -> extra-ordinary person Eb1 GreenCard - Naija -> Have $500k - $1M to "invest" in the US -> Eb5 Investor Greencard. The higher you spend the more the priority (tief tief agbada types love this one) - Naija -> marry a US citizen or Greencard holder -> Marriage based Greencard. each '->' sign can mean any where from 2-10 years! But all these things have been made longer and even sometimes down right unattainable by Trump. Now, companies that had once hired people through the H1B won't even look at you unless you have an OPT, which means you have more time to "try to get" an H1B.....which you might still kuku not get. Also, you need to basically be Elon Musk or Bill Gates before you can come in through the "Extra-ordinary person" route. If you thought you had money before, Trump wants to raise the $$$ range for investing, so the #BigAgbada will probably have to tief more. The insults are so bad right now that in the US, Trump is trying to fight their 13th amendment so as to prevent people who visit the US to give birth from having that child become an automatic US citizen. Now if the UK was your target, it's even worse because Theresa May and her people are mimicking Trump's US anti-immigration agenda to the point of them going further by trying to deport black UK citizens with Caribbean origins(https://www.npr.org/2018/05/02/607652305/caribbean-immigrants-to-u-k-threatened-with-deportation). The only thing still left open that these rulers have been unable to touch/complicate yet is Greencard by marriage...and this is where we continue our thread from... Your boo will mostly have to marry someone there....but it's not that simple. This process also takes SEVERAL years before they get a greencard, trigger a messy divorce, rebuild themselves, before then being able to START sending for you. However it is important to keep in mind that: - Marrying someone purely for a greencard is a scam and is thus a very serious punishable offense worthy of deportation and a ban from the US. - The safest thing, is to simply marry for real, live in the same house, etc. - Sensible marriageable people can smell a potential marriage scam from a mile away now and don't enter marriage with guys/girls who don't have papers. - Since the prime marriage prospects avoid you, You'd probably have to pay someone with a complicated life to do the marriage deal with...and these persons are usually crazy in some way...as they would have to be to collect money to marry someone they don't know. - There is also the risk of the person you are married to taking advantage, asking for more money midway and/or sometimes even cancelling your greencard application...meaning it was all for naught and you'd then have to go back home anyway in failure after all the suffer. It's a hard long risky road, one that you in Naija may be totally ignorant of. In fact sometimes one could deduce that if the same amount of time, hussle and abuse-reception to get a greencard was spent building themselves in Naija, they probably would be farther in life themselves with more human dignity. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by planetx: 7:08am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Nig4Greatness:Lol I knew he was indirectly quoting me, how do you drive Uber or deliver food without a social security number or driver license. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by lionlee216(m): 7:13am On Dec 20, 2018 |
planetx: Bro, nothing is impossible. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Goddys(m): 7:16am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Lawyer777:. I appreciate your write up. Please I am a lawyer in Nigeria and would like to migrate to US. Please what's the ideal type of visa to apply for. I am single with no dependant, not even a girlfriend. Your advice is anticipated. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by JoseVanMoyes: 7:18am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Stevengold: well that's the man palava.. so during the 8 years, the wife was celibate abi.... the man dey cold dey hustle and the wife dey naija dey flex... weh don Sir |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 7:19am On Dec 20, 2018 |
GREEN CARD hard oooo The FASTEST route is MARRIAGE. But the marriage must be to a reasonable and understanding man or woman. Avoid Black Americans oooo They may dump you before your Green Card interview 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by JoseVanMoyes: 7:20am On Dec 20, 2018 |
nextstep: any thing the man did there, he did it for the papers.. Buh woman will be here sampling her vjay just for fun 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nukilia: 7:23am On Dec 20, 2018 |
2buffagain:May your days be long bro! I just hope Nigerians can vote for a new person apart from all these old crooks. Mention me when the politics thread is on.... It looks like Nigerians love incompetent leaders... 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 7:24am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Stevengold:We have so many People that did such. My MUM did likewise for us. My Mother in Law did likewise as well. It takes Love and commitment, knowing fully well that one cannot realize his GOD GIVING potentials in Nigeria fully. AMERICA is one country, one can enter with $30 in his pocket and bottle of groundnut in his hands and returns to Nigeria made for life. The LAZIEST man in Nigeria can excel in the US. It’s God’s own country. U can hate it but the truth is too Glaring. American Government makes you feel like a HUMAN BEING. Even Animals feel happy. No STRUGGLING NIGERIAN ever comes in and thinks of going Back to Africa. 16 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Contumely: 7:27am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Admitwithschola:Please elucidate on overwork and destroying social security. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by luminouz(m): 7:40am On Dec 20, 2018 |
See viewers!! Everyone wan japaaaaa! |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Oogway: 7:41am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Most of what the OP wrote is true but not everyone necessarily has to go through this; For a doctor once you pass your United States Medical Licencing exams you'll be granted a H1b visa with that your spouse can join you. with over 5years of working there you can start the process of your immigrant visa through several pathways beyond the scope of this cbat. I'll write an article on the USMLE soon 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Trinity33(m): 7:59am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Oogway: nice write up, am planing of writing usmle or plab soon, pls am waiting for the article, thanks 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by afroxyz: 8:10am On Dec 20, 2018 |
with all that has been did here you think officials if the US embassy don't visit nairaland to learn your migratory strategies? bunch of knuckleheads 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Chukazu: 8:14am On Dec 20, 2018 |
morningstar55: Las las ...everything comes down to politics. Policies of politicians affects your life positively or otherwise. You can't avoid mentioning it 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by doyinbaby(f): 8:24am On Dec 20, 2018 |
JoseVanMoyes:was the man also celibate for the 8yrs... |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Sarang(f): 8:25am On Dec 20, 2018 |
luminouz: |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Sarang(f): 8:28am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Prestigewins: I like this guy.. made so much sense |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by mdfash(m): 8:29am On Dec 20, 2018 |
True Talk |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 8:31am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Make you all pack up go Yankee, we go dey still dey here, my bottom line is going to those countries to study, Health care( God forbid) or vacation but anything else is a No no!!. And am the kind of person who thinks if you wanna do something, do it honestly, so even if I end up marrying a woman , we are stuck together 4ever till she cheats on me or decided to leave on her own . So I must not marry because of any gain. visa or otherwise. I really don't need to be filthy rich in my life, Just content, neither poor nor rich. Make I enjoy this temporary world surrounded with close friends & relatives both those that like & dislike me . After all the highest a man can live Na 10 to 15 decades. Let's make d remaining ones count 9 Likes
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Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Skmoda360(m): 8:37am On Dec 20, 2018 |
JoseVanMoyes:Was gbayi......��� |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Skmoda360(m): 8:44am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Oogway:What about a Registered Nurse? |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by JoseVanMoyes: 8:45am On Dec 20, 2018 |
doyinbaby: Any thing the man did, was done just for the money.. if he fvcks any pussy, he did it to cure cold so that he can be healthy to hustle for more money... if he married a whyte, he did it for the papers... Buh woman wey dey naija dey chop Dickson, what's her reason 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by doyinbaby(f): 8:49am On Dec 20, 2018 |
JoseVanMoyes:I will rather Me and my future husband stay in Nigeria and manage than for me to let him embark on a journey where he will be sleeping with all sorts of women just because we sha want American green card by all means 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Stevengold(m): 9:06am On Dec 20, 2018 |
JoseVanMoyes: The woman was faithful, funny enough she was a deaconess in her church, I'm not defending totally but the fact still remains that the man built a better life for them. And they're all happy in the end. Patience is key. Imagine if the woman wasn't faithful The man would have had a rethink on preparing a Visa for her. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by INTEGRITYA1(m): 9:07am On Dec 20, 2018 |
gaby: Nice one, you're back. Make mod dey tamper justice with mercy going forward. |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Stevengold(m): 9:07am On Dec 20, 2018 |
EVILFOREST: That's why we could kill to get that ViSA |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 20, 2018 |
What makes you think with time Canada and those countries you mentioned won’t have more strict immigrants laws. The problem is most blacks don’t add value. I don’t want to think it’s a cursed race. They don’t ever get things right. Give some an opportunity and they mess it up. You go to another man’s country and there you are misbehaving and making it tough for other people with genuine interest. As long as ISREAL isn’t tolerating blacks, with time other countries will follow. 5 Likes |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Buffalowings3(m): 9:17am On Dec 20, 2018 |
1Sharon: 1 Like |
Re: If Your Boyfriend Moves To USA Without Green Card, Just Move On by Ianmaduka(m): 9:20am On Dec 20, 2018 |
What happens to yank stays in yank.... 1 Like |
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