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I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before? 11 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by zenith4biz(m): 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
We are pencil in the hand of the creator 581 Likes 39 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:04pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
gloria34:you only see him as a friend. 67 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
gloria34:Gloria, Gloria, Gloria. You're not a virgin and you're depriving this guy who has invested time, love and money in you. 5 months?! Haba! You are wicked! Modified I'm sorry I didn't read your signature earlier, Gloria34. I would have had a better understanding of the dynamics of the situation. 177 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 4:05pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
make him understand,you dont like the touch ..if he loves you he wil understand...or else the touch wil grow to sensitive areas 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 4:07pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
gloria34: Fooool with sense of entitlement i qonder hoe you empty things see or.think of yourselves 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:16pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Earthbound:Time and love, i understand but money, NO! I brought this here cos i really Dont understand whats wrong, if its just me or others have experienced it so to all those who are out to insult, i will just ignore 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by chuddyforlife(m): 4:17pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
gloria34: but do u love his money?? 25 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by JasonScoolari: 4:17pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
kunleweb:Some of you dolts are just another reason Nairaland ladies call us Scums. What is the reason for the Insults? Must Gloria34 or any Female nairalander be like your sisters? Be civil and think well before you type some bullshit. No hard feelings. 224 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by cooluzi: 4:18pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
mikejj:understand what... imagine you having a girlfriend you can't touch... that's bullshit 44 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 4:18pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: Jetk off mofo. My comments,my data That's how they behave, don't touch me indeed 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:19pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
mikejj:Thats what i've tried doing but everyone is acting like something is wrong with me. Maybe i do see him as a friend as someone pointed out. I feel like i'm d only weird one 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by JasonScoolari: 4:21pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
gloria34:Even though you follow "Goat" do friend, he go still chop your yam. You're at fault dear, you should have defined the "friendship" from the start so that no one goes home hurt. The solution? Lol, just tell him that you're not ready. You be Warri babe, you suppose know every. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 4:22pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
gloria34:i feel you are not comfortable with this guy...tell ursef the truth 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:22pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
JasonScoolari:Lol, thanks dear. I have no intention of replying such comments, they are out to troll and i Cant allow such comments get to me 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Esthered: 4:24pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Gloria, some guys express love in touching their spouse. If you aren't comfortable with it then there's no harm in defining your relationship whether it's gonna be a platonic one..... if he can't cope, let him go and don't torment him emotionally to accept your terms to prove he loves you. I know that if a guy loves a lady, he would sacrifice to make it work. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 4:25pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
cooluzi:oga its 5 month and there is something call choice..let the relationship grow first 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MannieA(f): 4:25pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: Your comment made my evening. Nice one.I was about replying him but just chilled 39 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:25pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
chuddyforlife:I Dont understand y most guys think any girl in a relationship is after money. I Dont have d world but recently, my salary was increased to over 80k, i Dont beg to feed 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MannieA(f): 4:30pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
kunleweb: some of you males have big issues. If she allows him to touch her,you will call her a hoe. if she doesn't allow him,you will call her stupid.. Wat is the issue?? 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by carter009(m): 4:30pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Lol, what a stupid post,,, he is a nice guy, you guys spend some time together, his perfect in all areas,, but you don't want him to touch you,,, please quit they relationship if you don't want him touch you. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:32pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
@Gloria34 I certainly would like to know your answer to his question...... And why you didn't tell him exactly that? If you see him as a friend then at least let him know about it so you guys Aint wasting each others time. Let him also have the choice to bounce if he feels that he is wasting his time. mikejj: Love has nothing to do with this issue, because if "she" loved him she wouldnt be turned off by his contact. 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
mikejj:I am one confused being right now, sometimes i feel d relationship thing is not 4 me, its not just him |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by JasonScoolari: 4:35pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
kunleweb:Go and Prepare for JAMB next year. Buhari just reduced the fee. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:36pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Maybe you just need a "friend" not "boyfriend"....Just tell him you aren't comfortable with him touching you... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Airforce01(m): 4:38pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Keep forming nonsense as if you're a virgin 10 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by cooluzi: 4:38pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
mikejj:chai see comment... grow like a mango tree abi otidar 49 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
JasonScoolari:He has always been cool so i assumed it will always be so, truely i'm at fault |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Mcdreamy15: 4:41pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by cooluzi: 4:43pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
![]() MannieA:the isu is under the soil 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 4:45pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
MannieA: Ok |
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