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10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Nobody: 9:55pm On Dec 24, 2018
1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient and don't wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never, ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any of those from anyone else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.

10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that for ladies tomorrow ! Merry Christmas!

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by 2buffagain(m): 9:59pm On Dec 24, 2018
Amakavula:
1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient not wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never , ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay !

10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that of Us ladies tomorrow ! meet Christmas!

Number 9 is bullshit.
I might as well create a similar list and make my number 9 "Whenever you visit a man, always be sure to cook for him before you leave. He should not have a fridge empty of cooked food when you visit otherwise you have failed as a woman".

FOH with all this one sided shit. As if when a man makes similar demands to this current generation of females they don't start squawking feminist bullshit.

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:20pm On Dec 24, 2018
Amakavula:
3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

Yes family is important but certainly NOT a priority.... There are many things that should be above family....aka your own desire, your own health, your own pleasure, your own will....but most importantly, YOU should be the priority in your life, nobody Else, not even family/children/spouse

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

Apologize to a woman even if you are RIGHT and she is Wrong?!?! Why would anyone in his right mind do such a deluded thing?! How would someone learn anything if you do that? You should stop to argue, YES, but apologize for what you believe is RIGHT is not only foolish, but a sure way to fail in any Union. If someone is wrong and never apologize then it will just leave the door open for her to do exactly the same thing on and on... But instead you should have said:" never go to bed mad at your partner.. you should have an healthy disagreement and by the time you go to bed, all should be forgotten"

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!! Nobody cares what Ladies love, and if a man goes out of his way to always please women, regardless of whether it is RIGHT or wrong, then that man is a DONKEY!

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by goodnewscliff(m): 11:47pm On Dec 24, 2018
number 7 is soooooo important.......
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by CreepyBlackpool: 12:04am On Dec 25, 2018
op are you a transgender or you're aspiring to be one

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by EbukaHades10(m): 12:17am On Dec 25, 2018
Is these the standard rules or u made them up yourself?

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by ubunja(m): 1:10am On Dec 25, 2018
Amakavula:
1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient and don't wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never, ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any of those from anyone else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

[s]9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.
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10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that for ladies tomorrow ! Merry Christmas!

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by nedubest(m): 2:09am On Dec 25, 2018
make money, if u no get money, u go suffeR

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Dreyl(m): 8:12am On Dec 25, 2018
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Amakavula:
1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient and don't wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never, ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any of those from anyone else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.

10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that for ladies tomorrow ! Merry Christmas!
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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by MJBOLT: 8:37am On Dec 25, 2018
Amakavula:


[s]1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient and don't wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never, ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any of those from anyone else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.

10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that for ladies tomorrow ! Merry Christmas![/s]

Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Nobody: 8:38am On Dec 25, 2018
Amakavula:
1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient and don't wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never, ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any of those from anyone else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.

10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that for ladies tomorrow ! Merry Christmas!
ok I've heard you. smiley
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Nobody: 9:06am On Dec 25, 2018
2buffagain:


Number 9 is bullshit.
I might as well create a similar list and make my number 9 "Whenever you visit a man, always be sure to cook for him before you leave. He should not have a fridge empty of cooked food when you visit otherwise you have failed as a woman".

FOH with all this one sided shit. As if when a man makes similar demands to this current generation of females they don't start squawking feminist bullshit.

Imagine the feeling you get when you get down from a bus and a little girl decided to pay for your TP. It is an insult lol.. Same feeling comes when you go to a restaurant with a lady and you allowed her to pay, deep down, it makes you feel less a man.

Although it gets to a stage in the relationship where it no longer matter who pays. Anyway, don't be quick to refute. We all can be right at the same time. Depends on the angle you look at it.

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Nobody: 9:24am On Dec 25, 2018
@the guy above :
Less a man because a lady decided to pay a bill
That's bullsh*t!
Unless you have nothing else to offer, that's only when you feel less a man that a woman paid the bill for food you both consumed..

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by 2buffagain(m): 10:25am On Dec 25, 2018
Glycolysis:
@the guy above :
Less a man because a lady decided to pay a bill
That's bullsh*t!
Unless you have nothing else to offer, that's only when you feel less a man that a woman paid the bill for food you both consumed..

The average Nigerian man has terribly low self esteem.
It's why he needs money in his pocket before he even says hello to any female.

These guys are simps to the max.
Half of them wouldn't know what to do with themselves if they found out the girl they were planning on dating is actually a CFO of some multinational company who makes 5x their salary.

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Deandean: 11:59am On Dec 25, 2018
Glycolysis:
@the guy above :
Less a man because a lady decided to pay a bill
That's bullsh*t!
Unless you have nothing else to offer, that's only when you feel less a man that a woman paid the bill for food you both consumed..

If only u calm down to learn...ul undstd my brother,even ur wife who earns more than u do shld hardly b allowed to pay restaurant bills...its nt jst ur obligation, its ur manly right...if u let it go,she has rubd u of ur respect...n pls spit out dat poverty outlook on life dat u both consumed it....
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Deandean: 12:10pm On Dec 25, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


Yes family is important but certainly NOT a priority.... There are many things that should be above family....aka your own desire, your own health, your own pleasure, your own will....but most importantly, YOU should be the priority in your life, nobody Else, not even family/children/spouse



Apologize to a woman even if you are RIGHT and she is Wrong?!?! Why would anyone in his right mind do such a deluded thing?! How would someone learn anything if you do that? You should stop to argue, YES, but apologize for what you believe is RIGHT is not only foolish, but a sure way to fail in any Union. If someone is wrong and never apologize then it will just leave the door open for her to do exactly the same thing on and on... But instead you should have said:" never go to bed mad at your partner.. you should have an healthy disagreement and by the time you go to bed, all should be forgotten"



ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!! Nobody cares what Ladies love, and if a man goes out of his way to always please women, regardless of whether it is RIGHT or wrong, then that man is a DONKEY!

In my informed opinion....whether family shld b a priority or not is a question of whc family you came from,some family deserve to b a priority,others nope...no conclusive rule to that.

As 4 blind apologies....ur right,its dangerous,especially if d said lady z an opportunist...bt sumtimes,blind apologies contribute to peace in d home...if u undstd o

When u marry,ul apologise to op 4 ur third point
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:41pm On Dec 25, 2018
Deandean:
In my informed opinion....whether family shld b a priority or not is a question of whc family you came from,some family deserve to b a priority,others nope...no conclusive rule to that.

Family being a priority above your own self and desires/will?! Ok bro, to each their own misery and bondage

As 4 blind apologies....ur right,its dangerous,especially if d said lady z an opportunist...bt sumtimes,blind apologies contribute to peace in d home...if u undstd o

Nobody should ever apologize for what they believe is right, NEVER.
Apologies for what you believe his RIGHT does not bring peace in the home, it is just (imho):
- temporary settling for something, that will explode again in your face later
- creating a demon that you have no way of controling
- being weak or a coward,
- bringing a disease into your home
- lower the value of that said union
But most importantly it teaches the wrong values to your children

When u marry,ul apologise to op 4 ur third point

Just because i will never get married (to each their own misery), does not mean i dont have a family. Marriage is just a piece of paper....
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:58pm On Dec 25, 2018
Glycolysis:
@the guy above :
Less a man because a lady decided to pay a bill
That's bullsh*t!
Unless you have nothing else to offer, that's only when you feel less a man that a woman paid the bill for food you both consumed..

2buffagain:


The average Nigerian man has terribly low self esteem.
It's why he needs money in his pocket before he even says hello to any female.

These guys are simps to the max.
Half of them wouldn't know what to do with themselves if they found out the girl they were planning on dating is actually a CFO of some multinational company who makes 5x their salary.

I think the problem is simply that these guys who feel inferiør if a woman pays, feel that way because they have nothing to offer women, but money. They have nothing to bring to the table but money and the only way they can bring a smile to a Woman's face is with money. If you remove money from their Union, there is NOTHING left...these guys are boring, they have NO character, NO swag, NOTHING, thus the only way they can keep these women around them and content is to shower them with cash/gift.... And sadly, the minute the money dries up, its the minute these babes disappear.

They throw money to feel superior and control these unfortunate women.

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by newdawn2017(f): 3:15pm On Dec 25, 2018
Amakavula:
1. Let to say no and keep quiet. Never explain, this is important as it offers you a decision power and a command over your path in life.

2. Be patient and don't wait for immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal is, the more steps & time you need.

3. Make family priority, they are always there for you and will be when things go south. Mum , sisters and Dads are important.

4. Never, ever beg , force or cajole a lady into sex or relationship. It is pitiful and she will hate you for it.

5. Always have a goal or a dream you are chasing. Don't make me your priority rather make you vision your priority.

6. Go your own way, be your own man. You want to be a musician be one. You want to be a teacher be one. Never ever be ashamed of what you aspire to do.


7. Respect first before Love. She doesn't love you if she doesn't respect you. Ignoring your calls, lying and cheating are disrespectful. Never take any of those from anyone else you will be a drag.

8. Do not argue with a woman for more than a few minutes - apologize and forget. Men are creatures of action trading word throws you down the respect ladder.

9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, even if I say I can do it myself, insist, even get angry self but make sure you pay ! Ladies love to be taken care of.

10. Never rely too much on someone or overestimate your value in someone’s life.

Enjoy this? follow me and like the list. I will be putting out that for ladies tomorrow ! Merry Christmas!
no 7 really got me, I will 4ever work by respect 4 my man. No. 8 my man is a manly person of action & few words, he doesn't argue like a cockrel. I love d@ masculinity Abt him. He is no. 10 as well, so I am. He is no. 6 & 5 respectively. He is no 1, a manly person of few words. He is no 4. No time. I love it, despite d@ it can be hard 4 me 2 accept sometimes. He is no 2 & 3. He is a man of vision he doesn't go back in his words even when it isn't looking good 2 Him
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Nobody: 4:08pm On Dec 25, 2018
Deandean:


If only u calm down to learn...ul undstd my brother,even ur wife who earns more than u do shld hardly b allowed to pay restaurant bills...its nt jst ur obligation, its ur manly right...if u let it go,she has rubd u of ur respect...n pls spit out dat poverty outlook on life dat u both consumed it....
No form of disrespect when a woman decide to pay the bill.
Mr man, stop using that dumb psychology on me to prove your points!

No poverty mentality whatsoever when ur woman decide to pay the bill for the meal you both had.

#DoneWithYou!

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Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by Randy100: 4:16pm On Dec 25, 2018
Family over everything. I just had to agree.
Re: 10 Important Rules Of Manhood Every Nigerian Guy Must Obey by kmaster007: 9:59pm On Dec 25, 2018
I don't understand com again

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