I fear a lot over silly issues. Even for a small thing, I end up assuming the worst. Is it because I had overprotective parents?


small thing will happen like this i will become afraid

pls help
what can i do to stop this

i am also extremely shy and i hate that

Offend no man, once you abide by this condition whatsoever that frightens you say with bold faith. "NOT MY PORTION"
LEARN TO TELL UNFRIENDLY SITUATIONS THAT THEY"RE LIARS from now onward.

Greater is he that is you than he that is in the world.

Emzyme:
I fear a lot over silly issues. Even for a small thing, I end up assuming the worst. Is it because I had overprotective parents?


small thing will happen like this i will become afraid

pls help
what can i do to stop this

i am also extremely shy and i hate that

Can i recommend a church?

kunleweb:


Can i recommend a church?

dnt think its church related

2019 nothing like church sef

buh then what do i knw

Learn to still your mind. Meditation works for me.

Once you get afraid, consciously talk yourself out of it. Try to always be calm, speak and act less under such circumstances lest you make a grave mistake. I used to be afraid and shy until I upgraded myself intellectually, now I walk with my head held up high.

You grew up a fearful person. It is too bad that you can't overcome it now. What you need is to have a partner who is very outgoing and shows little signs of fear in worrisome circumstances. She will help you surmount the spirit of fear.
There is not much you can do all by yourself. That fear will only be subdued by association.

Hi. I had similar problem before.

I try to keep on mind that - no matter the situation - nothing can kill me so at the end everything will be well. Stay strong!!!!

Take very deep breaths. (Quick fix)
Learn to meditate. (Long term solution).

tanx for ur contributions

learnt a thing or two from the comments


i appreciate , will act on the points raised

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Emzyme:
I fear a lot over silly issues. Even for a small thing, I end up assuming the worst. Is it because I had overprotective parents?


small thing will happen like this i will become afraid

pls help
what can i do to stop this

i am also extremely shy and i hate that

Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one:

If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, and your well-being like the waves of the sea.--Isaiah--48:18

Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way all will be well with you.--Job 22:21

The ear that listens to the reproves of life abides among the wise!!!

Emzyme:
I fear a lot over silly issues. Even for a small thing, I end up assuming the worst. Is it because I had overprotective parents?


small thing will happen like this i will become afraid

pls help
what can i do to stop this

i am also extremely shy and i hate that

Where you not the one that said you will beat me until I start sneezing from the anus,then you'll leave me

Auladimeji1:
Where you not the one that said you will beat me until I start sneezing from the anus,then you'll leave me

are u ok?

pls do check my moniker again ?

and tell me when i said that


can you imagine

Emzyme:



are u ok?

pls do check my moniker again ?

and tell me when i said that


can you imagine

Fearfear! He was messing with you. You've got to learn to look at things calmly and with lesser emotions. Overall, we go all dey alright last last

sisisioge:




Fearfear! He was messing with you. You've got to learn to look at things calmly and with lesser emotions. Overall, we go all dey alright last last

i will try

was scared though
dnt knw y

What u have is anxiety disorder. We have a Facebook group. U are not alone. There is treatment. Medical and psychological. Add me on Whatsapp 08033721099

Emzyme
Hi, I know you've deactivated, but if you're still hanging around,
Yes, I think it's because you have overprotective parents who probably made it seem like the world was just full of evil and the only way to protect yourself was to be afraid of anything, anything at all, that can possibly bring harm and making you live in needless fear of the world.(Not that they are wrong, but most times it is an exaggeration, and e but it doesn't mean you'll live in fear)

If you feel that feeling of fear starting up, just force yourself to càlm down and feel at peace, tell yourself that nothing is going to happen and you only feel this way because of how you grew up.
The more you do this the more confident you'll feel and the less you'll feel so afraid.

Doesn't mean you should be ignorant of dangers, or you'll ignore your intuition, but, you should be able to live, really live. Not just to exist because of fear.