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Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by greatbuc(m): 9:25am On Dec 31, 2018 |
It's a grievous of fence and a sin. Some questions needs to be answered correctly. Why abort a baby without my knowledge? How did you get pregnant when we were not in good terms? When we got back together, why didn't you let me know? How could you let me find out me find out at this sad time? Who is going to pay the medical bills cos I'm off on sabbatical leave to clear my head? |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by TruthHurts100: 9:26am On Dec 31, 2018 |
The end. She's a killer. She can't kill me without my knowledge ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Godblesspmb: 9:28am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Mr Man, that baby is not yours.simple. Better let her go and meet the father of the baby if not you will continue training people's children in your house thinking they are yours. Man open your eyes |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by nijabazaar: 9:28am On Dec 31, 2018 |
SOFTDRINK: See, having a baby with defects x a real pain in the ass...its even better to remain childless than havr an xray deformed baby 1 Like |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Ufedolove: 9:30am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Too many reasons to abort this relationship. Clearly, the girl has had affairs which led to an unwanted pregnancy. To avoid future problems (of which is even impossible to avoid), she decided to abort the pregnancy (without her husband's consent) No time for story sef. Your cousin should decide which offense to base the relationship termination on and they include: Abortion Abortion without spouse's knowledge Alleged cheating Lack of trust Lost of love. For me, I would base it on all of the offenses above. Fear women. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Oyindidi(f): 9:31am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Op is the husband ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by SOFTDRINK: 9:31am On Dec 31, 2018 |
nijabazaar: You didn't answer my question. I ask again, why didn't she tell the husband about the defects? |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 9:36am On Dec 31, 2018 |
While I appreciate your angle, what gave her the right to decide alone on something as big as that, Something that was "allegedly" planted by ur husband? To worsen the issue, you couldn't confide in your Hubby's mum or any or his people you were close with even if you guys were feuding (which btw, they still dey make love wey allegedly result in the pregnancy). nijabazaar: |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Vince77(m): 9:36am On Dec 31, 2018 |
I'll divorce her without her knowledge. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 9:38am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by JuanDeDios: 9:38am On Dec 31, 2018 |
ValCon888:This is nonsense. She broke his TRUST. Do you know what trust means? What else was she hiding? It's enough to end a marraige. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Ebirra: 9:40am On Dec 31, 2018 |
nijabazaar: It seems like u've neva bn cheated on |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by victorian(f): 9:41am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Kobicove: Me too A friend gave birth to a child with defects they are going through hell as we speak. And the child is really an imbecileee.. I pity them. I told them, why didn't they abort? Why keep such child. They said its a sin to abort. I say na WA o Nothing wrong in aborting an slowpoke. They are better off ,not existing sef. Hmm but op, your friend marriage na wa. Am short of advice about it. Cause people like your friend will still reconcile with his wife. And accept her back.. So I have no advice jare. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 9:43am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Bros Lalasticlala I see ur hand o... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by leksymaxy(m): 9:43am On Dec 31, 2018 |
She shd leave fast before I hack her to death one night cuz i dey vex now |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by VULCAN(m): 9:45am On Dec 31, 2018 |
You sound very naive. If Not, you would have read BTW the lines. The pregnancy belonged to someone else. I can bet on it. And for her to go and abort with her landlady shows that the real father may not be around or he may be a married man. Or perhaps he is a student she met after she regained the admission she was pursuing. nijabazaar: |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 9:46am On Dec 31, 2018 |
victorian: Wen you swear for better for worse there are still some issues or trials you can gloss over. No one is perfect neither is any marriage perfect. But the decision to abort should have been taken together. You catch my drift? |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 9:48am On Dec 31, 2018 |
VULCAN: |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by victorian(f): 9:49am On Dec 31, 2018 |
FalklandOIO: That's true. She should have told him about it. Keeping such important info away from her husband is very wrong. And as its for better for worse. They should seat down and iron things out properly, be sincere with each other and forgive.. Then move on. Cos some marriages today, couples go through alot and still forgive each other 1 Like |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Ebirra: 9:54am On Dec 31, 2018 |
victorian: What prove does she hv dat d child actually hv defects now dat she didn't tell her husband, or she just removed a bastard |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by nijabazaar: 9:54am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Ebirra: Well, technically... Yes |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 31, 2018 |
I don't have a wife yet, and i don't think i will be having one anytime soon Gbe body ee |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by nijabazaar: 9:57am On Dec 31, 2018 |
SOFTDRINK: She could have been scared by the xray reports and made the decision impromptu. The husband might be a staunch Catholic whom he knew will oppose abortion no matter the consequences... In this case, xray deformity. So she went straight ahead. Afterall, she would be the one to bear most (yes, people will definitely heap the most blame on her) of the psychological trauma of giving birth to a seriously deformed child |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by bizhop01: 10:00am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Simple just abort her too |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by nijabazaar: 10:03am On Dec 31, 2018 |
victorian: Thats just the best advice.... Infact, i have sworn to subject my wife to every ante natal test for foetal deformity. Especially, for down syndrome. I can never, would never indulge in having a child with defects. The trauma is just too much |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by victorian(f): 10:06am On Dec 31, 2018 |
nijabazaar: Am telling you, just too much trauma. People praying to have imbeciles or down syndrome children ,instead of waiting on God to bless them at His own time with good healthy children I wish them luck 1 Like |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 10:10am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Lol, but lemme shock you fa? According to 'him' , what made him more furious was the fact that the first child when she was conceived. The first feeling they both had was that she was prolly down with malaria or typhoid and several drugs were administered to treat a variety of illness that could come to mind not knowing she was a week plus pregnant and the child came out healthy and chubby, fine as hell and her IQ no be here. So it begs the question you be God? Why play god over what you can't determine? Awamaridi nise Olorun. If you like expose ur foetus to the harshest of infrared or x-rays if God dey ur side and the child get PURPOSE he/she will come out unscathed. ![]() nijabazaar: |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by cyntigirl(f): 10:12am On Dec 31, 2018 |
I don't get.. She aborted because she knew that d baby would have some defects due to d X-ray she underwent or it was d X-ray that showed her d baby would have some defects? |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by FalklandOIO: 10:14am On Dec 31, 2018 |
More like preempting ![]() cyntigirl: |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by nijabazaar: 10:15am On Dec 31, 2018 |
FalklandOIO: See, you shouldn't have that angle of God decides. You decide. The foetus will posses a combination of the couples gene and the environment. In this case, xray exposure is involved. This is xray ooo, not typhoid drug. My hand no dey |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Youngpo413: 10:22am On Dec 31, 2018 |
victorian:even cheating? |
Re: Guys, What Would You Do If Your Wife Aborted Without Your Knowledge? by Emaprince: 10:29am On Dec 31, 2018 |
FalklandOIO:service? Haha haha... I know what you talking. In my NYSC days in camp especially, married women hid all their rings and did their thing Like the single ones did. They came to have fun.. And none of them wants to be left out. They wanted the attention and the sex fun. |
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