I have been dating this girl for the past six years. I met her when i was in school. She has helped me alot (financial wise). We both love each other even though we are from different tribe. At first, she told me her mother is not supporting our relationship because i am not their tribe. She later told me that she was able to convinced her mother but my mind is still not clear on that issue. The major problem i have with her is that, she is arrogant and lack respect to some extent. She doesn't want me close to any girl because of jealousy and she knows that I have nothing to do with any one of them.
So many quarrel and issue has occurred between us and even other people due to her arrogant nature. I have told her so many times to take it easy but it always seems to be that i am talking to myself. I tried to breakup with her sometimes ago, she started calling my mother and my friends.
Please nairalanders, what else should I do? #mature advice needed pls.

Inukwa? 6 years and you are still asking how to handle your girlfriend? You are not serious.

Your a wicked person


Six years without taking her to the alter


Your plan now is to break up with her, that's why your bringing up this stories


God go punish u if u no marry that girl

Homeboiy:
Your a wicked person


Six years without taking her to the alter


Your plan now is to break up with her, that's why your bringing up this stories


God go punish u if u no marry that girl

Seconded

I will comment after the elders have said their minds

I don't care if you've dated her for years or not.

But please, do not marry an arrogant lady who disrespects you out of pity.

6 kini

What you've condoned for six years, is a problem all of a sudden? when men are tired anything becomes an excuse

Fk her in the back hole, Lmfao

pluck her eyes out, lock her mouth and get her pregnant with a goat.

You're tired of her kpekus a.k.a kitten...simple and short.

...you didn't see the arrogant nature in years 1,2,3,4,5...ah! Bros fear God na

Homeboiy:
Your a wicked person


Six years without taking her to the alter


Your plan now is to break up with her, that's why your bringing up this stories


God go punish u if u no marry that girl

Homeboiy:
Your a wicked person


Six years without taking her to the alter


Your plan now is to break up with her, that's why your bringing up this stories


God go punish u if u no marry that girl

Homeboiy:
Your a wicked person


Six years without taking her to the alter


Your plan now is to break up with her, that's why your bringing up this stories


God go punish u if u no marry that girl

pls don't miss understood me. I never said i am going to leave or not marry her. I only asked for measures to take to reduce her arrogant nature.

I'm just tired of all these weakens of these days we call men. you can handle common, how the hell will you be able to handle a wife?
You never marry you don dey invite 3rd parties into your relationship... I'm tired and my tiredness is tired too

xendra:
What you've condoned for six years, is a problem all of a sudden?
when men are tired anything becomes an excuse

yes i condoned it because i love her and i have been praying for her to change. meanwhile, we are in a long distance relationship.

6years


Oh boy,You must finish what you hv started

Na because say she takes care of you financially.... try n get some money more than her... Respect will come when you live up to your responsibilities....




If all the above fail to calm her....

I suggest you FLEE

raphretle:
Na because say she takes care of you financially.... try n get some money more than her... Respect will come when you live up to your responsibilities....




If all the above fail to calm her....

I suggest you FLEE

Thanks.

raphretle:
Na because say she takes care of you financially.... try n get some money more than her... Respect will come when you live up to your responsibilities....




If all the above fail to calm her....

I suggest you FLEE

Thanks.

raphretle:
Na because say she takes care of you financially.... try n get some money more than her... Respect will come when you live up to your responsibilities....




If all the above fail to calm her....

I suggest you FLEE

Thanks.

Skillsmaster:
I have been dating this girl for the past six years. I met her when i was in school. She has helped me alot (financial wise). We both love each other even though we are from different tribe. At first, she told me her mother is not supporting our relationship because i am not their tribe. She later told me that she was able to convinced her mother but my mind is still not clear on that issue. The major problem i have with her is that, she is arrogant and lack respect to some extent. She doesn't want me close to any girl because of jealousy and she knows that I have nothing to do with any one of them.
So many quarrel and issue has occurred between us and even other people due to her arrogant nature. I have told her so many times to take it easy but it always seems to be that i am talking to myself. I tried to breakup with her sometimes ago, she started calling my mother and my friends.
Please nairalanders, what else should I do? #mature advice needed pls.

Bros, if u still care abt her calling family n friends, to shook mouth, then u're not ready!


Sha try return all her investments, make u no collect curse

xendra:
What you've condoned for six years, is a problem all of a sudden?
when men are tired anything becomes an excuse

6 kini? So you no observe her arrogance since last 6 years abi.

A relationship without trust and respect? Forget it

ouzo1:

Seconded

Thirded

Homeboiy:
Your a wicked person


Six years without taking her to the alter


Your plan now is to break up with her, that's why your bringing up this stories


God go punish u if u no marry that girl

u de cras for head

Do u know wht marriage is all about

Jst because of courtship for dating her for 6 years he owes her marriage abi,

If d girl truly cared about him
Don't u think she ll change some bad character she has?


Oga pray make u no marry d wrong person den u ll see how God him sef ll deny u since u saw d hand writing and choose to die

If you cant put up with her arrogance.. Better leave her and find a more loyal and homely girl.. How long you ve dated her is immaterial.. Arrogance and disrespect kills a man faster.

op try to avoid her financial hellp, get to work and take full charge

No nigerian lady will assist you financially and wouldnt want to be controlling your life

Skillsmaster:

yes i condoned it because i love her and i have been praying for her to change. meanwhile, we are in a long distance relationship.

.
Wow good guy n I hope you been practicing abstinence ryt.
If not, someone will do same to your daughter

Skillsmaster:
I have been dating this girl for the past six years. I met her when i was in school. She has helped me alot (financial wise). We both love each other even though we are from different tribe. At first, she told me her mother is not supporting our relationship because i am not their tribe. She later told me that she was able to convinced her mother but my mind is still not clear on that issue. The major problem i have with her is that, she is arrogant and lack respect to some extent. She doesn't want me close to any girl because of jealousy and she knows that I have nothing to do with any one of them.
So many quarrel and issue has occurred between us and even other people due to her arrogant nature. I have told her so many times to take it easy but it always seems to be that i am talking to myself. I tried to breakup with her sometimes ago, she started calling my mother and my friends.
Please nairalanders, what else should I do? #mature advice needed pls.

Grow some balls & shoot straight, Op: YOU WANT OUT COS YOU'VE HAD YOUR FILL OF HER

That STAGE ain't easy to pass. Only a FEW guys navigates it successfully!