oluwakayode25:



Okay, you made some valid points but the blogger made conclusions based on the comments his post received on Instagram.. Nobody cared.....BTW, somebody on his Instagram has to know somebody who knows somebody, make we die the matter but I think the young blogger made a valid point.. We as Nigerians are just not caring.. It's just the truth.

oluwakayode25:



Okay, you made some valid points but the blogger made conclusions based on the comments his post received on Instagram.. Nobody cared.....BTW, somebody on his Instagram has to know somebody who knows somebody, make we die the matter but I think the young blogger made a valid point.. We as Nigerians are just not caring.. It's just the truth.

VictorRomanov:


We cant just conclude. The blogger and the people he was criticizing and condemning have the same thing in common: drawing conclusions without having all the facts.

Some people conclude that people who commit suicide are weak, but they just conclude without knowing all the facts. Some suicide cases can be as a result of mental issues.

The blogger concludes that someone, either a family member or a friend, had seen the post and had failed to take action. But that's also concluding without knowing all the facts. How does he know that someone didnt act? How did he know the family members or friends didnt just get the news, just like he got it?

That's my issue with him

Latestnewsnaija:


Biko how is he a Nonsense guy the situation you used as an example to back up the trash you just wrote doesnt apply to every other person biko

Emvico34:
well we know is not easy. Different people faces different challanges at different time,but no one has the right to take his own life. Your creator owns your life not your. Now he is gone and the said lady is still alive. He is facing judgement already...never take your own life

Latestnewsnaija:


Go to the blogger and iron out whatever issues...If the socalled family had helped or reached or even visited him within the time frame Djxgee would stilll be alive

BOWOTO:

You're dumb!

Latestnewsnaija:


Its not because of a woman habbaa

sprinter101:


Don’t say that again,don’t pray you experience heartbreak,not a good thing,he is stupid that is why he took his life,need to be strong.the experience of heart break is not i wish for my enemy even,the pains,sleepless night and the trauma is not good

bonna4u:

You are right about depression having sizes but I don't think taking his life was his only option.
That was why I said; "he should have chosen his path" in my last sentence.

oluwakayode25:


Have you ever tried to seat down and see life through other people's eyes..
Probably his job was a mess, no love from friends and family, wife left... Imagine he posted the message some hours before he took his life and probably waited for people to reach out to him and no one did... You don't think these things happen, some people do not see reasons to live as things just do not work out for them... Be thankful for your own case

victorian:
In the past when I was so depressed, lonely, sad and hungry. No one reached out to me, even dating then was like, am dating myself. Yes even with my looks, I was damned lonely, guys coming my way were wolves in sheep clothing , they appear as calm as a lamb but later I realised they were wolves, I was dealt with terribly emotionally. I was so depressed, then I didn't have these awesome female friends I now have. Back then I was aloner but the wrong guys were wooing me, just to destroy me at the end. They almost succeeded, I almost tried to commit suicide but the voice of my late mum rang into my head, Victoria don't disappoint me, no man is worth dying for. You are all I have remaining, pls don't do it. I sighed.

I cried, like have never cried before. Then I made up my mind, shelve guys one side Biko, focus on God. Always attend church service, so your mind and soul will be filled with the love and words of God.
My Worship time in church and at home and work is like Heaven to me. As if am in paradise.

Then later good female friends came into my life. Their jokes, their humour, their seriousness at time makes me wonder and marvel on how different all my female friends were. I felt better, happier, at peace and more stable than ever before.

Na me, sef dey give them hope, and strength these days

Especially when they complain about what's going on in their lives emotionally. When they ask Vicky when will u marry your man. I will say Biko, leave marriage one side abeg. I don't have the strength for it. I can't go through what u guys go through emotionally anymore. Have been through hell and back. So just leave me as I dey like this, biko. . When time to have kids come., I will have kids.

Am in a peaceful, happy and grateful state. Can't let no man destroy it for me again. That's the truth.


And I told myself one thing: Nobody, I mean nobody owes me anything in this life. If you believe it and let it stick into your brain, you will be fine.

I say that, so that I don't need to depend on anyone or hope on anybody for anything. Except on God. God is all I need. When man fails, God shows up. That's the truth about me. With such knowledge, I don't feel any sense of disappointment if anybody says no to any request I make. But when my female friends go all the way to d things for me, I feel so touched and most times I hug them and playfully tickle them and say thank you.

So depressed and suicidal people out there, should STOP depending on anybody! Stop waiting for people to save you. Cause none will. Everybody is focused on their daily hustle. So don't depend on people.

Depend and focus on God. Breathe and live in the presence of God. Attend a church that gives u peace and teach u how to be strong during good times and bad times. A church that brings positive change in your life. Accept Christ , talk to him whenever u are confused and sad. He always listens if only you come to Him.

That's my advice o. Cause have been in such scenario before.

Rip to dj

Joromi12:
He could not cater for his family . The nigerian parents and society go force pple to marry even even when they cant feed themselves. Nonsense

weyreypey:

Your looks?

victorian:






What up with my looks?

weyreypey:

Tell us more about your looks..

victorian:








My looks is not the topic of discussion here.

You can check my dp, the looks will talk for itself.

Whatever u can deduce from my pic, take am like that. It's all yours.

weyreypey:

You said even with your looks.... What did you mean by that?

victorian:







Abeg fimi si le bobo yi.

From everything I typed, u picked out my looks?

Seems uv never been suicidal or depressed before when things are going well for u.

weyreypey:

Woman kindly explain even with your looks ..... Haba is it too much?

Yewandequeen:
i have been there and i know how it feels so don't tell me his option was the best. Probably he was just the type that doesnt share his problems. But then who am i to judge?