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Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. / Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things / My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Apination(m): 5:07pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Change the way you think and you will see the changes you desire. Try and look at the world from different directions and make a better meaning of what life means 5 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by lampard8888: 5:07pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
will you pls stop waving ur temperaments like its some batch of honour?? 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by 5thAngel(f): 5:08pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Thought you was a female. For a male, you need deliverance bro. |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by GodIsFoolish: 5:08pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Judicible(m): 5:08pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Don't react to everything you hear. There are certain things you should ignore 4 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by stubbornman(m): 5:08pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by lekkan(m): 5:08pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Hmmmmm Have you ever sat down to ask yourself why you're always angry? Is it money, food, material things or what? Always have the mindset that nobody is worth your anger. Above all, visit a counseling center 3 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Josephjnr(m): 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
How are we sure you won't get angry at our pieces of advice here? Just wondering. 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by GodIsFoolish: 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
englishmart: I HAVE ONLY KILLED 15 PEOPLE |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Adebowale89(m): 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
I was once like you. What you need to do is to redress your social vices Visit cinemas around weekend, relate with comedies series. Pick one of the things that make you happy, socialize it and build fun out of it My own was even worse that I desist repetition. I don't see this as problem because you can easily observed it. An issue or condition becomes a problem when you don't know it exist 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
ToyinDipo:Nice! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Rosarie(f): 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
First take time and go out and breath fresh air.browse Bible verses on anger.tell God to help u.make conscious effort to help urself.if it comes say I am calm.i am calm.it will not be so easy but if u put effort u will see u will triumph the devil. 3 Likes
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by lilmax(m): 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
sexymoma:smh....as always, didn't expect something reasonable 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by GodIsFoolish: 5:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by BedLam: 5:10pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
From what I see, you lack tolerance. People like want to be in control and when you are not or things don't work your way then your anger comes which spiral. I wish I could recommend a book to you but I haven't any right now. You can google. Your case is not easy but if you want to change, you will see change. 4 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by JennyOfOldstones(f): 5:10pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Alpha001:Hey, are you religious? If you are then you should talk to God about your problems every day. Tell him to give you a forgiving heart and to soften your heart. It's not easy to overcome but it helps. And if you have the means, you can seek the help of a good clinical psychologist too. I think you have a borderline personality disorder. 5 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by penplus: 5:10pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Alpha001: Your problem is spiritual. Go for deliverance. Try Mountain of fire May GOD help you in JESUS NAME 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
When people offend you, be the first to greet the person the following day. It will be hard but just do it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Shikena(m): 5:11pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
It is not going to be easy but it is a complex that could be tamed. You need to go easy on yourself. You think everything is all about you and you scrutinize everything you do or that was done against you. Your first major challenge is to start trivializing everything, they are not that important and life is too short to keep holding on to every moment in the past - you simply don't have enough time on earth for that. Do not live for the past, live for the future. Let go! It's not easy, but always remind yourself and be your own number 1 clown. Laugh at your own mistakes and tell yourself 'I cannot come and go and kill myself jo!'. Make excuses for people whether they apologize or not. Be their invisible lawyer and defend them in your mind. It will free you. You will master it in no time and become totally relaxed - then you start enjoying life. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by idu1(m): 5:12pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
sexymoma:so, where are you from? 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by BedLam: 5:12pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
JennyOfOldstones: Giving it to "god" is bottling it. That's why you have the most religious people doing bad things. This is a deadly advice. Stop it 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by elyte89: 5:13pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Get a girlfriend first If u can cope with her for 6months wout having same issue,den u re already getting out of ur problems Cos women can be so annoying 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Onyekachi419(f): 5:13pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Fasting and praying wil help 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by sexymoma(f): 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
lilmax:kuku type say i be your crush.. see i enter this forum u don dey quote me.. u suppose don give woman belle by now na.. small sense suppose don dey for you |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by elonize(m): 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Neva been in a relationship, wetin u cm dey use ur love do since,plus u bid help from God cos it's the spirit of anger that is with you,who tell u say u don't need a spiritual help,my guy as far as life is concern,all most everything has spirit, shey u know,pray to God for the grace to let go Alpha001: 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by samzy(m): 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by JennyOfOldstones(f): 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
BedLam:Opinion duly noted. To each his own 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by sexymoma(f): 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by ikorodureporta: 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
When people know u'r quiet, some 'not too intelligent' ones wld definitely take you for a 'fool' and it really hurts. From time, yr system reacts by ignoring them, since u don't wanna hurt anyone by overreacting... It's natural! When someone hurts you, let them know immediately. Don't keep quiet until your anger becomes monsterous. By speaking out immediately, they won't repeat dat sh** with you 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
GODPUNISHUNA: Sharrap, what do you mean, how can u compare his symptoms with that of a schizophrenic. He just needs anger management and a little bit of psychotherapy. 5 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by TinaG(f): 5:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Ask God to help you out.i was once in your shoes but I had to pray and fast before that spirit left me. 1 Like |
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