Lol mumu. Used for papers lol

androidroot:
Thanks for the whole insult. Actually I've been depressed and this my only way of getting over it (Trolling) but you just displayed your exclaimed maturity by clapping back with insults; is all good

If you're depressed and looking to break out, you need to talk to people and open up not go online and start trolling people.. You ain't helping yourself or anybody like that, Imagine if I was one depressed nigga too and your first comment bfr my reaction was sent to me, you'll be fúcking up another depressed guy with that.. I'm sorry I came hard on you, my bad

kiddoiLL:
You sound like a glorified educated first class idiot!! A big one at that.. I ain't Igbo, Nor Yoruba nor Hausa, and the reason I questioned why she stressed Igbo is because of certain rétards who derive pleasure in tribalism on this forum..there's an idiot up there who already did the flat head comment.. I don't expect a senseless fella like u to understand shít

Like I stated early your rant is full of no substance. Wether someone up there or down there take advantage of her narrative is no reason why she can’t tell if she being defrauded by an Igbo Yoruba or Hausa. It is actually beta she mentioned it so it is on record instead of lumping all Nigeria together.

I have stayed long enough on NL to see Igbo says the super eagle is a Biafra team, claim British mp that of their descendant n many other positives. Now tell me why Nigeria as to share the negatives when they are unwilling to share the positives with them. Deep down you know this is the truth and I know you can tell how foolish your reasoning is.

That aside I can tell Igbos from miles away and am not fooled by your am not Igbo narrative.

Shawnnn01:
Like I stated early your rant is full of no substance. Wether someone up there or down there take advantage of her narrative is no reason why she can’t tell if she being defrauded by an Igbo Yoruba or Hausa. It is actually beta she mentioned it so it is on record instead of lumping all Nigeria together.

I have stayed long enough on NL to see Igbo says the super eagle is a Biafra team, claim British mp that of their descendant n many other positives. Now tell me why Nigeria as to share the negatives when they are unwilling to share the positives with them. Deep down you know this is the truth and I know you can tell how foolish your reasoning is.

That aside I can tell Igbos from miles away and am not fooled by your am not Igbo narrative.

You can rant from now till tomorrow and it still won't change a thing..knowing how low IQ people jump at every little chance to promote tribalism you'd still stand for folks mentioning Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa.. your dead brain won't let you understand that this is a forum and discussions could go on without a single percent of Tribal names being mentioned... Look for someone else to share your stupidity with, i'm done replying you...
As for you claiming you can tell Igbos from miles away.. the joke's on you dimwit, I ain't even Nigerian.. You're welcome to wallow in your own world of stupidity.. I'll pour you a drink to that

kiddoiLL:
I ain't even Nigerian..

bros you can lie ooo

SilentWisper:
bros you can lie ooo

SMH what's there to lie about? I ain't Nigerian even though I spent most part of my life here.. Everybody living in the country are Nigerians?

he's just using u.very much possible he and his so called ex wife are still together

Dajazzyone:
My igbo husband and I have a 4 month old baby. He has 2 kids back home in Nigeria ages 6 and 4. From the start of our courtship he told me his ex wife remarried and moved away and his sister is raising his kids. For Christmas, his sister posted pictures on Facebook and the ex wife was in the photos with the kids. When I asked about her he said his mom thought it would be a good idea if the ex wife spent the Holidays visiting the kids. I asked his sister if I could call her often to speak with the kids and she said she is busy during the day and that her friend keeps the kids and so I should call on weekends and Holidays . I saw the divorce decree. Is it possible they are still married traditionally? Would the wife remain with him even though we have a child together? If he is scamming why have a child with me and build a life etc versus finding contract marriage? Help me please

Your igbo husband is a thief he's fraud, what are you waiting for? report him to the authorities for scam marriage Asap.guys like him are giving us bad name damn

kiddoiLL:
SMH what's there to lie about? I ain't Nigerian even though I spent most part of my life here.. Everybody living in the country are Nigerians?

ok name your country

Dajazzyone:
My husband and I have a 4 month old baby. He has 2 kids back home in Nigeria ages 6 and 4. From the start of our courtship he told me his ex wife remarried and moved away and his sister is raising his kids. For Christmas, his sister posted pictures on Facebook and the ex wife was in the photos with the kids. When I asked about her he said his mom thought it would be a good idea if the ex wife spent the Holidays visiting the kids. I asked his sister if I could call her often to speak with the kids and she said she is busy during the day and that her friend keeps the kids and so I should call on weekends and Holidays . I saw the divorce decree. Is it possible they are still married traditionally? Would the wife remain with him even though we have a child together? If he is scamming why have a child with me and build a life etc versus finding contract marriage? Help me please

Well, I am almost sure that you are not a Nigerian. I am a Nigerian and resides in Nigeria. I hv seen men who have wife in Nigeria and marry another abroad. Sometimes, it's consensual btw the wife (the one at home) and the man. Shortly after the civil war (70s), the country plunged into economic woes. It was established that people of Nigeria decent paid some Africa-America to marry them in exchange for residency permit. That was the root of this demon.

Am I saying there no upright people here? Certainly not. But there is high chance that your man is not telling you the whole truth. How can you get the truth? Technology. Tap his calls and text and his fb account (without his consent of course).

You can do that with click of a button. Dnt ask me how. Make enquiries. I wish you well.

SilentWisper:
ok name your country

I'm what you'd call mixed I guess?? Dad's Ghanian and Mom's Togolese.. Satisfied?? That guy just dey type like mumu, can sense Igbo from afar, Mr Sensodyne 1 of Africa

kiddoiLL:
I'm what you'd call mixed I guess?? Dad's Ghanian and Mom's Togolese.. Satisfied?? That guy just dey type like mumu, can sense Igbo from afar, Mr Sensodyne 1 of Africa

ok .loz this is Nl l blame seun and his moderators

Dajazzyone:
My husband and I have a 4 month old baby. He has 2 kids back home in Nigeria ages 6 and 4. From the start of our courtship he told me his ex wife remarried and moved away and his sister is raising his kids. For Christmas, his sister posted pictures on Facebook and the ex wife was in the photos with the kids. When I asked about her he said his mom thought it would be a good idea if the ex wife spent the Holidays visiting the kids. I asked his sister if I could call her often to speak with the kids and she said she is busy during the day and that her friend keeps the kids and so I should call on weekends and Holidays . I saw the divorce decree. Is it possible they are still married traditionally? Would the wife remain with him even though we have a child together? If he is scamming why have a child with me and build a life etc versus finding contract marriage? Help me please

why don't you get employ the services of a private investigator here in Nigeria?

Your life and money might be at risk if you don't.
people are wicked and would do anything to get what they want. you need to protect yourself

SilentWisper:
ok .loz this is Nl l blame seun and his moderators

swear down..the way they let tribalism keep growing on this forum is alarming

JjBankys:
I'm sorry where are you from?I mean your Nationality.

I'm from america

kiddoiLL:
I'm what you'd call mixed I guess?? Dad's Ghanian and Mom's Togolese.. Satisfied?? That guy just dey type like mumu, can sense Igbo from afar, Mr Sensodyne 1 of Africa

Continuing lying to your soul.

nerdfrost:
....u like abdulazeez

Remove your cap, let's see your flat head

hello dear i am an igbo lady i reside in the eastern part of Nigeria if you can send your husbands home address i can check for you if he is really divorce or not here is my email address nkirucynthia@gmail.com.

Dajazzyone:
Headless chicken , I talk to his mom weekly so does that mean she is in on the scam too? She was in the pictures with the ex wife. When I ask him to show me proof that he is sending the money to his mom.He claims his uncle sends money to his mom for him because he doesnt have a bank in Nigeria and would lose money when converting from US dollars. We do have American men but they can be immature at times.

Dear Poster,
So sad that most people here ain't being reasonable.
It's a 50-50 case here.
It's possible that the guy needs you for papers cos it's the history of most of such marriages & due to bad economy in Nigeria.
However, it's also possible the guy is real with you. In Igboland, usually the man owns the kids unlike in most western culture; the kid once upto 12yrs belongs to the man & that's the culture.
Their mom is allowed unhindered access to them.once she proves the visit is healthy.
Your concern proves nothing so, dig more

Dajazzyone:


I'm from america

Ok white or black

Dajazzyone:
My husband and I have a 4 month old baby. He has 2 kids back home in Nigeria ages 6 and 4. From the start of our courtship he told me his ex wife remarried and moved away and his sister is raising his kids. For Christmas, his sister posted pictures on Facebook and the ex wife was in the photos with the kids. When I asked about her he said his mom thought it would be a good idea if the ex wife spent the Holidays visiting the kids. I asked his sister if I could call her often to speak with the kids and she said she is busy during the day and that her friend keeps the kids and so I should call on weekend friends and Holidays . I saw the divorce decree. Is it possible they are still married traditionally? Would the wife remain with him even though we have a child together? If he is scamming why have a child with me and build a life etc versus finding contract marriage? Help me please

Sister.... The fact is even if u see a divorce decree.. She is still his wife n will keep being his wife...
Just know where u stand..
Him having kids with u don't guarantee u anything....
Just make sure he don't use u..
But if he loves u... Then know he loves u..
I will tell u this.. The woman back home wil always be d mother of his child..
And I see no reason why u cant speak with the kids whenever u want..
They hiding things if not why should u call on weekends or public holiday.
Now do this..
Sit ur husband down... And ask him why he's hiding d fact that he's still married to his babymama n lied bout been divorced n that a fake divorce decree...
Just tell him u know why his hiding his kids..
And u wanna know where u stand

JjBankys:
Ok white or black

I'm black

ghettochild4u:

Sister.... The fact is even if u see a divorce decree.. She is still his wife n will keep being his wife...
Just know where u stand..
Him having kids with u don't guarantee u anything....
Just make sure he don't use u..
But if he loves u... Then know he loves u..
I will tell u this.. The woman back home wil always be d mother of his child..
And I see no reason why u cant speak with the kids whenever u want..
They hiding things if not why should u call on weekends or public holiday.
Now do this..
Sit ur husband down... And ask him why he's hiding d fact that he's still married to his babymama n lied bout been divorced n that a fake divorce decree...
Just tell him u know why his hiding his kids..
And u wanna know where u stand

I've tried so many times asking for him to be honest. He told me he will not tell me a lie. I've told him I don't want to waste my years building a marriage with him and he has another wife. Apart from this we have no issues. He treats me great. We both are hard workers. He wants his kids to come over to stay and I agree because they need their father.. I'm just afraid if he has plans for the "ex wife" to come then I'm being made a fool of.

Dajazzyone:
My husband and I have a 4 month old baby. He has 2 kids back home in Nigeria ages 6 and 4. From the start of our courtship he told me his ex wife remarried and moved away and his sister is raising his kids. For Christmas, his sister posted pictures on Facebook and the ex wife was in the photos with the kids. When I asked about her he said his mom thought it would be a good idea if the ex wife spent the Holidays visiting the kids. I asked his sister if I could call her often to speak with the kids and she said she is busy during the day and that her friend keeps the kids and so I should call on weekends and Holidays . I saw the divorce decree. Is it possible they are still married traditionally? Would the wife remain with him even though we have a child together? If he is scamming why have a child with me and build a life etc versus finding contract marriage? Help me please

in all cases of divorce, i have seen culturally, the wife ends up with the kids, this is natural, the man goes his own way and if he likes contact the kids,

red flags

-divorced and kids still with him- in Nigeria, most men when divorced will give the kids to the mother so that he can hustle, if he is responsible, he will come and see his kids, sometimes when he remarries, he can bring the kids to leave with him, it is not a must. but from experience, mothers always want their kids except she is dead or a deadbeat mum

- reluctance and excuses, they have been caught and trying hard to change the narrative, if it was true, she would have allowed you to speak with the kids. a truthful person will be open and all the excuses he is giving, in my opinion, when excuses starts something is fishy going on.

the divorce paper must be fake, nowadays, people fake anything, if i am right everybody in the family is in with the scam

my question for you

what is his immigration status in the US?
do you guys plan to marry? do you plan to file papers for him


my problem is i have seen cases like this, the man has a wife in Nigeria travels abroad and marry another person abroad for papers without telling you but still legally married in Nigeria.

the real stuff here is that he was open to you about the divorce, has a kid with you, the problem is the pictures you saw online. has the picture been deleted online?

only the divorce paper is the clue, verify privately about the divorce paper, go to the Nigeria embassy, they will help you verify and see where it leads you, after that take your decision.

dont forget original divorce paper can also be gotten by bribe here in Nigeria)

nkirueze:
hello dear i am an igbo lady i reside in the eastern part of Nigeria if you can send your husbands home address i can check for you if he is really divorce or not here is my email address nkirucynthia@gmail.com.

Hi I just emailed you

Joromi12:
Lol mumu. Used for papers lol

Glad that my life is funny to you. Would you be laughing if I was your sister being mistreated

"He said he paid the bride price for her to born a son so he can gain his deceased father's land as though it was a business deal."

culturally, as the first born he is entitled to his father land

"you talk to the mom weekly but cant talk to the kids weekly too"

"He claims his uncle sends money to his mom for him because he doesnt have a bank in Nigeria and would lose money when converting from US dollars"

he doesnt have a bank account in nigeria, that means he sends money through western union, but i don't understand how he is gonna lose money except his uncle receives the money in dollars and exchange it in the black market

but Nigeria banking law for western union is that once money is sent to you in dollars, you will receive it in the naira equivalent. it is logical because we do not use dollars here and we are trying to protect our economy against inflation.

everything just look scary, there is also a prepared answer for you.

thebosstrevor:


in all cases of divorce, i have seen culturally, the wife ends up with the kids, this is natural, the man goes his own way and if he likes contact the kids,

red flags

-divorced and kids still with him- in Nigeria, most men when divorced will give the kids to the mother so that he can hustle, if he is responsible, he will come and see his kids, sometimes when he remarries, he can bring the kids to leave with him, it is not a must. but from experience, mothers always want their kids except she is dead or a deadbeat mum

- reluctance and excuses, they have been caught and trying hard to change the narrative, if it was true, she would have allowed you to speak with the kids. a truthful person will be open and all the excuses he is giving, in my opinion, when excuses starts something is fishy going on.

the divorce paper must be fake, nowadays, people fake anything, if i am right everybody in the family is in with the scam

my question for you

what is his immigration status in the US?
do you guys plan to marry? do you plan to file papers for him


my problem is i have seen cases like this, the man has a wife in Nigeria travels abroad and marry another person abroad for papers without telling you but still legally married in Nigeria.

the real stuff here is that he was open to you about the divorce, has a kid with you, the problem is the pictures you saw online. has the picture been deleted online?

only the divorce paper is the clue, verify privately about the divorce paper, go to the Nigeria embassy, they will help you verify and see where it leads you, after that take your decision.

dont forget original divorce paper can also be gotten by bribe here in Nigeria)

He came here on a B1 Visa. We have been married a year. We have interview to adjust his status coming soon. Yes my issue is the pictures. If he knew that his mom had mentioned the ex wife was coming for the holidays why not just tell me. I wouldn't be upset about her visiting the kids. Also he told me the ex wife stays hours away. When I talked with his sister she said her and the ex wife are best friends and the ex wife visits regularly to help her with errands etc. The sister had no idea that my husband told me the ex wife lived far away. The pictures are still online. I feel the sister will just block me from Facebook so I can't see her profile anymore.

Dajazzyone:
Headless chicken , I talk to his mom weekly so does that mean she is in on the scam too? She was in the pictures with the ex wife. When I ask him to show me proof that he is sending the money to his mom.He claims his uncle sends money to his mom for him because he doesnt have a bank in Nigeria and would lose money when converting from US dollars. We do have American men but they can be immature at times.

Be careful and investigate wisely.

Before making your conclusions

Dajazzyone:


He came here on a B1 Visa. We have been married a year. We have interview to adjust his status coming soon. Yes my issue is the pictures. If he knew that his mom had mentioned the ex wife was coming for the holidays why not just tell me. I wouldn't be upset about her visiting the kids. Also he told me the ex wife stays hours away. When I talked with his sister she said her and the ex wife are best friends and the ex wife visits regularly to help her with errands etc. The sister had no idea that my husband told me the ex wife lived far away. The pictures are still online. I feel the sister will just block me from Facebook so I can't see her profile anymore.

Like I said be careful.

Do not allow them raise suspicions

ahiboilandgas:
Nijia make we no dabaru our hommie payrole,we know as thing hard for zoo and to get Pali jar comot no dey funny . ...since the guy no fall pay cunny way him wan try dey their but dem no go agree reason make the mama bonboy be two on for villa and another for jand ....i beg make we no scatter the parole..they guy don get pikin ,And this to help the other zoo pikin ....

Na only we dey hungry for the world abi? When are we as Nigerians whether home or abroad going to start living decently?

thebosstrevor:
"He said he paid the bride price for her to born a son so he can gain his deceased father's land as though it was a business deal."

culturally, as the first born he is entitled to his father land

"you talk to the mom weekly but cant talk to the kids weekly too"

"He claims his uncle sends money to his mom for him because he doesnt have a bank in Nigeria and would lose money when converting from US dollars"

he doesnt have a bank account in nigeria, that means he sends money through western union, but i don't understand how he is gonna lose money except his uncle receives the money in dollars and exchange it in the black market

but Nigeria banking law for western union is that once money is sent to you in dollars, you will receive it in the naira equivalent. it is logical because we do not use dollars here and we are trying to protect our economy against inflation.

everything just look scary, there is also a prepared answer for you.

Yes he mentioned black market. As far as the land, his dad died when he was 6 months old. He said his uncles took the properties and he wasn't able to inherit the land until he born a son. I ask these questions because although it's not the American norm it could be for Nigerians. Thanks for explaining