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Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by VERDA: 11:07pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Onechancearmy:Is it that you did not read or you have comprehension problem?...will a man that has low self esteem open something that big for the wife??, even going as far as telling your husband you can take care of yourself and moving into a hotel....she is not a wise woman,a wise woman would have built something really big for herself. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by VERDA: 11:09pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
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Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by VERDA: 11:11pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
megareal:But all of a sudden she is submissive...which means she is not matured enough to handle wealth,how can you move into a hotel for a week cos a fight with ur husband in the name of I have my own money now.Dumb. 4 Likes |
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Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:30pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Ziggylady:She wey get high self esteem make she use her money open shop na! Someone established you and simple respect you no fit give am, come dey talk of self esteem. Who self esteem epp? 3 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:31pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
mechanics:Go and read the story! 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Mobola33:Your own is still okay. Nigerian men abroad are facing worst situation. You bring your wife abroad, got her passport, got her job and even car and then you become nobody as a husband. This is why some men go to the extent of killing their supposed wife. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by mechanics(m): 11:38pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:I have read the story. |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by BabbanBura(m): 12:13am On Jan 09, 2019 |
omojesu316: Bros, you need to read both the stories and our comments with open mind so you understand, believe me you can never be better than many of us here in promoting the cause of and making women better - we however detest the ills some of these women exude 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by naijajobx: 1:02am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Nobody: 3:01am On Jan 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:Thank you |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Dshocker(m): 3:17am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Valerie47: Why his dick?.... |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Darevofpeace(m): 4:10am On Jan 09, 2019 |
izaray:A problem cannot be solved at the level it was created,he did the right thing as long as the result came forth.The man is an evil genius thou. |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by ElGrecco(m): 4:51am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Personally I ll say the man went a bit too far but then if you haven't been in someone's shoe, you can tell how you ll react under such circumstance. Although there are 3 sides to a story, the narratives from the perspective of either party and the truth. I ll use the opportunity to share my own truth. I have felt and wanted to do even far worse. Call me anything you like, but I consider myself one of the rarest breed. I had a girlfriend whom I had assisted to open a shop, although I had gotten the shop for myself after I arrived Nigeria. I went for my m. sc outside the country when I met the lady on social media. She ll cry every time about beint alienated and having no one. I had planned on staying back for my PhD but I decided I should come home to meet her. I got to Naija and I was luckt to be picked for the Fg Youwin connect. I decided I could use the money to establish something for myself since staying outside wasn't my thing. I searched and travelled wide for Job. Then I decided to open a jewelry shop since it was a family thing. I could do better than most people since I grew up on the Island around Docemo lagos where my family trade in Jewelry and accessories. I got a shop for myself in Ilorin and for some time I was hoping to get some money from Jobs I do for people outside Nigeria. Not to bore you with my story, I got a lecturing job in Nigeria and I wasn't feeling fulfilled. The job environment didn't give room for growth, everything was archaic and outdated. I decided I have to leave the country since I got invitations from friends who wants to help me financially in order to return for my PhD. As regards the shop, I involved the lady since she seem to be doing good in her own business. I told her to come as a patner and much to her credit she worked hard to develop the business. I returned for my PhD where I had to work for 14 hours a day including saturday and Sundays by writing and editing for folks in order raise money to cover my tuition and survive. It is a very dehumanizing work rate as it deals with efficiency. Now my gf ll hardly put a call across and she ll tell me about being occupied at the shop or some sort of flimsy excuse. Now she portays herself as the CEO of the business when we clearly agreed that was for me. She hardly ever listens and went on a rant about how I am enjoying myself outside the country. She moves with a n army of friends telling me how they feel she is a being enslaved in the relationship. Some other things ensured which I wouldn't want to put up for public consumption. I tell you there was a time when it took me the last ounce of sanity to put a call across to some of my street niggars to cause a little accident in the shop. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by surveyorchimez(m): 5:41am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Valerie47: You can't blame him for wanting his wife back...she turned a tyrant cause little power given to her.. Guessed she also forgot her position n responsibility...she proved that such level independency shouldnt have been entrusted to her... Both have learnt their lesson.. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by blindjustice13(m): 6:07am On Jan 09, 2019 |
She was hospitalized for a week,no remorse from you,now she follows you about beating small girls and you see it as a problem?so you burnt her shop that was keeping her busy so you can be keeping yourself busy with small girls? . what a psychopathic pig! 2 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by nini007(m): 6:35am On Jan 09, 2019 |
melanch:That is why it's always good to read well before commenting. |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Nobody: 7:00am On Jan 09, 2019 |
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Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 7:13am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Isokehn: . |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 7:18am On Jan 09, 2019 |
omojesu316: Shut your dirty fingers up 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 7:24am On Jan 09, 2019 |
ElGrecco: Boss |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by sacramento1212: 7:32am On Jan 09, 2019 |
ElGrecco: And this is a lady that was not even your wife and you felt this pained and which is not even close to this man's situation. He married the wife, invested in her so she can be independent but instead of something good coming out of it, the outcome was disregard and disrespect. Already autocratic and turning the man to a pussy. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Crixina(f): 8:01am On Jan 09, 2019 |
sacramento1212:No, she isn't back to normal, the man is slowly breeding a psychopath, because the depression might spin into something else with time. But that's okay, we have no problem with two psychopaths cohabiting. That's if this story is even true. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by sacramento1212: 8:18am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Crixina: Well, the solution will be to open up another business for her with strict principles. The man has to monitor her closely since he already knows the kind of woman he married. |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by bukatyne(f): 8:22am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Husbandman wants a submissive wife (don't know his own definition) and married a lady X who seemed submissive because she had no money/dependent on her husband. He finally decides to make her a boss so that she's independent (no such thing in marriage: we are at best interdependent) and madam brought out the unsubmissiveness in her. Oga doesn't like what he sees and decides to 'clip' her wings. Now madam is back to default setting with a defect: insecurity. The problem is that the man married a poor woman and not a submissive one hence the change when she changed status. I suspect the husband is cheating which wife was fine with till she had money and decided to take it no more. Unfortunately, oga is used to her acceptance and is wondering where the accepting wife went. Madam no longer has money however is using the resource she has (time) to fight him. She is also very smart and knows her leverage. Let the husband stop following small girls and see madam's reaction to know next steps. 8 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kense88: 8:27am On Jan 09, 2019 |
ladies and ingratitude 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Raalsalghul: 8:27am On Jan 09, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss:I've been going through the thread looking for them feminists comments Those folks crack me up. Still waiting for that of Saffi's, Choccolate's, MannieA's and Cococandy"s. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Raalsalghul: 8:33am On Jan 09, 2019 |
ibkayee:Ah, you've finally arrived. Welcome aboard! |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Raalsalghul: 8:35am On Jan 09, 2019 |
pocohantas:Hmmmm! Is that not a toxic working environment? |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Raalsalghul: 8:38am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Joystark:You are being rational compared to that Ziggylady. Nice one! |
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Psoul(m): 8:49am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Onechancearmy: Please keep quiet and read from others until u get married and understand what a wife not bn submissive to a husband is all about. The unsubmissiveness is the mother of those things u mentioned up there. Wen she is not submissive, the tendency of bn unfaithful is very high. |
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