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Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 12:09am On Jan 08, 2019
Alright guys, I need honest solution to this problem.
I have this female friend that is married for about 3 years & has got 2 kids for her husband. Everything was going fine until she found out he is cheating on her.
And it happens that, the husband is not stopping anytime soon. It has become a norm for him to be cheating on her.
She's depressed, angry, sad & confused.
Confronting him has led nowhere. She has also gone ahead to call up the girls he's having affairs with.
Now, she's so confused & thinking of leaving the marriage which I advised her not to.
So, I thought I should bring it up here & get the best answers to the matter.
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by Nobody: 12:34am On Jan 08, 2019
Just mind your business.
Let them be!

There are no third parties when it comes to matters of the heart (relationships/marriages).

So again, mind your business.

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Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by Nobody: 1:22am On Jan 08, 2019
emitheo:
Alright guys, I need honest solution to this problem.
I have this female friend that is married for about 3 years & has got 2 kids for her husband. Everything was going fine until she found out he is cheating on her.
And it happens that, the husband is not stopping anytime soon. It has become a norm for him to be cheating on her.
She's depressed, angry, sad & confused.
Confronting him has led nowhere. She has also gone ahead to call up the girls he's having affairs with.
Now, she's so confused & thinking of leaving the marriage which I advised her not to.
So, I thought I should bring it up here & get the best answers to the matter.


Why are you complaining when you're also cheating with the woman
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by CreepyBlackpool: 1:23am On Jan 08, 2019
uncle say the truth, you want to fvck that woman cheesy

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Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by YOUNGELDER1(m): 1:28am On Jan 08, 2019
Mind your business
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by samuelson06(m): 1:51am On Jan 08, 2019
Tell the woman to always stock his pockets with condoms.
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by tracyfemmmm: 1:55am On Jan 08, 2019
Tell her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. wink
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by tripplephi: 2:12am On Jan 08, 2019
Pls tell her to see her parents or someone elderly.

THIS IS NOT A PLACE FOR SUCH SENSITIVE ISSUE.

and as for you sir, kindly avoid her because if she is telling u these things... soon u will either have feelings for her and sleep with her because YOU ARE ALREADY A THIRD PARTY to the matter and worse you are inviting US as other parties to the same matter...

KINDLY WALK AWAY FROM IT.

A GOOD NAME IS BETTER THAN AN AFFAIR.



emitheo:
Alright guys, I need honest solution to this problem.
I have this female friend that is married for about 3 years & has got 2 kids for her husband. Everything was going fine until she found out he is cheating on her.
And it happens that, the husband is not stopping anytime soon. It has become a norm for him to be cheating on her.
She's depressed, angry, sad & confused.
Confronting him has led nowhere. She has also gone ahead to call up the girls he's having affairs with.
Now, she's so confused & thinking of leaving the marriage which I advised her not to.
So, I thought I should bring it up here & get the best answers to the matter.

Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 4:06pm On Jan 09, 2019
thunderfirebuha:

Why are you complaining when you're also cheating with the woman
how's that?
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 4:08pm On Jan 09, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
uncle say the truth, you want to fvck that woman cheesy
Na wa for you...she's my close friend...& we go way back!
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 4:11pm On Jan 09, 2019
tripplephi:
Pls tell her to see her parents or someone elderly.

THIS IS NOT A PLACE FOR SUCH SENSITIVE ISSUE.

and as for you sir, kindly avoid her because if she is telling u these things... soon u will either have feelings for her and sleep with her because YOU ARE ALREADY A THIRD PARTY to the matter and worse you are inviting US as other parties to the same matter...

KINDLY WALK AWAY FROM IT.

A GOOD NAME IS BETTER THAN AN AFFAIR.



C'mon...you got to be kidding me! we go way back...can't have an affair with her & I can't seem to ignore her pains either
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by tripplephi: 10:29pm On Jan 09, 2019
the ROAD to HELL is paved with GOOD INTENTIONS....

everyone has good intentions BUT never EVER trust the EMOTIONS of a woman when she is depressed and in a very deep emotional pain.... BECAUSE all she will look for is succor and strength and IF SHE DRAWS it from you..... WELL.... MAYBE YOU ARE SO SUPER STRONG but do not trust your flesh EITHER... do the right thing while it is early


emitheo:

C'mon...you got to be kidding me! we go way back...can't have an affair with her & I can't seem to ignore her pains either

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Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by EHI9ICE(m): 11:11pm On Jan 09, 2019
emitheo:

C'mon...you got to be kidding me! we go way back...can't have an affair with her & I can't seem to ignore her pains either

My friend...A photo is enough for the wise.

Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by abdeiz(m): 11:17pm On Jan 09, 2019
Let her search for what's missing in her that makes him go outside...unfortunately if it's what she can't do for him...he is never ever going to change. I'm a living witness to a doomed marriage of 25+ years. Still together but not happy.
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by Kobicove(m): 12:48am On Jan 10, 2019
At some point a married guy gets bored of eating the same 'soup' everyday undecided
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by BareFacedLies(m): 12:50am On Jan 10, 2019
emitheo:

Na wa for you...she's my close friend...& we go way back!

And so?

If you start an affair with her she will no longer be bothered by the fact that her husband is cheating on her
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 5:41pm On Jan 15, 2019
BareFacedLies:


And so?

If you start an affair with her she will no longer be bothered by the fact that her husband is cheating on her
So, in order for her not to be bothered by her cheating husband, she should cheat?
is that what you mean?
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 5:44pm On Jan 15, 2019
tripplephi:
the ROAD to HELL is paved with GOOD INTENTIONS....

everyone has good intentions BUT never EVER trust the EMOTIONS of a woman when she is depressed and in a very deep emotional pain.... BECAUSE all she will look for is succor and strength and IF SHE DRAWS it from you..... WELL.... MAYBE YOU ARE SO SUPER STRONG but do not trust your flesh EITHER... do the right thing while it is early


So, I should let her be at this her depressing moment?
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 5:47pm On Jan 15, 2019
abdeiz:
Let her search for what's missing in her that makes him go outside...unfortunately if it's what she can't do for him...he is never ever going to change. I'm a living witness to a doomed marriage of 25+ years. Still together but not happy.
Exactly what I told her...she has done that but the husband isn't saying anything
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 5:50pm On Jan 15, 2019
Kobicove:
At some point a married guy gets bored of eating the same 'soup' everyday undecided
Of course, but not to make it so obvious nah
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by emitheo(m): 5:53pm On Jan 15, 2019
abdeiz:
Let her search for what's missing in her that makes him go outside...unfortunately if it's what she can't do for him...he is never ever going to change. I'm a living witness to a doomed marriage of 25+ years. Still together but not happy.
Wow...25+ years? How do you cope? Jeez, I can only imagine
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by abdeiz(m): 6:10pm On Jan 15, 2019
emitheo:

Wow...25+ years? How do you cope? Jeez, I can only imagine


Lol..not me tho but people close to me.
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by Happyfela(m): 6:26pm On Jan 15, 2019
You sound like someone that would be comforting the woman very soon with your Stick.
Re: Help! Cheating In A Marriage by BareFacedLies(m): 9:28pm On Jan 15, 2019
emitheo:

So, in order for her not to be bothered by her cheating husband, she should cheat?
is that what you mean?

Yes that is what I mean.

She won't be the first and she certainly will not be the last!

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