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How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 11:13pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Hey guys, I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it. Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated. Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away. I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day. So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn 61 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by AkataNYC(m): 11:23pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this. It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago. So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck. 271 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by FreshBoss007: 11:41pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
just beat it if you know what I mean 61 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by zyzxx(m): 11:42pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Be looking for money 390 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 11:43pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
AkataNYC: True Sha, the media ain't helping at all. 54 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 12:15am On Jan 10, 2019 |
CALEB65: Get a wife. 210 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by doctore212(m): 12:29am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Sex doll all the way.[color=#000099][/color] 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by maisauki: 2:30am On Jan 10, 2019 |
spreads mat to read ppl's lies 69 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Sirmuel1(m): 6:35am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Just forget about Women and chase money. That method has been helping me. 350 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Nobody: 7:07am On Jan 10, 2019 |
I start thinking of 101 ways I can make money. 141 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by pedrilo: 8:15am On Jan 10, 2019 |
read a very big book 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 8:37am On Jan 10, 2019 |
pedrilo: What kind of book is that? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 8:39am On Jan 10, 2019 |
maisauki: You can contribute you know 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 8:40am On Jan 10, 2019 |
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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by pedrilo: 8:41am On Jan 10, 2019 |
CALEB65:if u dnt know any big book, then read ur bible, it is big enuf i guess 167 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by femi4: 8:54am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Play games/sports 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 9:02am On Jan 10, 2019 |
CALEB65: A true religion didn't only condemned it but also gives a way out. When ever the urge comes as a Christian, change your immediate environment because definitely it's something around there that brings out the stimulation. Pick up your Bible or hymn book or better still play a deep rooted gospel songs on your phone and set my mind on the heavenly race. Trust me, it works better than any other remedy 233 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by AryEmber(f): 9:12am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life. 393 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by GreatAchiever1: 9:27am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Ever heard of self control?? Ask God to give u some... 70 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Uglymind: 9:34am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Masturbate and chase money! 53 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Splinz(m): 9:36am On Jan 10, 2019 |
![]() There's no better way to do away with an unwanted thought/urge than to quickly replace it when it comes with the very opposite. Everything is in the mind. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kingsmaila(m): 9:37am On Jan 10, 2019 |
CALEB65: Fast every Monday and Thursday weekly. It reduces sexual urge. 104 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Randy100: 9:37am On Jan 10, 2019 |
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you. 16 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Abcruz(m): 9:42am On Jan 10, 2019 |
CALEB65: Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one: If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, and your well-being like the waves of the sea.--Isaiah--48:18 "each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.--James 1:14-15 How can a young man keep his behavior pure? By guarding it in accordance with your word.--psalm119:9 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22 A word is enough for the wise. 94 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ashawopikin(m): 9:45am On Jan 10, 2019 |
AryEmber:that one sef dey work o, my mind will be like, " mumu see that your mate don buy car and don finish him house, u Na fuuuuck be your problem". Everytime I think about it, my priick go just weak 215 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ashawopikin(m): 9:46am On Jan 10, 2019 |
AryEmber: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by blingxx(m): 10:18am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Sirmuel1:Exactly bro... Life is not that hard 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 10:19am On Jan 10, 2019 |
donvoice: Thanks man 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 10:47am On Jan 10, 2019 |
CALEB65: Always welcome 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by abbatoir(m): 11:24am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Hmm 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by theNOISEmaker: 11:59am On Jan 10, 2019 |
I look for my soap 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Kinmann: 1:16pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
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