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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by barbietosin(f): 5:01pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Abegi Awon oloriburuku of a somebody be dis ooo Of course we know where una type come from... Land of the rising sun.. And you dey wonder why men no go fit marry pple like you Instead of doing the basic things like...being homely, submissive and humble, you go dey go church dey pray for husband upandan. Olofo! [/quote] |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
olo2gbenga:thank you jare...you are indeed wise And to add to what he has put down, all those shouting with holy rage, I have a question: Do you still wash your mummy/daddy's clothes? Or do you pass the task to a younger one, washerman/woman, maid, dry cleaner? Be truthful o When was the last time your mom/dad, elderly one sent you an errand and did not grumble? Hmmm...answer truthfully o 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by BAVOSKI(m): 5:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Fool 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Yewandequeen:God bless u dear ur hubby and mum in law are lucky to get a girl like you |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: I'm a man Mr man! It's not mandatory for her to do that.YES!she may volunteer to do it if she feels your mom is sick or she comes visiting and sees unwashed clothes.BUT for you/ mom to DEMAND that as her role is WRONG!!! 10 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by BAVOSKI(m): 5:03pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Khallyella:Fool 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Dididrumz(m): 5:03pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha: Yeah I agree, she might do it occasionally, once in a while, but neither I nor my mum can make it a mandatory deal for my wife...... No way. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
LordCenturion:The alleged 97% by you don't want to because many families don't try their daughter in-law well 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:04pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
barbietosin:God bless u dear |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:05pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
rockyh: Even if she doesn't hand wash them personally, she can arrange for it to be taken care of either by a washer man or woman. I understand that some people actually dread handwashing but will only wash via a washing machine while some love it a lot. There's no problem without a solution. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:07pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:.. Except his wife and mother are having issues,if not,there's nothing wrong in staying in the same street with the mother. The wife should bring herself down and sort out her differences with his mum. Its like most ladies are forgetting they will be mother in-laws to other people someday ?My wife's family stays in my street, did that make me a lesser man?. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:07pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:I pray u dont get a wife dat disrespect u or ur mum I wish ur mum can see what you are put here if she wont put hand on her chest and weep. because you are wrong here |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by GistFullGround: 5:08pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Use your wife as a slave and others will help you too. Show her respect if you want other to follow suit. It is wrong because your mom may feel entitled to having the wife as a maid. Don't allow your wife become a footstool for your mom or anybody. Take her clothes to a dry cleaner or wash them yourself. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Mac12(f): 5:08pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
sacramento1212: I am married to a wonderful man and my mother in law lives with me. Sometimes I wonder at the way some people talk so badly of their M-I-L 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sanfranka2(m): 5:08pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
olo2gbenga:You lack wisdom, knowledge and understanding 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:10pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:I pray u dont get a wife dat disrespect u or ur mum I wish ur mum can see what you are put here if she wont put hand on her chest and weep. because you are wrong here |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by rockyh(m): 5:10pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:but u will be very happy if she goes to the market buys food items n make a meal for the whole family even when u are around just for u to take off some time to rest. If u ask me I see no wrong in washing for ur mom in law once there's a bonding between u n the mom in law 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:10pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Treasuredlove: This is wrong.Even my elder brother still wash my parents clothes TILL DATE!Despite there's a washing machine.I do same too if I come around.Sometimes they demand that it should be washed,and you can't just say NO to your mom because father's usually use laundry services. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:11pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Mac12: Then with the kind of mentality and understanding that you have, you won't have a problem in your matrimonial home. May God continue to sustain your home. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:13pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Lol.Adeola,you're marrying a wife and not a slave.Come on,I'm not against it,my only argument here is it shouldn't be mandatory.Already you want to live on same street with your wife and mother.Haba!If washing of clothes can create this confusion,that means you are planning to die before your time. 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by 77up(m): 5:15pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Glowreey:I humbly retraced my comment , donno op issa sisy Sorry to the person i quoted , he deserve more than you gave him . 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Itannooluwa(f): 5:15pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:you can chase yours away if she refuses and see who will regret......rubbish, did u marry her for yourself or your Family mtchewwwww 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:16pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
olo2gbenga:so ur sis cant do work for her mum? I sware u are not making sence. I want my wife to see my mum as her mother and my mum to see her too. dere is nothing wrong Sir did u know it will make relationship and love to be closer than mother in law and daughter in law fighting all the time. why dont u tell ur wife not to cook for mum, that she buy food for her. or your mum wash plate because u don't want to enslave ur wife. you be man act like one 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:16pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: There's already an issue.Now, staying on same street won't fly.The funny thing is,both mother in law's already are at cold war (last thread he opened).How in the world will living on same street not cause chaos? It's just for them to embarrass themselves with quarells. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:17pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Mac12: Even though some M-I-L can be bad sometimes but it's never in all cases. Sometimes it's those feminist that usually find it difficult to cope with her due to their character. Once a woman has a bad character, they will find it very difficult to cope with their mother inlaw 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:18pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Mac12:God bless ur marriage dear is hard to get a matured woman who understand wat marriage truely mean 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:lol...hearing this sounds strange but I guess it depends on your age grade and your family responsibilities though. I can't imagine you working 24/7, no time to even relax, eat and even do your work clothes laundry and them demanding you do theirs too...I think your mom sef is the one that will look for ways to help you...with a hot plate of food waiting every night when you come from work. Please let's be realistic |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:20pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Itannooluwa:u be smally still in 100l u Neva know about relationship not to talk of marriage wen u natured u will understand |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:20pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Adeola you never talked about cooking and plate washing o.The argument here is clothes.If you say something like your wife came around and refused to cook for your mom,I go help you pursue her sef. But from your other thread you said you want your wife to come every Saturday to wash your mother's clothes.No it's not good that way. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Daeylar(f): 5:21pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha: Making sense. . I wonder what happened to his hand that he cannot wash the clothes for his mum himself. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Funky123(f): 5:22pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Will i wash MIL clothes,of course i will,As a lady some things can't just be left undone,what is wrong in washing MIL clothes but seriously it's high time we start having good mentality about mother-in-laws too.The first time I met my mother in law to be cos am not yet married,She told me she didn't have a female child and her prayer is every lady that comes into the family will come as a daughter and not as a wife,so if she has taken me as a daughter why can't i see her as my mother,of course i wash my mother's cloth and i didn't tell her to go get washing machine,And eversince i met MIL she hasn't call me to wash cloth for once anytime we go visit them even when i go ask if there is any cloth she wants to wash she just smiled and said thank you and words of prayers......I will wash her clothes,wash FIL own self,Feminist theory is not in my blood 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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