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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jrusky(m): 5:23pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Aunty you vex for this boy oo. Pls ignore him. Let him go to marriage counselling centre to get his disturbing counsel sorted out for him. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:25pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Treasuredlove: My mom isn't too strong...old age is here. Again,she is a bit tough and gets what she wants. Again we don't stay close to her,the distance is too far.There is a maid but the house is too big for him to handle coupled with elderly couple. The idea of helping her is for her to use you gist so we know her tricks.When you remember that one day she will be gone .....for good,you just have to let her get her way and enjoy her while it lasts. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:25pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Her husband and his family are very lucky to have such a good woman with a good heart. I keep telling people around that character plays a major role in one's life. No matter how beautiful a lady is, once there's a bad character in the picture, there's a problem except the man will be willing to submit and adhere to the instructions of the bad wife 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by rockyh(m): 5:25pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Treasuredlove:I washed my dad's clothes until he died n I still wash my mom's clothes without grumbling. It's a sign of responsibility n respect for an elderly one 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by smallatobs(m): 5:25pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Some ladies don't reason that one day they will also be a Mother in law, what ever you sow you will reap. Nowadays children's lack home training. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Mac12(f): 5:26pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
sacramento1212: You are very correct. I've heard so many ladies pray that their M-I-L die before they come in as wives; making me wonder how they'd feel if another makes such prayer point for them |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:awww that is sweet 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Mac12(f): 5:26pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Bless you too dear |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:27pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Funky123: That's good. Keep it up and not change tomorrow. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
rockyh:yeah, i understand. The goal is for them to have clean clothes, that can be achieved in a number of ways...a maid, a laundry man/woman, washing machine etc...Like I said earlier, it isn't bad but it is not a must to saddle one's wife with it if she doesn't want to do it, she already has enough on her plate 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:30pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Daeylar: I'm only judging him based on his last thread.He wants an every Saturday thing.If na all these mother in law's that's out for superiority,she will make sure the clothes are in heaps . She come to see heaps of clothes and when she thinks it's almost over,mama will start taking down curtains 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
IjebuWarrior:She been tell you say she dey go church pray for husband? 2019 you're still talking about submission. No go buy sex doll. Olosho! 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:At least she'll leave with her self respect. Get your mother a housemaid. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:32pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Mac12: God won't answer such evil prayers. They fail to understand that tomorrow they also will age and hopefully be a mother inlaw too. A bad woman remains one and it will only take the grace of God for such woman to change. When they start displaying such kind of bad character, when the husband's family gang up against her, they result to complaint not knowing that what you sow, you reap. Once you are of good manners, even when the husband has a littl misunderstanding with the wife, the mother in-law will be ready to carry her the matter on her head because she already sees you as a daughter 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by victorian(f): 5:33pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha: jakandeola: Op ,jakandeola not all men fancy such from their fiancee or wife I know of a friend guy, he was dating a tussshhh! babe from a rich home. He's also rich too and resides abroad .the babe resides in delta state . whenever he comes to Nija , he doesn't like her washing his clothes or cooking food in the kitchen .they eat out every time and he loves this girl die! His mother stays abroad . will she now start looking for visa to travel abroad , so as to wash her mother in law clothes? Cos they are married now with two kids . Or how is his mother coping far away abroad ? Even when I asked him why they eat out. And why is it, he doesn't allow her wash his clothes , he said if she do all that ? He will look down on her and treat her badly . he has placed her on a high pedestal and doing those home chores , will make him not marry her . They have a maid as I type . so its not every man that fancy such! For me its no big deal o. Cos she's old enough to be my mum. But it shouldn't be a regular thing Cos I rarely have time for myself and my man and try to squeeze out time , how much more mother in law . but can't the man wash his mother clothes , e hand dey pain am? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by rockyh(m): 5:34pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Funky123:God bless you for bn sincere and may ur marriage only bring you excellence and happiness 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Itannooluwa(f): 5:37pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Lmao jakandeola: Lmao .......it s well |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Daeylar(f): 5:39pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha: Tried to go to the last thread to read and see if I could get the back story as you mentioñed But eh, I found out that the English written there was, so......... I can't start deciphering just because I want to get a back story. I gave up .He wants an every Saturday thing You know it's very easy to give Anyways. He can still wash the clothes himself every Saturday if that is how he wants it. he is a strong man, I'm sure he can do it. If na all these mother in law's that's out for superiority,she will make sure the clothes are in heaps .LMAO By the time his mother does that once, and he is the one to wash the clothes. he won't come here to ask us if it is bad for anyone to wash anyone's clothes. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by pocohantas(f): 5:42pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Slynation: I am far from lazy, but I have more mental strength than physical. I am also of the school of thought that we work/earn money to make life easier. Time that I should use and rest the brain earning me money, cuddle with my boo, chat and catch up with loved ones? I will na use it and be washing clothes? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:42pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola, If you have not married her and you seriously need a woman who can help your mom unconditionally in that area,I'd advice you look elsewhere for a wife of your choice.Its obvious you guys are not in agreement and not compatible in this case.You want a woman who will do everything it takes to please your mother...but remember women dey pretend oo.There are those that will even wash for your mom and after two years,the REAL character will put your mom in serious shock. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by InSanety: 5:46pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:your thread is foolish and idiotic and insane....but I suppose that is as far as your IQ can take you Get a life instead of creating foolish threads, you look pathetic 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:47pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Daeylar: Well, people have their own yardstick.How to know an industrious wife is what she does first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Some woul be wives will leave soup unwarmed before they go to sleep.Now that's a bad flag.To someone like my mom,na!you're not coming in to her family.She expects you go round the kitchen,warm what should be warmed and refrigerate what should be. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Acidosis(m): 5:49pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Your mother shouldn't live (fully) with you to start with (there are exemptions though). When you do visit her (e.g. Christmas holiday) however, commonsense should tell you and your wife to help out with her household stuffs, after all you both stay under her roof for the moments. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:51pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Funky123:God bless u funke u are one among a millions 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by InSanety: 5:51pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Funky123:not every woman grew up with a mother....and even those who did, some people grew up with washing machines, so, the concept of washing anyone's clothes is alien to them. But in this Nigeria, they want to tell you that if you have not sweat and cried, you have done nothing. We should all learn to respect people and their background in this nation rather than bully people into adopting a one-way thought process. This is 2019, washing machine is common place, so, no need to make it sound like it's a terrible concept. My grandfather had a washing machine before his death and he was 80. What you do is just your own way of being brought up, and some others have a different way of being brought up. We should all learn to respect each other's backgrounds. Namaste 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:52pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Acidosis:I Neva live wit her |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Daeylar(f): 5:53pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:I don't mind the lady washing clothes if that is what she wants, but it isn't right to insist that she does it. Too stressful a job to insist on someone doing so. How to know an industrious wife is what she does first thing in the morning and last thing at night.They didn't warm it neither did they put it the fridge? Just a sign of a person who will waste food and money. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by InSanety: 5:53pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:get a freezer and this cannot be an issue. Most people on this thread must not be living on average income if these are yardsticks with which you judge women. If your woman has to suffer this much in the twenty-first century, just so she gets wife material brand, then you have failed as a man. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:54pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
InSanety:pls get out insane animal u lack sence. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:56pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
InSanety: Read my post again.Theres an option for that. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 5:57pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
chiefqueen:a maid DAT is a witch or steal or try to kill her. dear I dont like DAT. I feel is wrong to do DAT. a woman DAT have childrens matured in age dont need a maid |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Mac12(f): 5:58pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
sacramento1212: Exactly, God bless you for this wonderful piece 1 Like |
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