samysmoothfresh:
Oga, i only have one question for you.


You collect the money wey you give her for the surgery back after she tell you say she no want surgery but want dey drink agbo(herbal medcine)?

samysmoothfresh:
Oga, i only have one question for you.


You collect the money wey you give her for the surgery back after she tell you say she no want surgery but want dey drink agbo(herbal medcine)?

cooljuman:

No i didn't collect the money back. I left it with her. I really didn't need it. I just wanted her to solve the problem.

ValCon888:

You don't need a doctor, you need a counsellor and this is what i have to tell you;

When you were fvcking her constantly for 2 whole years it was sweeting you abi? Even with the big stomach you were still lashing her mercilessly.

Now you know she has fibroid and hormonal imbalance you want to dump her.

Dump her for who if i may ask?

I don't want to dump her, I just wanted her to solve the problem. Everybody have expectations and I want children from my marriage. Is fvckingg a woman now the ground for marriage? Is Fucking now enough to trade everything?

Auladimeji1:
I'm here to tell you not to listen to any comments from Nairaland ladies,They love supporting rubbish. Majorities are devil.That's all

ValCon888:

You don't need a doctor, you need a counsellor and this is what i have to tell you;

When you were fvcking her constantly for 2 whole years it was sweeting you abi? Even with the big stomach you were still lashing her mercilessly.

Now you know she has fibroid and hormonal imbalance you want to dump her.

Dump her for who if i may ask?

ValCon888:

You don't need a doctor, you need a counsellor and this is what i have to tell you;

When you were fvcking her constantly for 2 whole years it was sweeting you abi? Even with the big stomach you were still lashing her mercilessly.

Now you know she has fibroid and hormonal imbalance you want to dump her.

Dump her for who if i may ask?

cooljuman:
We have been dating for more than 2 year, but in 2018 she went for a scan and found out that she has fibroid and hormonal imbalance and that it could hinder pregnancy. Doctors advice that she go for surgery in order for her not to have complications with pregnancy. I gave her more than half the cost of the surgery which she agreed to go for. Same day she said she's not going for the surgery again until she gets married. She started taking herbal medicine that it will reduce the size of the fibroid and that way she will be able to get pregnant even without surgery and she also took drugs for the hormonal imbalance. after some months the size of her stomach reduced cos initially it was bigger than normal. Late last year we started having disagreement as regards marriage. She wants us to get married but I'm reluctant cos of her medical condition knowing she didn't go for the surgery and not sure if she's going to find it difficult getting pregnant after marriage. So I asked her to get pregnant before we get married and the once she get pregnant I will marry her, but she said she's not getting pregnant unti we're married. again, I'm working and earns in six figures. She said she don't want to get pregnant and that she's not going for surgery until we're married. I love her and will like to get married to her but the medical condition is putting me off. What if am right and what if am wrong. We've not talked to each other for two weeks now and we've not seen either. Doctors in the house i need advice please

bigpicture001:
95% of ladies who underwent surgery to get rid of fibroid usually do not conceive again...

Sh is very right in her fears of the after effect of the surgery. Doctors will pet u into doing it nd leave to God with the consequences.

Plz try understand her. My elder sis is now 9 years after same surgery without being able to conceive again..

U guys should luk for hospitals where foreign doctors com for humanitarian surgery expose'. That is ur best chance of a rather successful surgrey

marvin906:
I might understand where she's coming from..
I believe she's afraid of unforseen complications during the surgery maybe destruction of her womb which might make you dump her..
Buh you have make her understand that is her health she's putting at risk just because of fear..
Can't believe am saying this buh dude stand by her
If you where in her shoes you will do the same and please find a specialist in this case

Seandisputed:

People like you who think women do men favour by sleeping with them are just sick in the head.

cooljuman:


She said she's ok after taking the herbal drugs several months, so what stops her from agreeing to get pregnant so we can get married. Am not forcing her to go for surgery, all I want it lets try pregnancy then we get married. It will reduce my fears.