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Lady in a serious dilemma needs your advise. Read the full story below;


What advice would you give her?

http://igberetvnews.com/524502/did-my-traditional-marriage-last-week-got-scholarship-to-us-this-week-lady-in-dilemma-cries-out-for-help/

Lemme break this table!


Tell her to do whatever she can live with. One is a life time opportunity, the other is everyday opportunity. If you know you know.

She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

So she should leave her husband cause of the scholarship given to her by a supposedly jealous ex that wants her marriage to end, why didn't he give her the scholarship when she was single, marriage is not something you walk it and walk out when its convenient for you.

Valerie47:
So she should leave her husband cause of the scholarship given to her by a supposedly jealous ex that wants her marriage to end, why didn't he give her the scholarship when she was single, marriage is not something you walk it and walk out when it convenient for you.

What does the EX have to do with the scholarship she got?

He only helped her to get it, nothing attached, atleast from what I deduced from the story.
You had better stopped being sentimental. These men will leave you if they get the slightest opportunity. You better be wise and shine ya eyes!

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

Jst c ur reasoning,na pple lyk u dey draw insults 2 ladies.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What does the EX have to do with the scholarship she got?

He only helped her to get it, nothing attached, atleast from what I deduced from the story.
You had better stopped being sentimental. These men will leave you if they get the slightest opportunity. You better be wise and shine ya eyes!

When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.

Take whatever I say with a pinch of salt. Besides, I'm well entitled to my opinion.

Agboki:




Jst c ur reasoning,na pple lyk u dey draw insults 2 ladies.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

Amaka Disappoint me Nigerian Girls Can't Live Without Money Like Fish With Water

Valerie47:
When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Also no sane man will divorce his wife cause he got a scholarship to study abroad, rather he will go there and study then as time goes on, he will send for his wife and kids to join him there.

Valerie47:
So she should leave her husband cause of the scholarship given to her by a supposedly jealous ex that wants her marriage to end, why didn't he give her the scholarship when she was single, marriage is not something you walk it and walk out when its convenient for you.

Madam did you read the post well?

Stay with your man. US is no big deal. Even Atiku with all his money refuses to go

Isoright

Accept and go to the US. The husband gass calm down. US isn't where my heart is, but that is the green light. So it's a means to the end I have in heart.

They should go to the US and process Poland later. Here, US is a means to Poland. Besides, American experience would make lots of ways for them in Poland.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

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May u find that inner peace you've endlessly sought..
Amen!

My advise is 'she's not going anywhere, she must stay back so we can enjoy this govt together'. Nobody go run oh.

I can never settle with a man that doesn't put my happiness above his!!
She should Berra accept the scholarship, if the man refuse, she should dump his ass, there are many fishes in a river!!
Always place your happiness above everything including marriage!!
Ladies should learn not to sacrifice their happiness all in the name of marriage coz it doesn't worth it these days!!

Scholarship should wait

Dicey

She should submit to her husband and do whatever he decides.

Tough one.

is better to obey your husband and stay with him

Some sense needs to be talked into the husband. This is an opportunity for him to join her in the US. Does he think Poland is a better place than the US. I think he needs some education on that and be made to switch gear right now. Otherwise it’s still a win win if they both go to US and Poland respectively. It’s going to be easier for them to always connect and visit each other until they decide which of the two countries they would like to settle in.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

I don't know if this is a fiction or not but I would advise her to accept the scholarship offer irrespective of the feelings of her new groom.

Valerie47:
When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.

What do you think marriage is?

I dont see the problem...

Bruv, this is a pin job...

Use pin to help the condom

let her go and find out in America

What white wedding? Is the traditional marriage not binding? She should stay with her husband. She is now his property if he paid her price to her parents.

The gods are wise

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

shey you remember that your father , brothers and uncles are also man abi na USA you come from?