Torontoparrot:
two bottles of your favorite drink for you on my account ��

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

JONNYSPUTE:
... Thank you. Funny how most people shouting she should forget about her marriage never thought of this@ I HOPE THE EX IS NOT RESIDENT IN US.

obaseno:

in the little story she told, I did not see jealousy anywhere...how did you know her ex is jealous? besides the ex is not even gonna go to the US with her
read to understand and not to criticize

JONNYSPUTE:
... Thank you. Funny how most people shouting she should forget about her marriage never thought of this@ I HOPE THE EX IS NOT RESIDENT IN US.

Agboki:




Jst c ur reasoning,na pple lyk u dey draw insults 2 ladies.

ogongogames:


That is indeed possible, I guess she could have just "tried her luck" with the entire scholarship and thought there was little need to tell her partner due to there being a low chance of getting it. Still seems very careless on her part not to have thought about this possibility though on her part, you would have thought she could tell her partner about the scholarship application without needing to mention her ex.

marvin906:
so because she has a scholarship automatically means she has a visa many of una nor get sense at all..or are you peeps forgetting that the US embassy are stingy with visa now Even if you like get 20 scholarship e nor concern them...

buh why do I have a feeling her ex is in the US

lefulefu:

guy d story is fake.if u had an opportunity to secure scholarship for someone overseas is it d lady dat dumped u or ur younger sister u would secure the scholarship for?

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

sharpwriter:

Where else would the ex be?

kaorama:

Nobody should take you seriously. You have a fundamental struggle to overcome.

egojeny1:

Seconded!!!

Infact from what i'm seeing in marriage now if i had gotten a scholarship, even if it's Zimbabwean own i wld've dumbed every ass and flown out immediately.

Marriage ko marriage ni

MissJoy29:
Lol....he should be anywhere but in the US o!

MissJoy29:

It's really necessary to know because if it turns out he is, no man will give permission for his newly wedded wife to be in close proximity with the one person he doesn't want her to be in contact with.

sharpwriter:


Lol.... That the ex go yansh her soon... Perhaps she will be residing with the ex

sharpwriter:


For where, na him go go pick her for airport and to his residence

JONNYSPUTE:
.. My dear you are very intelligent.Most people here just rush to comment without reasoning..Like you said,no man will allow his wife take up such if the ex is also there in US.

Liliyann:
I can never settle with a man that doesn't put my happiness above his!!
She should Berra accept the scholarship, if the man refuse, she should dump his ass, there are many fishes in a river!!
Always place your happiness above everything including marriage!!
Ladies should learn not to sacrifice their happiness all in the name of marriage coz it doesn't worth it these days!!

MissJoy29:

You think things are that easy like black and white? What if he doesn't have sisters? And what if she & the ex ended on a good note?

ogawisdom:


She should submit to her husband and do whatever he decides.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

OdiaI:
Marriage is about sacrifice and compromise most times. Keep white wedding aside, by the laws of the land, she is legally married.

Now, she is married to her husband, not her ex. If the husband doesn't want her to go and she goes, it may bring up issues later on. Moreover, if the Poland is sure, why not be patient with her husband for them to go there later. A marriage of one week old is a very young one, does she want to just end it without giving it proper thought?

If she feels taking the scholarship is best for her, let her sit with her husband and see if they can work up a plan that will benefit the marriage.

Whatever decision she takes, she should put her marriage into consideration. She is very married, put aside white wedding talks. Traditional marriage is not engagement party.

lefulefu:

which good note? so d guy u having a happy relationship with u just dumped him to marry another man and u saying u parted in a happy note?
for all u know sef the ex might even be making plans to sell her as a sex slave to human traffikers in libya and he jus made up this false claim of securing her a foreign admission.dont trust anybody and not an ex for dat matter .

MissJoy29:

Lol....if she has sense, she won't go knowing the ex is there & that she's now a married woman.

OdiaI:
Marriage is about sacrifice and compromise most times. Keep white wedding aside, by the laws of the land, she is legally married.

Now, she is married to her husband, not her ex. If the husband doesn't want her to go and she goes, it may bring up issues later on. Moreover, if the Poland is sure, why not be patient with her husband for them to go there later. A marriage of one week old is a very young one, does she want to just end it without giving it proper thought?

If she feels taking the scholarship is best for her, let her sit with her husband and see if they can work up a plan that will benefit the marriage.

Whatever decision she takes, she should put her marriage into consideration. She is very married, put aside white wedding talks. Traditional marriage is not engagement party.

sharpwriter:


Lol.... That the ex go yansh her soon... Perhaps she will be residing with the ex

MariaLavina:
Lemme break this table!


Tell her to do whatever she can live with. One is a life time opportunity, the other is everyday opportunity. If you know you know.

SaintNemesis:
She should do whatever is best for her. She alone knows what is best for Herself.

If I was in her shoes though I will go for the scholarship. If I can't convince him to join me in US, then I will return his bride price sharp...sharp.

The scholarship maybe God's way of delivering her from a bad marriage.