Una don talk everything. Make I no talk am again.

victorD3:



My sister people meet and marry within 3 months. Every shakara lady's consolation is either he probably has engaged someone or it wasn't meant to be.

Yes, agreed but how do you justify the fact that he got married in Dec. and was still asking out in Nov.

And I really don't think the lady was really into him.

Ladies eh!

Why are the men so much happy or rather, pained here?
From the writeup, the lady doesn't seems to be interested in the man, she was just expressing her disappointment at the man's irresponsible behaviour - being in a serious relationship and still asking a lady out.
Must a lady accept all the proposal that comes her way? Just asking ni o, cos its same men that will label her ashawo.

gypsey:
Good! cheers!!

Yet a people who disgrace their women are disgraced.

faithfull18:
Men... He already had another lady engaged yet he was still disturbing her.



People didn't get the message she was passing across.

The man was probably engaged, preparing for his wedding, yet he was still disturbing her and asking for a meetup a month to his wedding.

Can you imagine the effrontery.

That's probably why she called him out.

There is nothing to get. He asked her out for a whole year, she declined and he married someone else...

As simple as ABCD

When you over do things they lose value just like adding legs to a snake painting. What do you expect? You over do the shakara, he did the needful, equation balanced.

KingSango:


Yet a people who disgrace their women are disgraced.

errr...

gypsey:
errr...

Don't abuse manly power. That's all.

KingSango:



Don't abuse manly power. That's all.

Okay!!

gypsey:
Okay!!

It's for your own good. Truth is powerful.

KingSango:



It's for your own good. Truth is powerful.

your version of truth i guess.

faithfull18:
Men... He already had another lady engaged yet he was still disturbing her.



People didn't get the message she was passing across.

The man was probably engaged, preparing for his wedding, yet he was still disturbing her and asking for a meetup a month to his wedding.

Can you imagine the effrontery.

That's probably why she called him out.

You will be hard-pressed to find any Nairaland males who actually reads a story here before commenting,especially if it has to do with women

..,They are as daft as daft can be

faithfull18:
Men... He already had another lady engaged yet he was still disturbing her.



People didn't get the message she was passing across.

The man was probably engaged, preparing for his wedding, yet he was still disturbing her and asking for a meetup a month to his wedding.

Can you imagine the effrontery.

That's probably why she called him out.

Be quiet! The foolish lady is pained because she has lost out! She definitely was interested but was forming hard-to-get and the dude decided to find an alternative and got married meaning he was very serious and had no intention of playing her.

And what proof is there that he was engaged while he was wooing her? I know of many men who saw a lady, struck a chord with them in weeks and they get married almost immediately.

the man prolly just wanted to chop small kpekus before his main wedding

dominique:
A lot of people here lack basic comprehension, it's appalling. A man that has a serious relationship leading to marriage has no business asking the lady out less than a month to his wedding! He never had any plans for her other than use and dump.

And there are men who marry with weeks of meeting their bride.

prince3009:


Be quiet! The foolish lady is pained because she has lost out! She definitely was interested but was forming hard-to-get and the dude decided to find an alternative and got married meaning he was very serious and had no intention of playing her.

And what proof is there that he was engaged while he was wooing her? I know of many men who saw a lady, struck a chord with them in weeks and they get married almost immediately.

No, I won't. The last time I checked, freedom of speech was/is one of my rights.

Read what she posted and this time read to comprehend not to react.

The guy got married in Dec and asked her for a meetup in Nov.

He had someone else by the side because I don't see two complete strangers meeting each other and marrying in one month in Nigeria. It's possible but rare.

Lastly, I don't think she was into him, she was only pointing out how irresponsible some men can be.

Mcy56:
Why are the men so much happy or rather, pained here?
From the writeup, the lady doesn't seems to be interested in the man, she was just expressing her disappointment at the man's irresponsible behaviour - being in a serious relationship and still asking a lady out.
Must a lady accept all the proposal that comes her way? Just asking ni o, cos its same men that will label her ashawo.

Thank you o!

faithfull18:

The fact that he was already seeing someone else yet he was still disturbing her.

I can decide to marry a girl Imet in a space of days once the finance n chemistry is there she should go n lick her wound

gypsey:
your version of truth i guess.

There is only one truth. One God. Develop accuracy in your speech and you can converse with me.

prince3009:


And there are men who marry with weeks of meeting their bride.

And how often does it happen that a man meets a woman and they get married within the space of a month? According to the lady, the man is Igbo and we know that Igbo traditional marriage rite is not swiftly done. Before the knocking of door, meetings between both families, compiling of bride price list, acquiring all the items in the list etc, no less than 3 months would have elapsed. Let's not excuse irresponsible behaviour because we want to fault the lady.

rockyh:
I can decide to marry a girl Imet in a space of days once the finance n chemistry is there she should go n lick her wound

Without knowing any one related to her, her background, nothing. You just saw her on the road one day and the next day, you are going straight to the altar. I hear you.

I am not saying it's not possible oh but Nigerians are not known to do crazy things like that.

This story points to the fact that the man genuinely want the lady at first, hence asking her out for that long but along the line he gave up hope on her in his mind since she was not forthcoming and decided to marry someone else but truth is he still like the lady and was hoping something can still come up between them before he finally gets married but unfortunately nothing of such happened and he moved on happily to marry his girl while this lady was pained because she discovered that she like him too and she is regretting why she didn't accept him.

faithfull18:

The fact that he was already seeing someone else yet he was still disturbing her.

How did you know he was already seeing someone else? Man wey dey on woman matter still nothing cum out. Make him no marry again? Cos she dey Yankee she cum dey form 4a whole year. She should learn her lessons and move on ojare. Too much formin no dey gud atimes!!!

So he should keep waiting for you? Ranting of the year!!

Nigga never wan put his eggs in one basket na..

faithfull18:
Men... He already had another lady engaged yet he was still disturbing her.



People didn't get the message she was passing across.

The man was probably engaged, preparing for his wedding, yet he was still disturbing her and asking for a meetup a month to his wedding.

Can you imagine the effrontery.

That's probably why she called him out.

dominique:


And how often does it happen that a man meets a woman and they get married within the space of a month? According to the lady, the man is Igbo and we know that Igbo traditional marriage rite is not swiftly done. Before the knocking of door, meetings between both families, compiling of bride price list, acquiring all the items in the list etc, no less than 3 months would have elapsed. Let's not excuse irresponsible behaviour because we want to fault the lady.

What you said it's not true. My elder brother did his wife 's marriage rites in less than 2weeks in d same Igbo land. Everything oh!!! So pack well! As she no gree 4d man na, why did she call him out? To d extend of posting d guy's wife bridal shower.

Letenwam:
An aggrieved lady took to Facebook to call out a man who has been asking her out for over a year, but got married in December 2018. 

According to the lady identified as Ada Rocky, the man even tried to meet up with her in Atlanta in November 2018. She further pleaded karma on him. The lady who shared photos of the man and his wife, asked him to respect his family and his wife. 

The lady who called out the man asking her out wrote; 

Let me hurry up and say this before we enter 2019. This guy right here is the many reasons why I dont like to talk to Igbo guys. This men has been in my inbox for a whole year and was trying to meet up last month when I was in Atlanta. Tell me why this fool was engage and is now married? smdh. Please respect yourself, and your wife and family. May karma not come around and bit you in the ass. 


https://lailasnews.com/lady-calls-out-man-who-has-been-asking-her-out-for-a-year-but-got-married-in-december/

idiotu!

stupid woman anofia, so she de expect make d man continue to DE beg am

Shakara e don cast.

Shakara e don end.

Shakara e don land you wia fit you.

You dey talk of karma.

You no even know say na you don dey suffer the karma already.

Nonsense