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Please How Do You Cope When Down by JaiyeOOI(m): 11:39pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
Sometimes You get to a Point You are so down. Like really really down. How do you Cope. Nigerians are Not good people at all like really terrible people even those whose circumstances and Conditions is still favourable. I look around and i wonder how a Society can Sink sooo low I used to be able to Cope With it then when My Mum was alive she Would cheer me up, cook for me, gist and use Humour to deal with the absurdities we see and read about in Nigeria. But since she passed on less than a Year ago. It is become even more difficult The educated and Rich Nigeriana are worse. Take a Look at Nairaland and Twitter So much hate too. look at the three people majority are Dying to vote for smh You can't say these things outside Cos you are a supposed to be a "Man" NB Pls No trolling if you have nothing meaningful or positive to say, pass cc Mynd44 seun 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by alhassanyusuf29(m): 11:50pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
some cope by committing suicide |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by tripplephi: 12:19am On Jan 14, 2019 |
There is no way I can tell you that you are wrong because you are absolutely RIGHT. So because you are right, should we now despair? because you are right and everyone seems to have gone mad after money, sex and fame.... does that mean there are no longer better FRIENDS OUT THERE?? or LEGIT SOURCES OF HUGE WEALTH? Why are you wasting time with the excuse of OBSERVING WHAT IS GOING ON IN THE WORLD.... you are not HERE to be an observer.... but a CATALYST FOR CHANGE and your time is short.... MOST PEOPLE waste the TIME they have worrying about other people while they have DONE NOTHING GREAT for others..... SEE, CONTRIBUTE YOUR QUOTA OF POSITIVE INFLUENCE IN THE WORLD AND CHECK OUT WITH HEAVENLY DIGNITY that you made the world better than how u met it in your own little way. SERVE GOD and SERVE HUMANITY, "the fact someone is wearing a shirt the wrong way does not mean you should remove yours" BUT rather you should SHOW HOW IT SHOULD BE DONE. YES YES YES.... WE KNOW ALREADY THAT THE WORLD IS MAD AND NIGERIA IS AT THE HEIGHT OF DECADENCE? But complaining will not make anything change... BAD THINGS CAN ONLY HAPPEN CONTINUALLY WHEN GOOD MEN DO NOTHING. so the real question is WITH ALL YOU HAVE KNOWN GOING WRONG IN THE WORLD WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?? When you answer that question, you will begin to LIVE rather than just EXIST. I wish u well bro. JaiyeOOI: 8 Likes |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by KanwuliaExtra: 4:57am On Jan 14, 2019 |
It is called “depression” due to one or more factors. I WORK HARDER AND TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. When I am at work, I forget EVERYTHING. Then one day, I forget what gone me down in the first place. 6 Likes |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Remember your mom's love and forge ahead. Always remember that nothing lasts forever and no matter how long it's been raining, the sun will come out and shine once again. Whenever something worries you, get a piece of paper and write it down. All of it on one side and then try and write the solution, the steps you should take beside it. This takes the problem off your mind and unto the paper. Besides it gives your mind the assurance and illusion that you are dealing with the problem. If it is a problem you can't do anything about, then your mind will realize that and stop obsessing. Don't stay indoors alone. Visit friends or something. Where there life, there's always hope. Read about the founder of Alibaba and you'll get hope by force. 3 Likes |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by NoHoper: 8:38pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
I do drugs... My job gives me easy access to euphoria inducing drugs so I pop a pill or two whenever I'm down (which is most of the time). Without them drugs I'd have probably committed suicide, no kidding. |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by lilmax(m): 9:46pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
by myself and become proud I did it alone that's me 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
3 sticks of Benson Boost + 2 bottles of Trophy la la lę friday. |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Nobody: 4:31am On Jan 15, 2019 |
NoHoper: What type of drugs? Tramadol or what? Do they really work? |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
JaiyeOOI: You look at the glass that's half full that's what. You need to pay some attention to those who are sane and stop spending time on the insane If that means turning off social media DO THAT. To clear your head you need to stop feeding your eyes and ears. Especially nairaland front page Take a break and do what makes you smile 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
GODPUNISHUNA: He said he's down most of the time, you don't want to medicate one problem with another problem. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Abcruz(m): 6:31pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
JaiyeOOI: Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one: For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.--Jeremiah 29:11 Others were given in exchange for you. I traded their lives for yours because you are precious to me. You are honored, and I love you.--Isaiah 43:4 If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, and your well-being like the waves of the sea.--Isaiah--48:18 Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way all will be well with you.--Job 22:21 The ear that listens to the reproves of life abides among the wise!!! 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by helinues: 6:31pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
@ Never blame your misfortunes on anybody. Life is not fair, not only to you but everybody( so deal with it) and the funniest part about it, no syllabus/curriculum for it in Universities . All the best bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Play music 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Ranchhoddas: 9:40pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. There is always something you have that someone is praying for; your health, your phone, even the food you ate this evening. When you focus on these things it is easier to press on. Also do whatever it is you can do to achieve your aims no matter how little it is. Take a step (I wish I could elaborate on this last point). 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Aksah12: 12:31am On Jan 16, 2019 |
You are dealing with depression. Check out this link it will help you understand what you are going through and how to handle the situation. https://www.nairaland.com/4938998/dealing-depression 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Aksah12: 12:32am On Jan 16, 2019 |
If you need further help, contact me. |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by Rosarie(f): 8:53am On Jan 16, 2019 |
Df |
Re: Please How Do You Cope When Down by JaiyeOOI(m): 3:57am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Thank you all So Much! One Love ✌� |
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