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Who Is To Blame? by Anwons(m): 1:40am On Jan 20, 2019
"What goes around comes around" could be the best description in this scenario depending on one's view.

Couple, who the woman did not trust her husband took the caution to making sure that her husband does not eye her maid extreme.

Yes, madam brought a maid, she sat her maid down after a week to counsel her, but the main subject is, her words, pls, make this a secret, and never tell anyone. I trust you that's why I brought you to my house, it's the same trust that made me to confide this secret. Keep it secret, you promise?
Maid: yes madam, I promise.

Madam: now listen, my husband and I are HIV positive, I just feel I should let you know since you're now part of this family.

Maid: covered with fear responded, madam, I promise not to tell anyone, thank you.

Remember, the woman's intention was to frighten her maid so that she will not sleep with her husband.

As time went, the woman imagination was turned to reality. How, the man of the house finally made advance to have carnal knowledge of the maid after several failed attempts, the bottle(ugly deal) was broken by the maid.

How? Out of curiosity by the man, he asked the maid why she was crying and at same time, casting and binding, instead of looking at the offer he made to her and what she will achieve.
Maid knew she wouldn't be able to escape that day after the man applied force and she was weak already.

Oga: I'm asking you! Can't you talk?
Maid: it is, it is...hmmm
Oga: it is WHAT..?
Maid: madam, madam.. maa...
Oga: madam did what? Don't worry, I'll take care of that. Trust me.
Maid: madam saaiid.. You have.. you have HIV.
Oga: wHOTTT?... Madam? How? I mean....?

Madam comes back, her husband wasn't cheerful, as usual, she tried to find out what is wrong with her hubby, but the answer was no problem, I'm just been stressed.

To cut everything short, a day came when the man could no longer hold back the thought of being HIV positive through another argument and misunderstanding, he asked madam why she told their maid that they are HIV positive.

I guess you should know what will come to the woman's mind.
Wife: oh, finally,
Husband: finally what?
Wife: hmm, she(maid) told you? What discussion were you two having that would make her say that to you?

Summarily, the maid was confronted, everything revealed, including the woman's intend, but the center of the marriage could not hold again.

Matter is now in court for divorce filed by the woman due to the the man's infidelity.

So, who's to blame?
The maid,
The woman or
The man?
Re: Who Is To Blame? by franklingud(m): 4:37am On Jan 20, 2019
The woman started everything joor

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Anwons(m): 7:32am On Jan 20, 2019
Advice for women, take it not too far
Re: Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 9:26am On Jan 20, 2019
Definitely the man

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Chubhie: 10:06am On Jan 20, 2019
The man has been cheating which the wife is very aware of. The maid is just a victim here and should sue them both for using her as a specimen to settle their scores.
Re: Who Is To Blame? by Anwons(m): 1:31pm On Jan 20, 2019
Chubhie:
The man has been cheating which the wife is very aware of. The maid is just a victim here and should sue them both for using her as a specimen to settle their scores.

Wow, what a point. She may have a good ride if she sue them.

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