He divorced his wife due to infidelity and now in love with another lady. is it OK to marry such man? don't you think the man has the spirit of unforgiveness? what can you advise pls?
is infidelity in a woman beyond forgiveness? (I'm not encouraging infidelity in both anyway)

if I get you right, he has a spirit of unforgiveness due to the woman's lack of SELF CONTROL?

If a person (male or female) places importance on his physical, mental and emotional well-being, he should be praised and not condemned. Infidelity is a very valid reason for divorce abeg.
Infidelity is not beyond forgiveness but a person cannot be forced to forgive if they don't want to. How do you even know he hasn't even forgiven the ex-wife? Forgiveness is not same as forgetting.

It is very okay to marry such a man, all other things being equal. This scenario you have described is not a deal breaker.

@Op, if one has come your way, look beyond his past, see if you can make a home with him. If yes, you may wish to accept if no, you know.

But I tell you thousands are out there waiting for such opportunity.
That does not mean I support the man for sending the former wife away, though I don't think I could have acted differently but since the deed has already been done, he needs move on

For your own mind. You done already commit the infidelity.

You're asking us if he will forgive you?

TarOrfeek:


For your own mind. You done already commit the infidelity.

You're asking us if he will forgive you?

you wicked oo

easyconnect:
He divorced his wife due to infidelity and now in love with another lady. is it OK to marry such man? don't you think the man has the spirit of unforgiveness? what can you advise pls?
is infidelity in a woman beyond forgiveness? (I'm not encouraging infidelity in both anyway)

Infidelity of a man or wife is serious issue.
Every one has his/ her forbearance limit on this matter, especially the gravity of the sin, u shouldn't hold it against them.
If that divorced man is courting u ,then pls seek divine guidance before u commit yourself to him in marriage.
Jah bless & help U

lilmax:
if I get you right, he has a spirit of unforgiveness due to the woman's lack of SELF CONTROL?

Yes. he divorced his cheating wife and now he wants to marry another lady.

TheClulssHomakr:
If a person (male or female) places importance on his physical, mental and emotional well-being, he should be praised and not condemned. Infidelity is a very valid reason for divorce abeg.
Infidelity is not beyond forgiveness but a person cannot be forced to forgive if they don't want to. How do you even know he hasn't even forgiven the ex-wife? Forgiveness is not same as forgetting.

It is very okay to marry such a man, all other things being equal. This scenario you have described is not a deal breaker.

But as a born again child of God which he claim, don't you think he should have forgiven his ex wife?

Janosky:


Infidelity of a man or wife is serious issue.
Every one has his/ her forbearance limit on this matter, especially the gravity of the sin, u shouldn't hold it against them.
If that divorced man is courting u ,then pls seek divine guidance before u commit yourself to him in marriage.
Jah bless & help U

Thanks

easyconnect:

Yes. he divorced his cheating wife and now he wants to marry another lady.

A woman cheating is unforgivable

so if you want to enjoy marriage with this man

don't cheat, so easy

the man did a great job in my opinion

It depends on his mindset.

If he’s one of those disgusting arrogant prigs who thinks that he can cheat without being cheated on, please don’t touch him with a foot long pole. I kid you not, those are the worst kind of men to commit your life to. A man who won’t consider you a human same as him. His feelings and pride will be more important than your wellbeing.

However if he’s the disciplined type of man who doesn’t cheat and won’t tolerate cheating, then you’re lucky in that aspect because the measure you give is the measure you will receive from him.

Also note that people will tell you what they want you to believe about themselves and their ‘bad’ exes. It the Ex that is usually at fault. If something about him tells you that he has a hard heart, trust your instinct.

Verify that story and also verify the part he played in the breakdown of that marriage. Most people are not as innocent as they portray themselves.

easyconnect:

But as a born again child of God which he claim, don't you think he should have forgiven his ex wifebk?

born again child? even the bible permits us to divorce if there is a case of infidelity..

Don't ever forgive a cheating woman..else you'll end up dead or miserable for the rest of your life.

sukerefakere:
Don't ever forgive a cheating woman..else you'll end up dead or miserable for the rest of your life.

Should a cheating husband be forgiven?

Pavore9:


Should a cheating husband be forgiven?

Abeg mention me when you get a reply to this question

lilmax:
A woman cheating is unforgivable

so if you want to enjoy marriage with this man

don't cheat, so easy

the man did a great job in my opinion

easyconnect:
He divorced his wife due to infidelity and now in love with another lady. is it OK to marry such man? don't you think the man has the spirit of unforgiveness? what can you advise pls?
is infidelity in a woman beyond forgiveness? (I'm not encouraging infidelity in both anyway)

God did not insist that an innocent marriage mate MUST forgive the adulterous one and infidelity is the only ground for which divorce can take place.
So, if a man/woman refuses to forgive his/her partner, he/she is not committing a sin.

Is it really due to infidelity? Hear from the woman's family. Where I come from when a man is tired of his wife he will accuse her and bundle her back. If it's true, you need to pray first because not just your concern of unforgiveness. He will have a very hard time trusting women. He can accuse his new wife of infidelity whereas she went to D market. At D end of the day, it's only God that can help a man get over such so yeah, there is need to be worried.

easyconnect:
He divorced his wife due to infidelity and now in love with another lady. is it OK to marry such man? don't you think the man has the spirit of unforgiveness? what can you advise pls?
is infidelity in a woman beyond forgiveness? (I'm not encouraging infidelity in both anyway)

If the man lives by the same principles then yes it's OK .

A cheating spouse is intolerable!

You didn't even bother to know the number of times she cheated.

So if a married woman leaves her husband's house to her ex house, refuses to return and even aborted for him with no sense of remorse, her husband should forgive and not move on with his life?

Better ask questions, cheating get class.

hahn:


Abeg mention me when you get a reply to this question