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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sharpwriter(m): 3:44pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Boss13: Also, please explain Christian mysticism from your own point of view. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Kenneth4u205(m): 3:49pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Anas09:yes that was my first impression. The demons inside of him trying to possess another vessel. In short he has already possessed the guy. But I only said that it was the friends spirit because he died by accident. Spirit of those that died in sudden accident don't just depart suddenly. The hang around close friends or family for years. Some for ever. Until the come to accept that the are actually dead. Only then can the move on |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Lovenkraand:That word "teenager" was wrongly used as I wasn't under 20 in 2009. Having come under the kind of background that we did, we dared not bring women inside our homes in those days. We both had military dads and we were raised with some moral standards. Iyke died at the unripe age of 23 back then so the word teenagers was misused. Cc: Ishilove 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ishilove: 4:41pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Anas09: 5:29pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Kenneth4u205:The Familiar spirit was just trying to seek the consent of the guy. If that guy gives in that will be what the Bible calls 'A Lawful Captive'. It'll be very difficult to cast the demon out. I hope he rejects those overtures. Satan is sure tricky. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Anas09: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by PEPSI: 5:57pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
DOELOW DA PILOTMAN says the same thing on youtube! Boss13: |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Tony609(m): 6:31pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Boss13:you can help the departed souls by praying to God to grant them eternal rest...... they will nev forgot u bro once the get to heaven |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Estellie: 8:21pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
MajorJeffery:I think you should go on with your plans of seeing a therapist, they are trained in psychotherapy so they make use of psychological means to solve problems , and I think the issue here is your mind and the relationship you shared with your late friend. There is this strong bond that death isn't enough to break, so you're probably still healing...and yeah, that can take more than ten years. I can't tell you to stop thinking about him or to completely him off your mind, that cannot just happen at a moment, it's a gradual process so I think you should see a therapist to carry you along this gradual process... I really think it's all psychological buh if you suspect something spiritual about it, going by the way it frequently occurs, then you should pray with an open heart and with faith...even with that, you should work towards your faith... Nairalanders are funny though, from you both were involved in same sex relationship, to you had a hand in his death, you are owing him something, he wants to kill you, he has possessed your body....DAMNN... crazy, really crazy, wack beliefs... Sirj, just go on with your plans and forget about all these cedences based on superstitions... |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Estellie: 8:25pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
MajorJeffery:. Grandpa.... ![]() |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Estellie:Yes...my granddaughter, do you want some cookies? Lol I laughed at some of the comments, imagine some begging to ask him about betnaija winning numbers. They were all helpful in different ways and I appreciate. Some gave critical advice and others made fun of the situation thereby making it less serious and worrisome. Thanks dear. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by luvmijeje(f): 10:56am On Jan 22, 2019 |
Seandisputed: No it won't. Simply because those he is giving it to have no relationship with the dead. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by SweetDami(f): 7:28pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Well I had the same experience, my uncle's wife who died in year 2016 while I was in school has recently been appearing to me in dreams and it just the same thing she keeps showing me, the last time I saw her I told her daughter about it so the daughter said she dreamt the same thing about her mom. In conclusion, the deceased might be trying to pass a message and he/she purposely appeared to the fellow because of the trust and closeness between them, while sometimes it demons at work |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by ericmor: 10:24pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Boss13: Your problem is that you don't understand life, and you think the way it work for you is the same way it will work for every other people. missing the place or not, she should do all she can to tackle it as long as it will help her situation. If you don't believe, then stick to what you believe in and let others live |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 11:37pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
sharpwriter: The practice of Christian spirituality, utilizing demonstrated spiritual practices and exercise from the scriptures and other sources. It is not the same as reading the Bible which is popular to church goers. You can do a google search to know more. The disadvantage is that it is low level mysticism which operates within and around the Astral plane. However, it is a good start like Kabbalah and Jewish mysticism. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 11:38pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Tony609: You cannot do anything for those who have transcended. It’s more better to focus on yourself. Their time on Earth is done and they are in a more better place for their own development. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 11:41pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Kenneth4u205: This is a terrible misconception. Some people postulate that those who participate in Astral or Soul travel expose the body to the risk of being taken over by extraterrestrial beings - LIES Just as we have the umbilical cord as babies, there is a silver line cord that attaches the body to the spirit being. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sharpwriter(m): 11:56pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Boss13: Okk... Thank you! |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by godwon01(m): 3:35pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Boss13:That is my own views. Must U comment on it. The Mod seek advice from members and that was my submission. I am not forcing U to accept my opinion. U supposed to write your advice separately not following my opinion. U thought U know better than others. Continue writing your I too know .Bunch of saturated kids. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Stardust19: 6:59pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Boss13: I tire for you, walahi. You speak as if you know me. What is selfish in what I wrote? I didn’t force you to believe me, did I? BTW, it is not The Christ, it is Jesus Christ. Stop misleading people who don't know with a mixture of science, metaphysics and what not. You're either serving God according to the bible or you're not. There's no middle ground. I understand you find it difficult to understand or conceive that God or the heavenly beings including angels do visit us in disguise more frequently than we can imagine because of your wrong perception of who God is. Please find the time to read Isaiah 45:5-7, 54:5 and Jeremiah 3:14. Any change in perspective? God loves us so much more than we can ever imagine that is why He does not wait for us to be all holy or 100% righteous before He visits us or before He let's us see Him. Were the Israelites all 100% pure and holy before Jesus was born and lived among them? You really need more enlightenment about God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. Being very highly educated and intelligent and having read widely is not a guarantee of having a clear understanding of the ways of God. Science is not Christianity and you are inadvertently misleading a lot of people. There are no demons. Really? What do you think is the power behind esoteric practices? Science? Can science stop a bullet from penetrating one's body? Paul foresaw this in I Timothy 6:20-21. The spirits that assist humans are simply angels, and btw, they do not have wings as you see in pictures and drawings. They are spirits in human form, male and female, but super fast and with super strength. Most times, they move in twos, the Leading angel who does most or all of the talking (gives the message) and is usually slightly taller or bigger, and the following angel who does very little or no talking at all. They are extremely polite and kind and patient and sometimes appear very handsome if male or very pretty or beautiful if female but they would never seduce you or get too close to you to cause you to have dirty thoughts. That is the reason why sometimes you see someone you know in this world in your dream and they look 10-20 years younger and more handsome or more beautiful. They are angels in disguise as that person if they do no harm to you and do not lead you to commit sin. They leave at the same point in space with the leading angel disappearing first and then the following angel disappears through the same exact point in space near you. Remain blessed. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Craziestgirl(f): 6:48pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
How I wish I am you! I lost my only love over 10 years ago. The appearance in my dreams has become seldom. How I wish I am you. I have read tons of material on death and afterlife and concluded that 'life goes on. You are gifted. That's why he stays in contact. He would have tried without success to contact others. Not everyone has the ability to 'receive' and not every decedent has the ability to 'send'. Relax and Time will erode the frequency of your dreams. Meanwhile, try keep a diary of your dreams. It's very valuable. How I wish I am you! 'God' bless his soul and God bless you. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by alvinrr: 4:40pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ola17: 6:25pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
Boss13: Hi Boss13, I just came across this your comment. Please tell me why we are here if you don't mind. I'm dying to know. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ola17: 8:46pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
luvmijeje: How would you feel if your loved ones throw away/forgets all the good times you shared together just because of some superstitious belief? 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Nobody: 1:39am On Feb 17, 2019 |
Craziestgirl:Thank you ma'am. Try to move on too. Don't let him be your only love, try to let go. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by orisa37: 8:13am On Feb 17, 2019 |
Yes. It's normal. |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Konquest: 4:11pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
MajorJeffery:^^^^^ ^^^^^ @MajorJeffery, this is the first time I'll be sharing this with anyone. Well we [soul] are all occupying the physical body. It is like a piece of cloth that we put on and discard at the end of the day. There is nothing to be worried about because some of these things are symbolic and there are lessons to be learned. Mum passed in December 2010 and occasionally I have vivid dreams of me and her talking and I learned from her. I know she is fine where she is and I have NO fear because it is a communication between 2 souls. One passed on to a higher spiritual dimension... and is operating at a higher state of vibration than our physical planet. After my mum passed and I first had a vivid encounter with her in my dream, I thought she was ALIVE and I was very happy, but when I WOKE, I became sad because it was in the dream state. But I'm always learning when occassionally I have those encounters with her. Her mission in the physical world had ended and we are going through our unfinished business too on earth. People have given vivid accounts of "near-death-experiences" where they saw their physical bodies while in the hospital operating room or accident sites, and where pronounced dead. But they later came back into the physical bodies to give a vivid account of what happened while they had been certified dead. It shows that there is life after the so-called death of the physical body, but on a higher state of vibration. ![]() "What a Near-Death Experience Taught One Man About Life" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_h4z4Zz17A[4:29] Oct 18, 2015 - Uploaded by OWN "How A Woman Found Faith Through Her Near-Death Experience" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZqAmIXCkNA[6:44] Aug 17, 2018 - Uploaded by TODAY "Near-Death Experiences: The Stories They Tell" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgqAYtXfP9c[1:25:55] Apr 20, 2018 - Uploaded by Univ. of California, Riverside Presented by John Martin Fischer, UC Riverside Professor and Distinguished Professor of Philosophy I hope this helps you to resolve this experience about your good friend. He is okay where he is, based on his state of consciousness. #Great thread. ![]() All the best! 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Unrated900(m): 5:12am On Mar 04, 2020 |
You need to discover your self Your power of existence is not ordinary I think God is speaking through the dead for you. As am seeing it you are about to work for the lord. |
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