Wow can you believe it? 2019 is moving along so fast, and life is moving equally as fast. You turn on your phone and wow! Wedding pictures of your friends and relatives on social media flood your timeline. Some are celebrating their second child’s birthday, while others are getting engaged. Perhaps someone just landed a new job or bought a car and you look at your life, and you’re like “mennn…same old story.”

You’re wondering why your life doesn’t measure up to people’s lives on the ‘gram.

Perhaps the job interviews all seem futile, your home environment you is so frustrating, and your housemates are getting on your nerves. Maybe your rent is almost due and money seems look like a stranger these days. Do you feel alone, and feel like nothing is going well for you?

Yes, everyone is saying “this is my Year, I’m moving into another level but is this year really my year? Nothing seems to be working,” you’re thinking to yourself.

Well, I’ve got good news for you. Hang in there! The fact that the year is starting on a rough note doesn’t mean that things will remain the same way. You only need to be strong and understand that life is not a competition. You are moving at your own pace, no matter how slow. Eventually you will get to your destination. Everything will be fine.

Here are a few ways to help you stay strong doing these trying times. This worked for me, and I hope it works for you too:

Remember if you are still breathing, it isn’t over yet. Appreciate your life no matter what your situation may be right now.
Celebrate with others when they are happy about their milestones. This is not the time to get envious and bad-mouth them. Your time will come too.
Understand that there are seasons in life. This trying season too will pass.
Surround yourself with happy, grateful and positive girlfriends. Remember, you are the company you keep! Please make sure you are in the right circle.
Be yourself. No one is you and that’s your superpower. Hold on to your moral values. Don’t go changing who you are because you are in a rush to attain some societal ideal.
Work hard and Pray harder
Hey, you’re gonna be just fine!

http://queenmoremi.com/2019/01/having-a-rough-2019-so-far-read-this/

You just talked about the situation am passing through right now. So many debts on my head and am still struggling to pay a loan of 200k+ I collected last year.The truth is am in need of money that's the prayer I prayed this morning. I used to compete because ppl who were far behind me some years back have now gone far ahead of me.competition is just a waste of energy.

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All will be well, brother.

mawaki:
You just talked about the situation am passing through right now. So many debts on my head and am still struggling to pay a loan of 200k+ I collected last year.The truth is am in need of money that's the prayer I prayed this morning. I used to compete because ppl who were far behind me some years back have now gone far ahead of me.competition is just a waste of energy.

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Do not despise the days of your little beginning

Na my last one thousand naira na im bedc just collect now now unto say the money when we pay for nepa bill nor reach and them want cut our light..

The thing be say we nor dey were we suppose dey for life but believe me for every day we wake we are actually upgrading

Word

mawaki:
You just talked about the situation am passing through right now. So many debts on my head and am still struggling to pay a loan of 200k+ I collected last year.The truth is am in need of money that's the prayer I prayed this morning. I used to compete because ppl who were far behind me some years back have now gone far ahead of me.competition is just a waste of energy.

Why you sef go collect loan of such amount?

Good write up. May the Almighty God intervenes into all our matters and leads us right in this trying time.

Guys go out there and rugged it.....we go make am, our calls MUST be picked.

Hmmmm

mawaki:
You just talked about the situation am passing through right now. So many debts on my head and am still struggling to pay a loan of 200k+ I collected last year.The truth is am in need of money that's the prayer I prayed this morning. I used to compete because ppl who were far behind me some years back have now gone far ahead of me.competition is just a waste of energy.

never force it bro, let's it flows. GOD got d best plan.

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I dont knw if am the only one that noticed...but most NL gals talk with sense since we started 2019.

Let me encourage your new found passion as a potential motivational speaker by saying that's a good piece up there.

At the same time, let me be factual with you by saying life owes no man anything.

Life is a competition and you can't afford to be slow or sluggish and there's nothing called destination, what we have is a journey.

When people around you are making success, you can't afford to celebrate your slow pace or motivate yourself in your low estate. You use every legal thing within your power to run and turn around your insults. Don't be satisfied with any stage in life, I believe there's always a next level.

Thanks beautiful lady. I think this is the best thread coming from a lady this 2019.

It's all smooth ride. Can't wait to see Mr. Dullard back to Daura.