Nene05:


who's going to keep the home together? He refuses to do any house work says this is woman's job -refuses to cook etc

If it's just left he's not happy with unorganised house.
And buy the way there is money left over each month.

If I have to do the man's job AND women's Job may as well be single.

It's a team- you provide and I do everything
I'm not like one of those over weight women who's house is a mess no food on table no exercise etc. ..

Nene05:
Also for the million time I want kids but sex denied

2buffagain:


I see. He sounds like one of those useless Nigerian men then.
You can't demand all chores be done in the house and that she also works too.

That is illogical.

Nene05:
Also for the million time I want kids but sex denied

wetdick:


you have been the perfect woman, i thought you were those muscular black women, just do what you planned for a romantic time with your husband and get to his heart, from there, if he is opened you can know his mind and decide on the next action to take.

wetdick:


you have been the perfect woman, i thought you were those muscular black women, just do what you planned for a romantic time with your husband and get to his heart, from there, if he is opened you can know his mind and decide on the next action to take.

Saffi:
You are so smart and I love you
I also watch sheras channel, she’s amazing and has helped so many women around the world.

Listen if the man continues acting up, that’s his loss not yours and I think that’s what’s bothering him. He wants to make your life a misery because he doesn’t have full control over the situation. He wants to waste your time as much as possible, just because he’s bitter. The man initially wanted to use you for visa, but the tables have turned and he doesn’t know how to deal with it, so the only way he can make you suffer is by depriving you of love and affection. No matter what, do not go back to work, let him provide for everything. The more he Invests, the harder it will be for him to keep up with the silly games he’s trying to play. Keep your money aside just in case. He’s trying to play a game that he’s bound to lose. As for wanting to have kids, keep on disturbing, use the art of seduction, do everything that you can he will eventually succumb trust me. If not the only thing for you to do is to look outside, and he will end up losing because he desperately needs the visa. He can only do this for so long, so just keep your head up.

wetdick:


you need a brain replacement

Nene05:


Thanks for your support

wetdick:


you dont have one common sense,have you read any of her comment where she wrote she have been everything, she works from home and have been the wife he wanted but mr man doesnt know what he wants and he is 41 years old, damn

you need to cut your head off, it is useless and doesnt think and ask questions

wetdick:


and don't forget my arrangement hahahaha

wetdick:


it seems you do not understand how i love licking, fingering and sucking pussy and the clit, ooh my god, it is something i love doing, i am sure that is why your mother coudnt leave me alone.

go and suck dick' dick sucker.

wetdick:


exactly coming from a known gay guy, go and join your gay colleague, i love pussy but pussy do not stop me from thinking logically, i am not one of you guys that depend on a woman for papers.

go and get your ass bleeped, it leaking as we speak. idiot

wetdick:


so dick sucker, you had to make a meme to express yourself. very interesting.

Nene05:
Are Nigerian men like this in general or just my situation?

PharoahIII:
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Go and look for a job and stop lazying about on nairaland, your husband is at work whilst you are here doing aproko on nairaland, if you have a problem with Nigerian men, are we the only guys on earth? There is Ghana to choose from, Liberia, Mali and so on You can even try Jamaican guys. Aproko.

PharoahIII:
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Go and look for a job and stop lazying about on nairaland, your husband is at work whilst you are here doing aproko on nairaland, if you have a problem with Nigerian men, are we the only guys on earth? There is Ghana to choose from, Liberia, Mali and so on You can even try Jamaican guys. Aproko.

Lina555:
I do understand you as I was in the same boat. The relationship between husband and wife can change with the time. I had the same problem in the past. When my husband started paying less attention to me and we had issues in bed, I decided to try something new. I found top ten male intimacy gadgets on the Internet, bought one of them and suggested trying it. I should say, he was shocked first, but agreed to try. It really helped us! Also we watch adult films together. So, my advice is to spice up your sexual life. Hope it helps!

slimany:



Hmmmn. No wonder . Sorry about ur ordeal Mrs Nene. But to be frank with you. An average Nigeria wife would go to work every weekdays and still prepare breakfast for families. U keep talking about who will take care of the house. Is ur house a dustbin site or garage that u can't take care of it when ure back from work and moreover, u guys gat no kids ,so ,am kinda confused with the talk of who is gonna take care of the house bladderdash.

lovelybugs:
Does your husband work weekends?

Nene05:


No he works Monday to Friday and occasionally Saturday.