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What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by jiorhemen(m): 8:14am On Jan 24, 2019 |
There is a noun that's now commonly used in the lexicon of romantic relationships: the word 'ex'. It seems almost everyone in our contemporary world now has an ex. These days, most people when talking refer to their exes. This left me thinking, why does everyone now has an ex? What turns a boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, fiancee, sexual partner, romantic partner, spouse to an ex? I don't understand why a partner you are dating, whom you love, or in some cases you want to marry suddenly end up as your 'ex'. |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by dingbang(m): 8:24am On Jan 24, 2019 |
Life... |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by Nduxx(m): 8:26am On Jan 24, 2019 |
jiorhemen:Misunderstanding, disagreement, stubbornness. I broke up with my ex because she had another boo, me I cannot be stressing myself. I told her to be with the guy, she wanted both me and the guy.... What??! I later found out that she had been with the nigga before I came along 3 Likes |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by faithfull18(f): 9:05am On Jan 24, 2019 |
People go into relationships not for genuine reasons most times. I know of people who told themselves they wouldn't get into a relationship with someone they didn't see themselves marrying. This helps reduce the number of exes they would have. And please don't tell me that lie of people saying you won't know if you are going to marry the person or not without being in a relationship first. Most times you know you can't/won't marry the person but still get in anyway. They use and dump, the number of exes keeps increasing. 2 Likes |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by berbz(m): 9:07am On Jan 24, 2019 |
faithfull18:not all marriages start with a relationship |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by faithfull18(f): 9:12am On Jan 24, 2019 |
berbz:True but most do. |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by berbz(m): 9:18am On Jan 24, 2019 |
faithfull18:psychologically |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by jiorhemen(m): 9:20am On Jan 24, 2019 |
Nduxx:In order words, she was cheating on you. Cheating now seems to be a common thing in relationships. Anyway, it's better to quit such relationships just as you did than to die under the yoke of a cheating partner 2 Likes |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by Mgbadike80: 9:23am On Jan 24, 2019 |
It's complicated even with the best of intentions. I had full intention of marrying my ex but as the relationship went beyond the initial periods of hysteria, i started noticing a lot of behavior that i can't tolerate in a wife while she was hell bent on not changing those behavior, i eventually concluded that she does not love me but only wants to marry due to social and biological pressure as she was already approaching her late thirties. I choosed to end the relationship rather than spend the rest of my life in a miserable marriage. Her current husband seems to be suffering that predicament now based on comments by our then working place colleagues. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by Headlesschicken(m): 9:25am On Jan 24, 2019 |
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Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by Nduxx(m): 9:29am On Jan 24, 2019 |
jiorhemen:Too common, it's the ones in relationships that will still come to you 1 Like |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by Mgbadike80: 9:36am On Jan 24, 2019 |
Nduxx:the problem is that many if not most cheaters carry it on even after marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by Nduxx(m): 9:43am On Jan 24, 2019 |
Mgbadike80:"old habits die hard" 2 Likes |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by jiorhemen(m): 10:39am On Jan 24, 2019 |
Mgbadike80:You dodged a bullet lol 1 Like |
Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by marvin906(m): 10:50am On Jan 24, 2019 |
well my case is somehow.. buh let me highlight one cause of my breakup with my ex.. she was making me pay for another niggas mistake actually the first guy she ever dated and also the guy that took her virginity cheated on her and it affected her a lot and lucky me I became Jesus Christ for the guy I was paying for a sin that wasn't mine
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Re: What Turns A Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Fiancee To An Ex? by jiorhemen(m): 1:32pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
marvin906:She wanted to scapegoat you. That's bad |
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