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Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by ednut1(m): 1:22pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
From the writeup its clear the op has some ego issues. If we hear her side now we go open mouth. She stayed in the hospital for over a month. U did not pay bt said her family did hmmmmm 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
ogawisdom: You lack wisdom. 5 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by jieta: 1:23pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
don't worry when the child grow up she'll come looking for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
ednut1: With help from her family side. Seems like you have comprehension issues 7 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by chloride6: 1:24pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
I hope you know the law leans to the side of the mother in cases like this.. You have not proven a case of negligence or poor care from the mother to child. I think you can forget about total custody except you want to "onnoghen" the judge. But you can get partial custody which wont bring any fulfilment I can guarantee you. If you want have access to that child since you refused to marry her mother you are going to have a be an obedient dog to the mother for a while. No other way. Beg her, send her money, put up with her nonsense. Just make sure the fact you didn't marry her doesn't pain her anymore because as long as that pain is there, no picking for you. 19 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by jrusky(m): 1:25pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Listen to yourself? *You never intended to marry her but you can f u c k her with no condom* pls are you serious at all? So N100 pack of condom too much for you to buy and save yourself all these mess? Mr man pls go and look after your baby or simply get full custody of the baby via court order or forget you have baby anywhere just choose one. All these davido, Wizkid, Timaya and Flavour baba mama madness is very annoying. So pls free us from those madness. Good luck. 4 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 1:25pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
![]() The lady in question is very unhappy that marriage wasn't forthcoming,probably op deceived her to enjoy her cookie ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by dejavuh0007(m): 1:26pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
this is not america. under the Nigerian constitution, d child belongs to d father. |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by dingbang(m): 1:26pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
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Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Taiwo20(m): 1:26pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
I think you should take a step towards reconciliation and marriage first. Even if it means I taking drink there first.. urhobo people love their tradition and love their drink. A bribe here, a bribe there will go a long way in that family. For your child's sake if you can apologize and plead with your wife even if she is very wrong and you are right. |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Lexusgs430: 1:27pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
iloputaife: Not all fathers are daddy's ...... You contributed 0 to her hospital bills, and you are claiming rights ? Be prepared for a long battle, which would involve lots of solicitors feeding large ........ You did not contribute school fees, but you provide biscuit and ribena ? Did you actually say this ? You also attended the christening and birthday celebrations ? Did you actually say this ? When it gets to big expense, you seem to either want to run or have it your way ..... Your way or the highway ........ You are now claiming rights ? You should be more sober and put your ego to one side ...... It's the child that is the important factor here .............. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Qokie: 1:27pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18: @Bolded. That's how Linda Ikeji started. We know the rest of the story. 4 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by benzema8(m): 1:27pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Bro I feel ur pain.play her by her own game.be a man and ignore her as well.i guess ur sperm is still active.get married and have a happy family.i bet you she ll come begging.beat her to her own game.no need for court. Life is too short to b unhappy 5 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by TEYA: 1:28pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18:I fail to see how a court can deny a man the right to see his child, she may have custody of the child but she will be compelled to let him see his child and contribute towards her upbringing. If the baby mama tries any nonsense she will be dealt with. |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Apeshy101(m): 1:29pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
iloputaife: Insultive is not an English word. Go get your kinsmen, they are in the best position to deliberate on this matter. In most case, when you take legal action, you will still be referred to your kinsmen and hers. 2 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Rebornhombre: 1:30pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
I'm going through the same, OP let her be, this a battle you can never win, just visit your daughter whenever you are free to and do things father do. As long as you are a responsible one, no one can deny for you to see your daughter, it because they see you as cool headed, they never jam better craze. You must miss your daughter, i know how that feels, this is the sacrifice you have to make until she comes to age where she would understand. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by kaydee(m): 1:30pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
What they want is a wedding and since that's not on the table, there's nothing you can do to make them happy. Let them know you're going to take legal actions if they persist in their foolishness 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Cyberleets: 1:30pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
I have lived in delta state since I was born,urhobo is not a tribe an igbo man can just go and marry Becos we have different culture. In urhobo land, if ur wife dies...the family will come and carry her body. It doesn't belong to u anymore. Even if u paid full bride price. In some case u will carry the responsibility of the girl's family cos they will claim they only feed Through her. While igbo culture requires u to bury ur wife in ur home compound Becos its urs. So u see? The two tribe can't mix Urhobo is a no for me...moreover their men are lazy 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by 1two3: 1:31pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
SUPERPACK: You are a Fool, did the OP require any financial aid from you 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by babyfaceafrica: 1:32pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Op is slow...you are allowing her to play you like ping pong.... that lady is smarter than you... when she needs something from you, she got it, but when you need something from her... did you get it? .my advise.. move on.... unless you want a .messy court case, you won't win set... cut your loss.. in the future, your daughter will look for You 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Make peace. That’s your best bet. You just need to change your approach, please note that you cannot be in charge when you are not there. You are not Her husband and you seem to want to enjoy husband perks and authority. You said it yourself that She had a terrible birth experience; you should expect Her to be extra emotional when it comes to Her baby. Go and visit with your parents if possible, let go of your ego and APOLOGIZE first, then ask for suggestions on ways to ensure peace among the two families for the sake of your baby. 20 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
AFONAMARO: You lack wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Rebornhombre: Probably you provide and step up, OP doesn't, at least not in important things, flip the table on yourself and imagine if in your case the only contribution made by the mum was splitting pampers, caprisonne and crackers how would you feel. 4 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by ednut1(m): 1:33pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Elder0001: ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Rebornhombre: 1:35pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Biscuits: I understand. |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Kunsky007: 1:36pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
ifyalways: Good talk.....this just about ego, and defending ur ego here will only worsen matter. 5 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by chloride6: 1:36pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
dejavuh0007: Fa slap you... Who dey lie give you? 6 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by ednut1(m): 1:37pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Lexusgs430:even refused to send money cos he sent 2 days ago. I weak for this OP. 3 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by frozen70(f): 1:38pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Hmmmm What a lengthy story I suggest you continue to visit her until she calms down She is highly annoyed with you and until she is lucky to get married to another man you remain an enemy to her She is your daughter no doubt and continue to play your role on her If she refused to accept money sent to her account or she returns the same money back to your account, use the money and buy provisions for her and take to your daughter Meanwhile plan and move on with your life and anytime they call you for financial help for your daughter, so what you think you can do. Her family can take care of her without your inputs but still do something Since her pregnancy and delivery was grace of God, I won't advise you to marry her and she will want to keep that child because she might be scared of another pregnancy It's not easy to control girls from rich or girls that are independent What happened have happened, learn your lesson and date girls you think you can handle 2 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by DonTim1: 1:39pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Sincerely why are you bothering yourself op, give it time, in due time, mother, child or circumstance will call for you again, then make a stand. Never marry any woman who disrespects you. If you so much love that child or want custody or whatever is pushing you towards running into all that reasons you wrote up the, go legal. For me, it's option 1,but congrats on not marrying the lady you described! Not all that glitter is gold, you probably fell for beauty, good sex, or societal standing else what are you doing with someone not worthy of marriage so much as getting her pregnant. 5 Likes |
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