Elder0001:



You lack wisdom.

Elder0001:



You lack wisdom.

Mayangel:
Make peace. That’s your best bet. You just need to change your approach, please note that you cannot be in charge when you are not there. You are not Her husband and you seem to want to enjoy husband perks and authority. You said it yourself that She had a terrible birth experience; you should expect Her to be extra emotional when it comes to Her baby.

Go and visit with your parents if possible, let go of your ego and APOLOGIZE first, then ask for suggestions on ways to ensure peace among the two families for the sake of your baby.

EZINNE1759:

SUPERPACK:
A pack of condom would have saved you from all this grammar, move on pls

ogawisdom:


U r obviously a kid n far from an elder

ednut1:
even refused to send money cos he sent 2 days ago. I weak for this OP.

faithfull18:
Why do you men always do this, you think the woman isn't good enough for you to marry but she is always good for you to have sex with.


Even if you start a court process, I doubt you will win the case.

From all indications, she can duly take care of the child without your input.

I don't know how to advise you because I don't even support premarital sex to start with.

eventsmallchops:
just put yourself in her shoe or let's say she's your younger sister? we men need to be considerate atimes , for you to have abandoned her and the child in the toughest time , you need to show remorse.

ogawisdom:
Op u sound foolish

The child is not yours because you didn't marry the girl, u are just a stupid sperm donor, move on already.

If u want the child to be yours then you must first marry the girl like every responsible man does.

If u had married the girl u will now have the impetus to call the baby yours until then the baby is not yours

keepingmum:
Your chikd has been supported since birth by her grandparents.
They provide shelter, feeding, clothes and education for her yet you are on a sosha media doing instagram daddy, buying ribena, biscuit and indomie once in 2 years and you think that makes you a daddy??


Whether you are in good terms with the mothet or not, your child will eat everyday, her diapers will be changed everyday, the house will need electricity and she wikk use water to bath, drink , for her clothes to be washed.
She ll need vaccines, coughs and colds which children often contract need to be treated yet you are sitting on your high horse, as a proud anambra man: complaining that they didnt respect you.
Please does respect pay those bills above?

Why didnr you use your highly regarded state respect to pay her delivery bills in hospital? Or use it for her feeding?

Did you take over paying her tuition in the Sept following thr April she started sch since your gross is the timing?

Have you bern supporting financially with bank records to proove it monthly since she was born? Or because the mother didnt dance to your tune as the self crowned Anambra Prince that you are , a child you call your own should starve and be homeless cos daddy aint happy with mummy and her grandparents?

Oga go and see your lawyer ohh, cos you have a long way to go and proof before you ll be considered fit enough for joint physical custody

NevetsIbot:


What nonsense are you spewing here. the thread is about a man who wants to see his child and has been denied of that right and you are here talking about the only thing your tiny feminist mind can process.

Aunty!! Dating might or may not lead to marriage... Get that into your dull brain.

Op sir... If someone was withholding me from seeing my own baby girl.. I'd rain hell on her and her family. Go the legal way and make them bend!!!!

faithfull18:


Lol, everyone in your generation is and I am telling you.

Since you weren't trained from home on how to be civil, we will do that here.