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Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Melian(f): 2:04pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
jaxxy: He has no fucjing right to the child. Only thing he has right over is sperm not child. 3 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Macgreat(m): 2:06pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Brotherly, Calm down. You don't need to bother yourself much. since they don't need your assistance at this early stage , kindly leave them alone and focus on building yourself. a time is coming, they'll need you. 2 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 2:07pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Melian:Chill out. Take it easy. |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Melian(f): 2:08pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
This can't happen to me sha. Wahalli the sperm donor wouldn't have access to the child. I would reason this way if I was younger. But with maturity, I know that the wellbeing of the child must be considered first more than anything. Every child has a right to fatherly care and love. But the question is, is this lunatic op worthy? 6 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Rebornhombre:Well, i really Dont get this whole thing but i think marriage is d issue here. D lady is angry because d guy refuse to marry her neither did he tell her he needed a baby mama, it not right. Probably she felt used thats y she is acting up. I was suppose to marry my baby's dad but genotype stood in and i couldn't risk it. My son is almost three and we never had any of these, although we argued about his food, i wanted exclusive breast feeding and move on to natural food but he wants those formular stuff. After much argument, we brought our parents in and they supported me. Same way we resolved other issues. Everything nor be fight 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by faithfull18(f): 2:09pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
tzoracle:You are the stupid one here with an IQ less than 0. You are on this thread to advise the OP and not to be showing the world how mentally disturbed you are. I don't have time to waste on kids who don't have anything meaningful to contribute, all they go about doing is quoting people and showing the world how brain dead they are. We know your type, braindead kid. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by AngelAhnie(f): 2:09pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18:I hope this is coming from a virgin, if not be quiet 2 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by nijabazaar: 2:10pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18: U are actually a very dull imbe.cile The supposed teenager up there had enough sense than you can muster 1 Like |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Tellemall: 2:10pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
ednut1: Don't be surprised if the amount sent doesn't exceed 10,000. His problem is simply that the woman isn't dependent on him. He's finding it difficult to accept that. In retaliation he became distant. They're not married but he wants to be treated as a husband. Not everyone will bow to that desire of his. He sounds like he was not there for two years. His only contribution is a box of juice and biscuits towards his child. How much does that cost? That's his offer for fatherhood. And he's surprised her parents refused the offer? He drove his car that he fueled with who knows how much to deliver juice and biscuits. Those old people have certainly seen the cream of it all. He should move on. He's forcing himself on her. He doesn't even think she can speak English. If she was broke he would not want them. But because she doesn't need him he wants to be involved. 16 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by labanj1(m): 2:10pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
eniolorunfe:Without consent you say, because she was blind when they were having sex. When they say no sex before marriage, young folks will not listen. This advice favours the female gender, but no they won't listen.This issue is as a result of two irresponsible adults,if you want to advice do that without blaming any party. 1 Like |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Tizu(m): 2:10pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
ifyalways: Head to which court? What proof does he have as the father of the child? A woman you impregnated , abounded and she went through medical difficulty because of a child you are coming to claim and yet not good for you to marry. I wish men who have married years without a child will come your way and advise you. You may be toying with your real wife and family. Discuss with your father if he is around or any of your trusted maternal uncles. You need elders' wisdom. 6 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by jaxxy(m): 2:11pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Melian: U think Ure in a jungle system? The law has sense when humans choose to forget theirs. In the us the govt can even take ur child from u, giving birth to child doesn’t give u license to misbehave. Keep dreaming. 3 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by faithfull18(f): 2:12pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
nijabazaar:Like begets like. You would definitely support your kind. You are mentally slow, deal with it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by eventsmallchops: 2:12pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
toluleke: he's very arrogant , thinking biscuit and juice can make up for changing diapers and sleepless nights , the lady must have pressurized him for them to get married when she newly got pregnant but he was probably dragging his feet and he still went ahead to let the parent paid 1m hospital bill when she gave birth in terrible condition spending months in the hospital, still refused to pay his daughter school fee over flimsy excuse, still talking about taking them to court! very arrogant. I wish its possible to return your semen back to you. 14 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by vikstandon(m): 2:12pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18: Why do u lure a man to sex in expectation of a ring... Do you think sex is a ticket to marriage. Op must have paid heavily more than #500-#3000 payable to a sex worker without feelings or any sense of responsibility attached. Be wise lady! She or you could be good in bed or as a sex object...but that won't buy till death do us part Union. That Union is more valuable than sex! |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Fhowe: 2:14pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Kidaholic:don’t mind these ladies that think using pregnancy to tie a man Down is the best way to go about this marriage thingy ,I would advice the op to stay clear for the now if they can foot the bills no problem in the nearest future your daughter will locate you just make sure you make provisions Down for her she will grow with time to know these things herself a custody battle will lead him nowhere in this harsh economy they will make contact with you just be patient 2 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by pocohantas(f): 2:14pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Xisnin: No mind them "team babymama", they think it is easy. The worst woman to pull that shit with, is a woman who has her own money. She will forget your existence while you struggle with your ego ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by femimighty(m): 2:15pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Bro.I will send u a pm. You sure know how it rolls. Bonjelomo: |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by steefi07: 2:15pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Go and do the right thing MARRY her case close 3 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Melian(f): 2:16pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Earthbound: It's not fair. It's not just fair. I don't think you understand the emotional trauma the said lady must have been through. That said, I don't understand how educated women have premarital sex without condom. It's stupid. Silly. Some will have premarital sex and wail that the man dumped them. While the the rest of that category will get pregnant, and get dumped for getting pregnant. I'm sure if pregnancy had not set in, the stupid op would still have been fucking her. And she too go still open legs believing it'll end in praise. Women need to wise up. 5 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by nijabazaar: 2:16pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18: I still repeat you are very dull , partially disjointed imbe.cile... How is that hard to understand?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by tzoracle: 2:19pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
faithfull18: LOL I am a 'kid' quite alright but no 'adult' would quote me two times just to throw tantrums, see oponu who wants to train someone on civility Is it a must that op must marry the girl ? they fvcked, she got pregnant and gave birth but op does not like her again, shikina All this stupid feminists 1 Like
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Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Melian(f): 2:20pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
jaxxy: I think it's foolhardy, no offense, to use the U.S as a case study here. This is Nigeria not US 1 Like |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by perfectgen(m): 2:21pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
jeff1607: I somewhat see this as the best advice. It will be practically hard for you to win the case 1. You didn't marry the woman so she can claim the baby is not yours; don't be surprised how far women can go when they want to spite you. 2. You admitted not paying the basic bills for the child's upkeep at pertinent times. While I don't blame you for this, knowing finances could have been an issue, their lawyer will blow the matter out of proportion by making you look irresponsible without means of taking care of your child. 3. The most important person is neither you nor your baby mama but the baby; you are a man and obviously still career oriented. You may not have the means and time to properly take care of the baby so I won't advise you to see for custody of the baby now. Find elders within the baby mama family who your family can talk to and make amends on your seeing the child at apportioned time. Importantly, work harder, focus on becoming bigger and more stable; I can promise you they will bring the child to you when she grows older. After all, you can't be Dangote's kid and allow your mom to dissuade you from meeting your father. Just follow the path of peace in seeing your daughter 3 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Tellemall: True papi 3 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by faithfull18(f): 2:21pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
nijabazaar: Hahahah, stupidity runs in your bloodline, I am not surprised. Your kind lacks attention in the real world, you therefore come online to get it. I don't converse with senseless persons like you. This is officially the last response you will be getting from me. You can keep talking to yourself for all I care. I pray sense be restored to you this year. 1 Like |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Melian:I think Nigerian women need to be orientated on birth control use. Like most guys, I would almost never Fûck anyone I'm dating with a condom, it's just wrong. That said, haven't you been in a relationship you just know isn't for the long term but you keep enjoying the perks of staying in the relationship? The OP is not at fault for wanting to have a relationship with his offspring. The babe sef no know say that child can reignite what was lost between them. Na impatience and pride kill both of them. Luckily for the kid, it seems both of them are financially stable. |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Emiratechef: 2:22pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
My brother just go to welfare Dept of federal ministry of women affairs..as long as you are comfortable... you will have your child back with immediate effect..try it |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by conscienceman4(m): 2:22pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
You got her pregnant. N1,000,000.00 was spent at child birth by her family and not you You did not show any commitment towards marriage You were still proving you were the man when the only thing you did was to impregnate someone's daughter out of wedlock You continued analyzing her character short-comings thinking you are perfect. MY FRIEND: Unknown to you, you were given a time limit to act as a responsible man but you failed and you want them to be nice to you continually. My friend sit up and be a man. When you slept with her and got her pregnant, why didn't you think of the legal implications. And now the devil has planted a word in your heart by calling her "baby mama". You want the parents to still listen to you. Who gives birth to a girl and expect her to be made a "baby mama" instead of proper marriage ![]() I know that in Anambra the family of the girl will claim the baby under similar circumstances. You want to go to court over a baby that almost kill the mother at childbirth abi. Be careful o. And be wise and make peace, let pride not go first. 14 Likes |
Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
ogawisdom: A man who didn’t pay bride price can’t be the father of a kid... did you think before creating that post? You are obviously a village stricken illiterate . 2 Likes |
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