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Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by IchBinBrait(m): 3:16pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Crossbow: I felt for you after reading this piece... but this is Nigeria where education is given number 1 priority.., where you will tell your parents about your dreams and they will be like "do you wan't to disgrace this family,, can't you see Mr. A's son who is reading medicine and will soon become a doctor?? or Mrs. Lagbaja's daughter who is studying law and will soon be a lawyer?? If I were a member of your family, you would have followed your mates to Cyprus anyhow, anyway. Too much comparison.. I must say the truth,, most parents/family members would rather prefer you do their will and forget about chasing your own dream. Parents have a shallow view about the future. ......and to the OP,, bro get contacts, connections etc. Be the best among your peers and travel out. It is not too late to become a professional footballer. It is not a must that you play in England, France, Italy or other top European clubs.. football is football. Start from somewhere. In future your parents/guardians will be proud of you. They may not see reasons with you now but they will in future. You are above 18 so you are not a kid. Take that bold step and do not let discouragers to discourage you. You are the sole decider of your future. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: Dude you have almost wasted two decades of ur life, start chasing ur dreams already, As for me, am already chasing mine, which is to enter heaven in the after life ( atleast in heaven I can be anything I want, even the president of my own world ) |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Demayour: 3:37pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
There's nothing really new that still need to be done. But I understand your concept of 'normal' life. Just find something you'd so much pour your heart into, that you'd hardly have time for any other thing. Just gi beyond the norm. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Jman06(m): 4:19pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Boss13:Exactly |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Haymaykar(m): 4:22pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
FlackoJodye:sure |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by IchBinBrait(m): 4:34pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Demayour: Programming fits in here well...... |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by nnadychuks(m): 8:52pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:I don't believe I can make it anywhere with talent. I learn to be better with hard work. I just love the game... do you ever picture people chanting your name in a 100k cap stadium or on TV? |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks:Wish u d best |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by nnadychuks(m): 9:18pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
femi4:I played football for as long as I can remember, but in school. I've left sec school for 3 years now, I'm in uni... I still want to play football. But I believe people here have life experience here and can advise me |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nasir123(m): 6:22am On Jan 29, 2019 |
Nope! You era definitely of track. That's the mind of a Heroe. Don't worry, soonest you'll definitely find your Balance. All you need to do is to be good, humble,and keep Learning. You're WELCOME. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by miketes259: 10:15am On Jan 29, 2019 |
nnadychuks: Chase your dreams bro never give up on them aside football, there are other things to do that will change your lifstyle |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by jojothaiv(m): 2:16am On Jan 30, 2019 |
The hood has a way of bring out both the worst and best in one, it is up to you to figure it out.. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 11:19am On May 25, 2019 |
Eco99: My favorite post on NL so far. So simple and so true. It has stayed with me and has been coming to my mind in so many different situations offline. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Tripsty: 7:59pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
Same thing DIDIER DROGBA IAN WRIGHT KLOSE JAMIE VARDY EDOUAD MENDY And a certain France world cup winner(2002) did if they can do it at a late age you can also do it. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Stippy: 8:02pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
Yes if you are in Europe you have an 80% chance of making it. |
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