ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you know what? I stop going to church two years ago, my believe was as a result of Nigerian pastors hypocrisy suggested me going to church is a waste of time, within this two year, my life receive great turn around, financially, spiritually,good health, I only pray to God in my closet

Nanceer:
You're the man in the relationship.. why should she force u to church?

Bro, do what's right in your mind and if she isn't cool with it, she isn't your final bus stop

yemi15:


Then that will be hard, might be time to find that woman you want from Benin Republic here, at least e no far. As for our women, when they are less than 30, na so so mundane requirements den dey carry around before unable go become their ordinary boyfriend.

DanDeeBoss:
Abhii na.... But see as she vex...

bluefilm:

You wey don repent, shebi you dey sleep for inside heaven abi?

Ategberoson:



nothing is hard when I'm ready to get one, I will

don't even have time for any love for now sef

Damitism:


Lol. No one offended me. I was reacting to the OP post. I can't date such a girl. If I were the OP, I will sit the girl down and let her know I'm not the regular church goer. If she ain't okay with that, I will wish her the best finding Mr. Right. I believe in God and I'm nothing without him but going to church can never be a proof of my love for God. I have a lot of testimonies and experiences with God to prove that. I don't need to be in church to proof my godliness.

bluefilm:


You wey don repent, shebi you dey sleep for inside heaven abi?

ogashman:
I didn't go to church yesterday due to the fact that I couldn't iron my clothes because of a total black out by electricity distribution company in my area.

So,I called Bae later in the evening of same day,we talked smoothly about everything,cracked few jokes and laughed and then she asked me if I went to church.


Being the honest type,I told her the truth which was that I didn't go to church, citing my reasons.


Bae really got angry.saying that I never liked going to church bla bla bla.


That how can I call myself a Christian and feel comfortable sitting at home on a sunday.


I apologised for not going to church but also reminded her that going to church does not take one to heaven.

However I told her that one could be a church goer but not a doer of God's word.she should focus more on who I'm and not whether I go to church or not..it doesn't really matter.

There are so many people that go to church yet they do the opposite of what they stand for...it doesn't make sense to me.

After everything, Bae was still angry which led to talking to me in a rude manner and i had to threaten her that I would hang up the call.. She dared me to...I did..because I was fed up with her nagging about church.

I hate pretending to be who I'm not.....I'm a liberal Christian. I go to church most times but not all the time and I hate people wanting to force me to just because they feel it is the right thing.


We have not communicated since yday and I have decided not to call her(knowing she did be waiting for me to call) because I don't think I was wrong in this case.


Pls,My people am I wrong in this?or my girl is just over reacting ?because I see this as a non-issue really.

MRSoftapples:
For bringing this piece of crap here, wasting my data and wasting space in nairaland.

You, your girlfriend , Buhari and Apc are all mad.

Tosinex:
So if she dares you to tear your wedding certificate, you will do the same! You should try and learn more about women. Uncle it is not everything you tear up shirt and show your muscle! She's pissed about you not going to church, all you need to do is just calm her down, and show little remorse about it since she's so concerned! Not getting high on your nerves. Also learn not to argue much with women especially with your lady it might degenerate into what you never envisage!

Tonysmith4sure:


Funny how you think that the people that brought christianity to his doorstep are gonna deceive him.

Wuraola01:



The vexing is good.

Next time, d guy no go miss church.
What's he doing wey e con miss church

The guy no iron clothe

DanDeeBoss:
The guy no iron clothe

Wuraola01:



Na so.

Shey na excuse be this one

Haba na... So make him carry squeezed cloth enter church?? Let's say na Suit sef... How you see am??

DanDeeBoss:
Haba na... So make him carry squeezed cloth enter church?? Let's say na Suit sef... How you see am??

Wuraola01:



Okay

Why him no iron clothe? Don't tell me he was tired d night b4 ohh

He said there was no light

funshint:
Not attending the church is not the issue. Ladies can be "illogical" sometimes. But u most know how to play your way around them with humour. Where you really got it wrong is cutting the call on her. Mehn! that was very rude of you. Infact you've committed the ultimate sin. You really got it wrong here. You can't do this with all girls. Expecially someone you're hoping to walk down the aisle one day. If she did that; that's fine. it'll be her responsibility to call back. But you're the one that cut the call. Except you've also checked out of the relationship I'll urge u to swallow your pride. Apologize to her for cutting the call on her and make no excuse. A real man must always know how to control his temper.
*Better thank God she's even angry that you didn't go to church. Not the one that will be jumping from one club to another.
Bro be wise. *winks

ozoneymcm:

That is not the OP's issue though as the lady believes he is a church goer, he lied about the reason he didn't go to church and to make it worse, with a foolish excuse(sorry op). The "good" girl was right to attack him

ogashman:
I didn't go to church yesterday due to the fact that I couldn't iron my clothes because of a total black out by electricity distribution company in my area.

So,I called Bae later in the evening of same day,we talked smoothly about everything,cracked few jokes and laughed and then she asked me if I went to church.


Being the honest type,I told her the truth which was that I didn't go to church, citing my reasons.


Bae really got angry.saying that I never liked going to church bla bla bla.


That how can I call myself a Christian and feel comfortable sitting at home on a sunday.


I apologised for not going to church but also reminded her that going to church does not take one to heaven.

However I told her that one could be a church goer but not a doer of God's word.she should focus more on who I'm and not whether I go to church or not..it doesn't really matter.

There are so many people that go to church yet they do the opposite of what they stand for...it doesn't make sense to me.

After everything, Bae was still angry which led to talking to me in a rude manner and i had to threaten her that I would hang up the call.. She dared me to...I did..because I was fed up with her nagging about church.

I hate pretending to be who I'm not.....I'm a liberal Christian. I go to church most times but not all the time and I hate people wanting to force me to just because they feel it is the right thing.


We have not communicated since yday and I have decided not to call her(knowing she did be waiting for me to call) because I don't think I was wrong in this case.


Pls,My people am I wrong in this?or my girl is just over reacting ?because I see this as a non-issue really.

DanDeeBoss:
He said there was no light

Wuraola01:



Na so

Be deceiving urself

lovelybugs:

Lol o know girls that never miss church on Sunday's but they are always at the club on Fridays

OyinO:
You have done NOTHING WRONG. we are in the Age of Reason, and not in the Age of Belief anymore. Church is empty and vain gathering that should be avoided by any right thinking fellow. There is nothing like Almighty Creator or Creatress in the church arena, esp in Africa.

mastermaestro:


At least I have spoken to you about repentance. You should seriously think about accepting JESUS CHRIST and getting born again. There is no greater gift than salvation. Think about it!