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Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by OrdercityWeb: 6:24pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
[You see, one thing I've learnt to always do is self-evaluation at critical stages of life. When you evaluate your experience then you can draw lessons and take a look at the mistakes you made and be sure not to repeat them. Now, relationships....... I know I'm treading murky waters, but really the realization hit me yesterday; what did I really learn from my past relationship? I began to take a journey down memory lane and started making mental notes and I realised a few things. This could help someone, here we go: 1)Don't build your life around someone, that because of that one person you have issues with all your friends 2)Beware of a guy/lady who can't make decisions themselves and are being told what to do by a "mentor", "spiritual father" or maybe even a "friend" they are not matured enough for a relationship.relationship. 3)Family first always, anyone can leave you but family would never leave you. All that money you're spending on her or him doesn't gurantee anything. 4)Always trust your instincts, don't ignore red flags. Observe 5)Don't do what you're supposed to be doing for a wife to a girlfriend and vice versa. Always have limits and principles. It will save you lots of regrets These are the few I could remember. Share yours let's learn one or two things from each other tonight. 4 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by OrdercityWeb: 6:24pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Lalasticlala share yours too |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
1: Don't trust too much, it kills and helps the other stab you more. 2: Learn to appreciate yourself, move on when you're not appreciated. 3: Don't kill yourself fighting to get approved, someone somewhere wish for you. 4: Don't go loving excessively, it kills when not reciprocated. 5: Learn to build yourself, don't pause your life cause of love or relationship. 6: Love yourself first. Amongst others 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by banjicom(m): 6:34pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Never date a girl who had bitter experience in her past relationships. most especially those young girls with many ex-boyfriends, it never work in the long run. too much Familiarity brings contempt. Never be too available for a girl calling and Chatting her up everyday will make you less desirable. 6 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by canalily(m): 6:38pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
vikkimimi:ur words touched my inner soul. i want to share something with you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
canalily: All ears... |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by canalily(m): 6:42pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
vikkimimi:you didnt welcome me by saying that. |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by OrdercityWeb: 6:47pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
vikkimimi: Apt!! cc: lalasticlala |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Fidelismaria: 7:57pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:30pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Don't force it if it's not working, just be yourself and move on. 5 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by OKOATA(m): 9:06pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
julybaba:I wouldn't say we should love our spouse like oxygen but I would say don't trust with all your heart. If you end up with a broken relationship they will tell your deep secrets no matter what. My ex GF told my mom I smoke M.J after we broke up. Something I kept from my mom for years. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Bloooody(m): 9:07pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Never lick a woman's Anus |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by BlackSaints: 9:13pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Bloooody:wtf, You are one sick morafvcker. 5 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Never date a broke guy Always enjoy every moment. You neveer know when death snatches a loved one |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Bloooody(m): 10:03pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
BlackSaints:Shut your mouth! |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Hollasmall: 5:56am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Never fall in love with your heart but with your head. Falling in love with your heart will make you do stupid things for love and you will be hurt so badly at the end... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by BlackSaints: 8:16am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Bloooody:sick freak 2 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Katier00(f): 8:38am On Jan 31, 2019 |
Always have a back up plan 4 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Informer155(m): 9:56am On Jan 31, 2019 |
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Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Informer155(m): 10:01am On Jan 31, 2019 |
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Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Owenn115: 12:16pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Most important thing I learnt is nothing is by force in this life 2 Likes |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Youngearnny(m): 12:27pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Katier00:Hmmm, can u pls explain further? |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by stag: 12:28pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Katier00: You shouldn’t be in a relationship where you need a backup plan. Love one at a time. When it doesn’t work, move on. You’re too pretty for that kind of philosophy. |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Katier00(f): 12:54pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
stag:let me rephrase, don't love with all your heart, always be ready to adjust your expectation at any given time. Leave a space in your heart and life to fall back on in case the rest are chattered. I am and will always be an advocate of one at a time |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by stag: 12:58pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Katier00: @ bolded: Maybe you shouldn’t love at all. |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Katier00(f): 4:25pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
stag:that is not possible |
Re: Your Last Relationship: Mistakes And Lessons? by Deicide: 4:42pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Hollasmall:I don't see the connection between an organ that pumps and generate blood with love, am i missing something? |
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