Premiumwriter:
I mean stopping her while walking in opposite direction

Now I understand

Premiumwriter:
2nd Toast Update

Personally, I like going for a walk at night. But this time I was sitting down on one spot receiving fresh air when I I saw this fair girl returning from work. I couldn't see her face because it was getting dark but her shape was really good.

The moment I saw her, I wanted to approach, it was then that the devilish anxiety kicked in. I let her walked past me and was just sitting and staring at her behind.

She was getting further and further away and I was just sitting there giving myself various excuses. Well, I don't know how but I got up and started following her. After following her like mumu for some time, I caught up with her.

Naturally,

Me: wow, Wetin you go buy like this? (she was carrying a nylon bag)

Her: nothing

Me: na nothing full bag like this?

Her: (a bit rude) [/i]I said it's nothing. See I'm very tired from work, just leave me alone!

Me: [i] (open my eyes in surprise) eeyah sorry eh.

Her: Thank you!

We walked in silence for a while and I started again:

Me: so where do you work?

Her: [i] ( stops walking) [/i]I said you should leave me alone!

By this time we're at a little intersection and she took the other route which leads to a compound. Don't know if that's her house.

That girl mean sha.

Next approach will be face to face. I've never tried that before

nice one op i have experienced that too. from experience there are reasons why girls respond that way.
(1)she may be having a badday and hence not in a good mood .you should have tried to lighten her mood by making a very funny statement that first sentence you made was not humourous enough to lighten her mood even if she doesnt respond that day just leave an impression that will get her curious about ur personality then try again sometime.

(2)women are very intuitive in nature they can easily sense fear,nervousness and pessimism .if they sense it turns them off thats their nature. women instinctively craze confidence in men it doesnt matter if he is a jerk just be confident and sure of yourself and super relaxed naturally she will succumb to your guts especially young girls of 18----24

(3)was your body language kul enof?did you look her in the eye and smile with that i dont care attitude ,was your voice tone deep and exude manliness .were you in a good and happy mood when you approach her.

in summary women naturally respond to high masculinity (solid confidence and charisma) and men naturally respond to high feminity (boobs ,ass, curves and fine face).

I did this same thing 2011 for a whole semester straight, used to go out every night to meet girls. Damn that shìt is hard but if you slug tru it, u re going to become a god.
Its not about meeting girls only, its about challenging yourself while at it.
Give urself set of challenges and make sure u execute them i.e try meeting 2 to 3 girls togeda or meet girls face to face in public. Like i said its not about getting the girls (wic will eventually come) but its about boosting ur self esteem.

kollinzgee:


nice one op i have experienced that too. from experience there are reasons why girls respond that way.
(1)she may be having a badday and hence not in a good mood .you should have tried to lighten her mood by making a very funny statement that first sentence you made was not humourous enough to lighten her mood even if she doesnt respond that day just leave an impression that will get her curious about ur personality then try again sometime.

(2)women are very intuitive in nature they can easily sense fear,nervousness and pessimism .if they sense it turns them off thats their nature. women instinctively craze confidence in men it doesnt matter if he is a jerk just be confident and sure of yourself and super relaxed naturally she will succumb to your guts especially young girls of 18----24

(3)was your body language kul enof?did you look her in the eye and smile with that i dont care attitude ,was your voice tone deep and exude manliness .were you in a good and happy mood when you approach her.

in summary women naturally respond to high masculinity (solid confidence and charisma) and men naturally respond to high feminity (boobs ,ass, curves and fine face).

my voice has been the bane of my life. I have this childlike voice (not funny) that makes people turn and look at me like "is it just you that spoke?". I've tried to change it but it didn't work. It has kept me from speaking much in group as well as talking to people in noisy areas.
I don't know if this is logical but people especially women seems to like it somehow. Maybe that deep voice is overrated.

The only part I hate is that I have to tell people I'm angry before they know it (laughs) no matter how I shout its still the same.

As for the girl I don't think I'll ever see her again. I think I'll really need to come up with some funny lines, the truth is thar I don't like pickup lines much as I like to keep it natural.

No, I only feel anxious when I thought about walking up to a girl and talking with her but in the process I'm very confident. Most times it feels natural.

Thanks for the tips. Let's see how today goes. Stay tune

Premiumwriter:
my voice has been the bane of my life. I have this childlike voice (not funny) that makes people turn and look at me like "is it just you that spoke?". I've tried to change it but it didn't work. It has kept me from speaking much in group as well as talking to people in noisy areas.
I don't know if this is logical but people especially women seems to like it somehow. Maybe that deep voice is overrated.

The only part I hate is that I have to tell people I'm angry before they know it (laughs) no matter how I shout its still the same.

As for the girl I don't think I'll ever see her again. I think I'll really need to come up with some funny lines, the truth is thar I don't like pickup lines much as I like to keep it natural.

No, I only feel anxious when I thought about walking up to a girl and talking with her but in the process I'm very confident. Most times it feels natural.

Thanks for the tips. Let's see how today goes. Stay tune

ok bro about your voice thats not a problem just work on your social skillz and confidence.give her that woww impression that makes her feel girly.get her wondering like .why is he so confident?he must have being with girls prettier than me.he must be very special and adorable to other women you get that na small small pikin go grow....

kollinzgee:


ok bro about your voice thats not a problem just work on your social skillz and confidence.give her that woww impression that makes her feel girly.get her wondering like .why is he so confident?he must have being with girls prettier than me.he must be very special and adorable to other women you get that na small small pikin go grow....

I look younger than my age and it's been affecting me meeting women

I mean I don't like the so young ladies(18-23) but at the same time I feel the older ones will look down on me

Again I might not be right as this might just be the mind and all in my head

Don't know if this is something I should really worry about

Premiumwriter:
Please no more comments. So the purpose of the thread won't be lost

looool

Premiumwriter:
sure. I've read a few books on toasting games.

Thanks for your concern

pls give me a list of those books...

mrakeeno:
I look younger than my age and it's been affecting me meeting women

I mean I don't like the so young ladies(18-23) but at the same time I feel the older ones will look down on me

Again I might not be right as this might just be the mind and all in my head

Don't know if this is something I should really worry about

if you look younger than you age bro its a barrier especially with older women.they may like you for your maturity but cannot help but see you as a kid so i advice you go for younger ladies at least 20--23.me i prefer younger ladies 18----24 they have tighter pussies ,they are easier to control and are submissive
too my 1 cent though...

hmmm... TOASTING challenge... Op try meeting atleast 3+ ladies a day

no proof, no picture of your surroundings, believe at your peril, me I can never believe any story here if you gat no proof

Pls, abeg, Do guys remember their toasting lines? except Premiumwriter carried a toasting script and a recorder along

paste your proof, you can record the conversation as proof.

wetdick:
no proof, no picture of your surroundings, believe at your peril, me I can never believe any story here if you gat no proof

Pls, abeg, Do guys remember their toasting lines? except Premiumwriter carried a toasting script and a recorder along

paste your proof, you can record the conversation as proof.

this guy funny sha. So I'll be toasting a girl and be asking her to pose for pictures?

You funny sha.

Anyways, no one is paying me for making threads and no one will come and beat me if I don't post. So why should I lie?

And you don't have to believe me. I'm doing it for myself, nothing more.

OurDestiny:
hmmm... TOASTING challenge... Op try meeting atleast 3+ ladies a day

three ke?

Lolz. I'm still struggling with one

3rd Toasting Update

I don't know if this one qualifies. But I'll post it sha because that's all I did today.

So I've been eyeing this girl for sometime now. The lecture room where I do go to use the school Wi-Fi is where she comes to too.

I've met her in the class a few times and she do sit at the same spot, just opposite me on the opposite bench ( ).

She's cute. Fair. Sincerely, I have great preference for fair girls and that's why I've never gone to bed with a black girl before nor toasted one for that matter.

Anyways, today she was sitting on where I normally sat and was using the only functioning socket closest to chair.

Thankgod my battery was somehow charged so I just sat down on her space and was browsing my thing.

After sometime I stood up to go charge my phone on the other socket and since I could not sit beside it I went back to sit beside her again.

Me: (looking somehow bored) what movie are you watching?

Her: (looking up) oh its actually not a movie... It's a reality show

Me: (getting up and moving close to her) oh shift let's watch together.

Her: OK (stands up) I think you should go inside, (I was hesitant, personally I dislike sitting inside while a girl sits outside.. Looks cagey)

Seems she saw me hesitating and explained "since I'm the one with the phone I think I should sit outside"

Me: OK

The reality show was somehow though. Funny and we both have a good laugh and a few playful arguments. Since the show requires you choose sides we both had something to talk about.

It was going well oh before the devil started his hand work. A guy now called her (boyfriend?) Turns out the guy was waiting for her at the school gate. She didn't want to get up, so I was like "this is how you girls will be using us as solar panels eh" laughs and explains she will soon go.

She then told me she'll be coming back. Anyways she came back with the guy (I just weak).

I don't know but I felt as if the guy was looking at me somehow when she came to collect her flash drive from me. Anyways they didn't sit down and left after I gave her the drive.

Hope to see her again soon.

Premiumwriter:
this guy funny sha. So I'll be toasting a girl and be asking her to pose for pictures?

You funny sha.

Anyways, no one is paying me for making threads and no one will come and beat me if I don't post. So why should I lie?

And you don't have to believe me. I'm doing it for myself, nothing more.

you dont have to take pictures, you can record conversations with your smartphone

anyway, it is up to you.

hardewaih:


pls give me a list of those books...

double your dating by David deangelo, the game by Neil Strauss, girl chase by chase Amante and one other one that spur this activity, I think it's game challenge by Neil Strauss too.

wetdick:


you dont have to take pictures, you can record conversations with your smartphone

anyway, it is up to you.

@bold

True. I can't kill my anonymous self to prove anything to anonymous people here

I don't know why, but the thought of approaching a girl is always more fearful than actually doing it.

Anytime I want to approach a girl, I feel this overwhelming anxiety but once I work up my mind to do it and actually walk up to her, I feel so relaxed and comfortable. It's really surprising.

Tomorrow library is a must. Those IT girls fine die

Nice one

Premiumwriter:
three ke?
Lolz. I'm still struggling with one

hahha that will strengthen your self esteem na

Nice initiative brah, it'll test and grow your social skills and you're in the perfect place for this: a school environment.

Sometimes you'll have some real bad days and you'll improve

sconp:
Nice initiative brah, it'll test and grow your social skills and you're in the perfect place for this: a school environment.

Sometimes you'll have some real bad days and you'll improve

Lets assume he asks them out each day,and most are agreeing to date him.Will he now date them all or how will he manoeveur that situation?

Albertone:
Lets assume he asks them out each day,and most are agreeing to date him.Will he now date them all or how will he manoeveur that situation?

1. Pls note that when you go out each day, you don't ask any girl to date you as I personally consider that improper. How do you meet me for the first time and begin to woo me? I'd not even take you serious.

2. Going out is to connect, network, get their contacts and above all have a good conversation. With this contact that has been gotten, you then keep in touch, schedule dates and find out if you both flow before talking about dating.

3 To answer your question, in a situation where you have done what's above. You then need to ask yourself the main question of what do I really want from this chic? Friendship? Relationship? Sex?

If it's friendship, then there's no need to ask her out, just keep being friends and bringing out the best in each other and you can have 'as many as much friends"

If it's a r/ship you have to pick amongst the girls the one you feel best aligns with you and keep others as friends.

If you're a fukkboy....you gats get your OT.......In this case there might not be a need to woo anyone.

sconp:

1. Pls note that when you go out each day, you don't ask any girl to date you as I personally consider that improper. How do you meet me for the first time and begin to woo me? I'd not even take you serious.

2. Going out is to connect, network, get their contacts and above all have a good conversation. With this contact that has been gotten, you then keep in touch, schedule dates and find out if you both flow before talking about dating.

3 To answer your question, in a situation where you have done what's above. You then need to ask yourself the main question of what do I really want from this chic? Friendship? Relationship? Sex?

If it's friendship, then there's no need to ask her out, just keep being friends and bringing out the best in each other and you can have 'as many as much friends"

If it's a r/ship you have to pick amongst the girls the one you feel best aligns with you and keep others as friends.

If you're a fukkboy....you gats get your OT.......In this case there might not be a need to woo anyone.

I couldn't have thanked you less for your detailed explanations.

Now I understand better.Thank you.

sconp:

1. Pls note that when you go out each day, you don't ask any girl to date you as I personally consider that improper. How do you meet me for the first time and begin to woo me? I'd not even take you serious.

2. Going out is to connect, network, get their contacts and above all have a good conversation. With this contact that has been gotten, you then keep in touch, schedule dates and find out if you both flow before talking about dating.

3 To answer your question, in a situation where you have done what's above. You then need to ask yourself the main question of what do I really want from this chic? Friendship? Relationship? Sex?

If it's friendship, then there's no need to ask her out, just keep being friends and bringing out the best in each other and you can have 'as many as much friends"

If it's a r/ship you have to pick amongst the girls the one you feel best aligns with you and keep others as friends.

If you're a fukkboy....you gats get your OT.......In this case there might not be a need to woo anyone.

nice

I'm tired of relationships... be like say na fvck boy sure pass

Premiumwriter:
I don't know why, but the thought of approaching a girl is always more fearful than actually doing it.

Anytime I want to approach a girl, I feel this overwhelming anxiety but once I work up my mind to do it and actually walk up to her, I feel so relaxed and comfortable. It's really surprising.

law of inertia

Op na February we enter so & u know how girls behave this month... Na u go tire for the strings of girls that will be saying yes to u

mrakeeno:
nice

I'm tired of relationships... be like say na fvck boy sure pass

Na you talk am o.

Premiumwriter:
Tomorrow library is a must. Those IT girls fine die

Bro,no more update?

what's up?? Albertone