Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

This generation and sex....smh
So many illegal babies scattered everywhere.

AdaAde:
This generation and sex....smh So many illegal babies scattered everywhere.

u should be sleeping now

My guy.....whyyyyyy?? U skin dive, based on a babe's info about her cycle?? U forget Eve and Adam?? You don fall hand oooo

Very few women have perfect uninterrupted cycle, until the flow land, e no sure for them wey get the period seff...And pregnancy with period flow is not unheard of. Though not a regular occurrence...but it's possible
..U for no form James bond wey him babes no dey ever get bele....Hollywood don scam you ooo, and it's likely the babe don scam you.. my opinion shaa
My advice to u, take care of the babe, hope no be wash and wear transaction?? But gather money, once the pikin arrive , do paternity test.....babes no dey smile these days...As per u come be abroad package...Probably the babe don quick reason ur matter sharp sharp




# abstenance....The only way to peace of mind

First of all, YES, she can be pregnant in those circumstances. And YES if she cheated on you then you can be 1 of the fathers. That's all we know.

Has she done pregnancy test to confirm she is truly pregnant, or is she assuming she is based on "ceasation or delay" of her menstrual flow? Because, the story doesn't really add up. If she was ovulating by 20th of December, she was supposed to menstruate by first week of January which she did and no woman menstruates while pregnant. So, if she is truly pregnant after menstruating in January, then someone else should be held responsible.
But, I advise you take her for a pregnancy test to ascertain if she is even pregnant cos women can just miss their period for even up to six months for no just cause.
Perhaps, you said the last menstrual flow came earlier than expected, so its possible the stuff is just being irregular.

Germanpoison1:
Has she done pregnancy test to confirm she is truly pregnant, or is she assuming she is based on "ceasation or delay" of her menstrual flow? Because, the story doesn't really add up. If she was ovulating by 20th of December, she was supposed to menstruate by first week of January which she did and no woman menstruates while pregnant. So, if she is truly pregnant after menstruating in January, then someone else should be held responsible.
But, I advise you take her for a pregnancy test to ascertain if she is even pregnant cos women can just miss their period for even up to six months for no just cause.
Perhaps, you said the last menstrual flow came earlier than expected, so its possible the stuff is just being irregular.

Some women have a period every month for 9 months and then give birth, come see shock and panic.

I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?

ANY deluded man who willingly has unprotected sex with a babe, DESERVES whatever consequences they will get in return (whether it be STDs or pregnancy)

Valerie47:
I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?

lol

Go to ashi joints and see guys doing it raw with ashi.

Almost all guys get bj from ashi too.

They feel it's normal and sweeter.

People get mind shaa!

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A woman can ovulate while menstruating naa.

Welcome to another phase!

Anything sweet is paid for

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So just yesterday this my female friend was gisting me how she used pregnancy to collect money from 2 stingy guys in December.
1. She may be pulling ur legs. Buy a pregnancy test strip and let her confirm it b4 you.
2. If she saw her period 4 days after you had sex, that baby may be mine not yours. Lie to her that you'll gake her to a new medical facility in Abuja where DNA can be conducted on a foetus. Judge her reaction..
3. Next time learn the act of withdrawal. My own babe usually pulls out my CD but i use withdrawal and sometimes she takes morning after pill. She's aware im not ready for a child yet.
All the best

Speedyconnect15:
lol
Go to ashi joints and see guys doing it raw with ashi.
Almost all guys get bj from ashi too.
They feel it's normal and sweeter.
People get mind shaa!

Damn, folks be taking risks.

Just here to read comments from the sexperts on this thread.

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

You are responsible for the pregnancy. It is possible for a girl to be pregnant and still see her Menses at the initial month. Congrats bro you would soon be a Daddy.

She's probably trying to make u take her with you when u travel

Don't fall for the scam

Confirm if she's really preg and if it's urs before u take d plunge cos u might regret it later man

AdaAde:
This generation and sex....smh
So many illegal babies scattered everywhere.

you are part of the generation ....next time say "My generation and sex"

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Yes it's quite possible. In fact, some goes as far as 4-5months before their menses stopped. Intending baby daddy.....fatherhood don catch you!

She came on the 20th Dec around her ovulation.
You had unprotected sex.
She saw her period early January,4 days earlier than expected.
If she is pregnant(confirmed by lab test), you could be the father.
There is what is called implantation bleeding which occurs when the fertilized egg is being implanted in the womb. This bleeding can be heavy depending on the site of implantation and because it occurs at about the time of the next period, many confuse it to be menstruation while in fact they are pregnant.

Valerie47:
I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?

yes. What else are they supposed to be doing Read book

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Wait for about a few weeks time and do a DNA test supervised by you make sure she does it.
Many ladies like to pin unwanted pregnancy these days.
Don't let her talk you out of it

Lightangel65:

Wait for about a few weeks time and do a DNA test supervised by you make sure she does it.
Many ladies like to pin unwanted pregnancy these days.
Don't let her talk you out of it

Na traveling money dey that guy hand now oooo....U know how much them dey do DNA test of unborn child.
It's more expensive than when the child is already born oooo

So you both had unprotected sex and she didn't take contraceptive pills to avoid pregnancy or find another way to avoid getting pregnant??

Hope you are ready for fatherhood??

E clear say una want pikin.

Here to read comments... She may or may not be pregnant, just carry out PT first.

1StopRudeness:


Na traveling money dey that guy hand now oooo....U know how much them dey do DNA test of unborn child.
It's more expensive than when the child is already born oooo

He should tell her he has the money and is going to do the DNA test and see her reaction.
If it's really his child she would agree with hesitation.
If not she would be hesitant

Lightangel65:


He should tell her he has the money and is going to do the DNA test and see her reaction.
If it's really his child she would agree with hesitation.
If not she would be hesitant

That's probably not totally true.
We guys just like to say this DNA thing like it's Puff puff , telling a lady that doesn't sleep around that u will subject the unborn child to DNA is a big insult a huge slap on the woman. No woman will take it lightly even if she's cheating and trying to pin another man's baby...

It's not an easy test, it's painful becos they have to penetrate the vagina into the womb and the amniotic sac and could lead to miscarriage...
If I'm a lady and I'm sure I didn't cheat, u will not see me until delivery after saying u want pre birth DNA test

Speedyconnect15:
lol

Go to ashi joints and see guys doing it raw with ashi.

Almost all guys get bj from ashi too.

They feel it's normal and sweeter.

People get mind shaa!

True talk... I know two of my married friends wey dey Bleep as if the world wan end soon... Both no dey use condoms even with oloshos/stripers... And they say it with boldness... Some guys get mind Sha...

No... She is another Mary