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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Like I said in the other thread... Back then in school, We lived in the same lodge, she had a fiancee that visits her regularly, but we were so close that one thing led to another and we started smashing. After the first smash, she wouldn't let me be. It was tough, gradually she started cooking for me, we were doing assignments together, reading together... then gradually sleeping in my room. It continued for two (2) good sessions. I was trapped, couldn't play home or away, very sad. The fiancee was still visiting but the dude would always call before coming (mistakes guys make). The dude would even buy me stuff when coming, guilty conscience set in. So whenever the guy was around, she'd move back to her room. I wanted out, but the girl wouldn't have any of that. Na there I start to dey fear girls, she didn't even feel sober. Later on, I discovered she started having true feelings for me but I dare not try it, I was scared. This same girl would tell her fiancee on phone she loves him just immediately after I finish smashing her. Fear catch me, some people no get conscience. Thank God we went for I.T... That was how I escaped. Till today, I still haven't had a girlfriend since then, the whole thing made me lose trust in relationship. I practically learnt ALL the tricks ladies play in a long distance relationship. It's not worth it. Today, she's married to the guy with a kid. And even while we were co-habiting, she was even cheating on me.. . I caught her countless times. 63 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Randy100: 9:52am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Yea I had to agree that it is the biggest fraud in a relationship matter. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by murphyibiam15(m): 9:52am On Feb 05, 2019 |
konji don hold this babe...she's sexually frustrated as fvck now 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by fasho01(m): 9:52am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Exactly what I told a lady just recently that was telling me to marry her. I told her the nearest is the dearest and I don't want to scam her Babe said we'd do video calls and talk often.. As though we can have video sex.. Shior! Distance relationships especially at the start of it is pure scam 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by adekhingz(m): 9:53am On Feb 05, 2019 |
I put all my heart into a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) with one girl from my hometown whom we met in school. Damn!!! I wasted 3 solid years on calls, text, money transfers, and more importantly, my emotion. I thought it was not going to END. SHade!!! God will console me with a woman better than YOU. 37 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by CallofDuty(m): 9:53am On Feb 05, 2019 |
LDR is very ok by me..As long as the 4 OF YOU agree to the terms and conditions..Shikena! 21 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by kingharzy: 9:53am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Your BS post shows you mix up real relationships and internet scams. They deserve seperate threads after seperate understanding. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Champele(m): 9:54am On Feb 05, 2019 |
This post is trash |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by MartinsD12(m): 9:54am On Feb 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Well said bro, i was a victim of that before my eyes opened, i will never advice anyone to have a distance relationship, flee from sin like the Bible will always say. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by MagicPie: 9:54am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Yes, when the essence of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable.. The purpose of a relationship is marriage. Unless if both parties agreed on friendship not relationship. Tajbol4splend: 4 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by naijapikin04(m): 9:54am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Guy USE GOOGLE https://nextedition.com.ng/2019/02/04/court-remands-61-year-old-man-alleged-sexual-assault-7-boys/ Tajbol4splend: 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Dinho20(m): 9:56am On Feb 05, 2019 |
SEX IS SWEET BUT........ Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges in to this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed. The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.tc) God said it in clear terms , “Now, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/she is working directly against God’s plan and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age! There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness! The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessed men while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it. If only they knew,many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so. The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her ? This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men. Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract. Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What happens between the lines could be deadly and dangerous. The very first day a lady, or a man does that there will be spiritual transfer of destiny. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Trottle: 9:59am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Bulk of distant relationships nowadays are nothing but frivolities and unnecessary heartaches. Not advisable. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Candoit: 9:59am On Feb 05, 2019 |
will you manage it as well or just to create one and that is it?
Anyway, can I see your works? |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 10:02am On Feb 05, 2019 |
ceeroh:oga oo so d guy eventually married her. No doubt she will still be sleeping around even as she's still married to this guy. 6 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Dinho20(m): 10:03am On Feb 05, 2019 |
SEX IS FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY; SEX IS MEANT FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY, IF YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED FORGET ABOUT SEX. SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS A CURSE TO ANYONE WHO INDULGE IN IT. BUT REMEMBER: WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF SEX, THEN GET MARRIED. 11 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Dinho20(m): 10:05am On Feb 05, 2019 |
LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND; LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST; IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE. IT DOES NOT REJOICE AT WRONGDOING, BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:05am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Long distance relationship is scam to me sha..... I have promised myself never to engage in it.. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 10:05am On Feb 05, 2019 |
lefulefu: Somebody that has been looking for a way to come and pay me a visit. I told her I've moved out of lag 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by 8stargeneral: 10:06am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:Ask them ooh. |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Dinho20(m): 10:07am On Feb 05, 2019 |
DON'T PARTICIPATE IN WIDE PARTIES AND GETTING DRUNK, OR IN ADULTERY AND IMMORAL LIVING, OR IN FIGHTING AND JEALOUSY. BUT LET THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TAKE CONTROL OF YOU, AND DON'T THINK OF WAYS TO INDULGE YOUR EVIL DESIRES. 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:09am On Feb 05, 2019 |
ceeroh: Honestly, I'm even cringing at this story. God forbid that any of my brothers marry a woman like that. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by tfash96(m): 10:09am On Feb 05, 2019 |
[quote author=CityNGR post=75425413][/quote]lol 1 Like |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Dinho20(m): 10:10am On Feb 05, 2019 |
PONDER ON THIS... LADIES, Don't think having sex with a guy will make him love you. You will only get confused with your feelings. Learn to draw the line between love and sex. A man's emotion is not connected with sex but yours is associated with your feelings. Men can have sex with many ladies without having any feelings for any of them. But a woman finds it difficult to let go of a man who disvirgined her or whom she enjoys sex with. GENTLEMEN, Don't pressure ladies for sex when you are not ready to take up its responsibility. Being a man is not about how many ladies you have slept with, it is more of how many ladies you've helped to become better. Not by making them a mother by circumstance, abort a pregnancy or delaying their progress in life. But by bringing out the best in their career, ambitions or virtues in life 9 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 10:11am On Feb 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Are you looking for husband ? Am I handsome enough ?
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Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 10:12am On Feb 05, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: How would you know? The whole stuff really fuvked up my mind. Now I can't trust any girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:12am On Feb 05, 2019 |
lefulefu: Once a cheat, always a cheat. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Slymonster(m): 10:12am On Feb 05, 2019 |
ceeroh: Hahaha i just remember mine way back in school. She will be on top me smashing and the main guy will call and she will still be bold to pick and tell the guy she is doing something, can he call back in few minutes time or she will call back.Dude buys everything and practically pay her school fees too. I got free food and free pussy,even exam time we will read and after continue smashing but i hated it because i like to be free. Next session i got a gf and made her know that this is my gf.. That was how that nonsense stop even if she got angry.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:13am On Feb 05, 2019 |
ceeroh: I can't know... can only pray for them...and ask them to be smart. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by tfash96(m): 10:13am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Online virgin might be a big time LovePeddler n facebook holy brother might be a real life player..Though not all but be meticulous if u are in that kinda relationship 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by Nobody: 10:14am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Slymonster: That's it. It's very common |
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