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Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 8:13pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:So you think we have not agreed and discussed matters before hand? Not sure how relationships work in your books but in my book communication helps tremendously! You communicate, agree and you live life don’t see how that’s difficult to comprehend. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:26pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
MissRaine69: So he even does know, na wa o, maybe he's using you to satisfy his sexual desire because I don't know the kinda guy that takes such, better think it through 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by loswhite(m): 9:44pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
MissRaine69:lol.. I love 20th century... at least we are not modern day roboot 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by freethinker01: 10:04pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
I've actually given this a prolonged thought and I don't think I'll ever get married. On the one hand, I'm very scared of having my children experience broken home and on the other, I'd rather raise my children alone than let them experience a broken home so I'm thinking of having kids through surrogacy and adopting one. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 10:07pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:I am content with our situation. Thank you for your concern. 20 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 10:08pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
loswhite:You are the robot. I make my own rules. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by loswhite(m): 10:13pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
MissRaine69:That's the problem...smh. You need to do some reprogramming coz this version of your robotics is terrible... Gud9t 9 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by lilmax(m): 10:21pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
why is the op acting like a dick? 23 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
lilmax:He wants to be noticed 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
lilmax:He wants to be noticed 6 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 11:18pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
loswhite:Just because I don’t subscribe to how you see life does not mean I have less then a life then you, that’s just absurd and archaic thinking. You and I are a different type of people. People like me exist in abundance. Why I would want to spend this one life I have trying to prentend to fit in, please others or conform and be unhappy is an utter waste of life in general. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by ibkayee(f): 11:18pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
So I can take his money 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:45pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
I don't think I'll marry. Nigerian men are seriously write-offs! 10 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by CaptainMitch: 11:45pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
To make sure my surname doesn't die. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by IamPlato(m): 11:57pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Give Yourself A Break young Lady... Who Is The Crush That Broke You This Bad? Talk To Me Privately let Me Help You 5 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:58pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
IamPlato: Where's the heart to even break? I'm cool hommie! 10 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by IamPlato(m): 12:03am On Feb 06, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:oya read that post again and judge yourself... witch or vampire which one are you ![]() If You Are In Love thats Exactly What You Will Say. Just Dont Go And Fall For The Wrong Guy sha 4 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by IamPlato(m): 12:08am On Feb 06, 2019 |
Marriage Is A Beautiful Thing... I Already Have A Vision For My Extra Ordinary Type of Wedding... One Like No Other, will Be Happening At Mid Night Of The New Year in A Beautiful Private Elite Party... More Like A Gift For The Woman Who Fought Beside Me Through The Times But You Know What? These Days I Am Beginnin To Change My Mind because women Only Want You Rich First. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by InansBobo(m): 12:20am On Feb 06, 2019 |
1. So I can fulfil the scriptures 2. So my village people don't say I am a Ritualist (possess blood money) 3. So my village people don't say I'm having issues 4. Joy of fatherhood and husbandhood 5. My opinion, my life, my business 6 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:28am On Feb 06, 2019 |
MissRaine69: Well I'm not concerned, just saying 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:30am On Feb 06, 2019 |
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Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by nairalee(m): 1:18am On Feb 06, 2019 |
I ask myself this question every other day. If I get married today it'd be to satisfy my mother. 1) I'm perfectly happy in my current unmarried state 2) I do WHATEVER I want without explanation to ANYBODY 3) I don't worry about keeping late nights cos when I'm late I can just sleep over at a friend's place without wondering if my wife will suspect foul play 4) Having Variety Sex 5) No unnecessary affiliations (wife's parents, families, friends, neighbors, pastors, acquaintances) it's too cumbersome 6) Maybe it's just me but I noticed married people automatically look older? 7) Cost of marriage in Nigeria sef is enough to start a small scale business ![]() 9) Problems of alimony, compensation etc when the marriage goes sour (case in point Jeff Bezos) 10) Too numerous to mention Might sound childish but marriage makes no sense to me except for 1 reason Why Marry? 1) To raise up a child in a conventional family home I don't still know why society and family can't just let one be! 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by SheCool(f): 1:20am On Feb 06, 2019 |
I wanna get married cause I want kids, and I need my kids to have a father, and also the joy it could bring marrying the right man. ![]() 14 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by nairalee(m): 1:29am On Feb 06, 2019 |
SheCool: 1) You don't need to get married to have kids 2) You don't need to get married for your kids to have a father 3) You don't need to get married to find the right man. Statistically speaking women feel they've found the right man till they get married. So why ruin all the joy wit marriage ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MarianaTrench: 1:31am On Feb 06, 2019 |
ceeroh: I wish most Nigerians would realize and accept that! 18 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Quorax: 1:32am On Feb 06, 2019 |
Regiinald:he is right. Most of you think Marriage is an achievement, you breed like rat, hence we have over 200M people, many of these are from families with little resources. 25 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 1:32am On Feb 06, 2019 |
SheCool:this babe like simple life..how fa ma. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by shogsman(m): 1:33am On Feb 06, 2019 |
Nope a baby mama will do, just need the kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by nairalee(m): 1:34am On Feb 06, 2019 |
InansBobo: Hilarious! You're actually concerned about ur village people's opinion of u 13 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by nairalee(m): 1:35am On Feb 06, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: This is very true of most Nigerians. They won't admit but it's written boldly in their subconscious 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by pacespot(m): 1:48am On Feb 06, 2019 |
Marriage is a scam, I don't know if I will ever get married, though based on the people I am seeing in this country, maybe if I am out of this country. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Daeylar(f): 1:54am On Feb 06, 2019 |
I don't even know. The only reason I can find is that's the way things are done. Everyone else gets married and wants to get married. So why not you. And maybe for the legal benefits. I don't even know what they are though. Someone once asked this question on twitter and I think it made FP here. What are the benefits of marriage, especially to women. I have a very strong reason why I wouldn't want to get married though. 2 Likes |
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