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Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Charlieabc(m): 11:38am On Feb 06, 2019 |
[url][/url][/color]my opinion on marriage... By all means, get married, if you find the right one, you've received a favor from the lord. Mind you, marriage isn't the standard to a fulfilling /fulfilled life. [color=#006600] |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by drmikeadams(m): 11:39am On Feb 06, 2019 |
[quote author=IamPlato post=75466880] Not All Women Are Money Conscious but It Takes Patience, Faith And Focus For A woman To Stay With A Man Till He Meets Success[/quote ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by InansBobo(m): 11:51am On Feb 06, 2019 |
oochi123:lol, you're right |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by InansBobo(m): 11:52am On Feb 06, 2019 |
CodeTemplar:funny but that's just how it here(especially if u don't have a child also); they think you used your "manness" to get money. Marriage ='Responsibleness' here. It baffles me! Their mentality sha ![]() |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Ugosample(m): 11:59am On Feb 06, 2019 |
mhisbliss: societal value my black arse ![]() all these right wing conservatives sef 4 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by InansBobo(m): 11:59am On Feb 06, 2019 |
nairalee:not really. That's an inconsequential excuse. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Kendrick80(m): 12:01pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
Esdb3:I guess the parents gotta work hard/prove themselves worthy...what do feel? U remind me of Phil 102/104 classes back in skool ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Curvinus(m): 12:13pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
This marriage issue is really complicated. As a man, sometimes, you find the one that you have always wanted with good looks, good character, prospect of a good job or even working, but then all of a sudden, you feel trapped or you lose interest in this so called one. You wonder why you are depressed and miserable, despite the prospect of having good looking children and a woman that is ready to do house chores and still meet you halfway in the Oza room. This leaves one to wonder if man and woman are really meant to live together as husband and wife. Personally, I do not believe a man or woman should discard the possibility of experiencing love with diverse people in order to stick with one person and raise children. I have cohabited with several women and I can say boldly that it's either you get tired of the union someday or they will walk out on you to find fresh air. It's just human nature. Marriage/cohabitation is tiresome, boring, unnatural and a sure way of sinking one into misery and depression. My belief is that the mind should be open to the prospect of endless possibilities and not be limited by a mere piece of paper that is designed for the sake of fostering civilisation and society not minding that the participants may be disgruntled. I would rather take a back seat and enjoy what life has got to offer than lumber myself with a woman, a woman's problem and children. people say loneliness will hit you at old age but I doubt there will much be fewer single adult men and women in the next few years to keep one really isolated. The times are changing and more single men mean more single women as well. We'll see. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by krushdripper(m): 12:39pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
Quite the read |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
ceeroh:Asides everything you mentioned above, a woman can show you true love. Honestly, I think you need it. Your view about marriage is totally wrong, it's not just about being with someone who has something to 'offer', who'd give you children and clean your house and share responsibilities, it's about being with the person you love the most for the rest of your life. You don't have to marry if you don't wish to, but everybody deserves love. Plus: you should try and stop saying women have nothing to offer, you don't want to be that kind of man. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
InansBobo:Lol numbers one, two, three though. You really care what people think about you. And to fulfill the scriptures? OMG. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Rozaytee: 12:56pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
freethinker01:onfused nigga |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Ugosample(m): 12:57pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
haryothosyn93: Not in all cases There is a paradigm shift in how younger Nigerians think and in the coming decades, marriage will increasingly become obsolete. Sad but that is the truth if not for "societal" And "family" pressure which is losing its grip over the younger Nigerians, marriage would have declined much more than it has that's just the truth except you are still living in the conservative bubble 9 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by DMerciful(m): 1:01pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
kill youself ![]() Evangkatsoulis: |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by DMerciful(m): 1:03pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
You will get married....you are just bragging now! MissRaine69: |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 1:15pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
surveyProf:I don’t need to prove you wrong or convince you in anyway shape or form. What I need to do is let you be. Your way of thinking and the way I think are like two parallel lines, we will never cross paths so why do I have to prove anything to you? Finally your views are just that views. Have a good day. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 1:17pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
DMerciful:I won’t and this is not a definition of bragging. It’s called stating a point of view. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by cooluzi: 1:33pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
MissRaine69:what u wrote doesnt matter I can bet you are still gonna get married |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Ozkar: 1:37pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
chiefqueen:please what do you mean by 'true love', and how is it shown? |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
The idea is not to impose your believes and values on others..especially if it is flawed. If you want to get married for whatever reason, do so and shut up If you want to be single, do so and shut up If you want to be a sperm bank/baby mama, do so and shut up. just don't venture in deceit. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Toseenlove: 1:40pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
Bintuenyo:Cc: GrammarNazi1 lol. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by BabbanBura(m): 1:45pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
flyca: Yea Sir Mr PA to her highness! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by princfred(m): 1:47pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
crafteck:Sir, Willfully, i did, for fun. ![]() |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by princfred(m): 1:49pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
missyblissy:Ok, Ma. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
Ozkar:I'd say it's by caring about someone's emotional and physical needs, being there when they need you, being someone that they can trust, being someone they at willing to do anything for. Nothing about making babies and doing house chores. |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 2:16pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
cooluzi:It’s at this point that one realises brick walls are not worth headbutting. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Ozkar: 2:20pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
chiefqueen:so does this 'true love' exist only in marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by ubunja(m): 2:22pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
MissRaine69:women: 16-21: I'm too young to marry 21-28: I'm persuing my career 28-35: marriage is a choice 35-death: where are the good men?? |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by surveyProf(m): 2:34pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
MissRaine69: Then I won ![]() |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
MissRaine69:Never thought I'd meet a female(Nigerian) online or offline, who shares the same ideology as me. This makes me feel cool, really. ![]() Hello there! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 3:01pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
ubunja:You have regressed, what a shame. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would You Want To Get Married? by MissRaine69(f): 3:04pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
surveyProf:You cannot compete with me, challenge yes, but compete no. So there is nothing to win if we were not competing. |
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