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Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by UFEDO95: 7:41pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Good evening everyone, pls I will need our sincere contributions and ideas about this topic.let's share perceptions, stories and experience to help educate,enlighten and empower our Ladies. thank you my people. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 7:53pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Explain your question very well, please. You want to know if it is possible for a lady to be financially independent before marriage? The answer is yes. 12 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:29pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Can’t emphasise the importance of a woman having her own money enough, even if your husband is ok with fully taking care of you, still have something you can fall back on. It’s empowering, self fufilling, it brings independence, multiple streams of income won’t hurt the household, you’re less of a liability, if your guy falls on bad times you can step in and help, being entirely reliant on your guy can open doors for misbehaviour (cheating, abuse, etc) There was a recent story of one peanut head Nigerian man who destroyed a business he helped his wife build because he felt she was becoming ‘too proud’. When you have your own, if things go wrong you will have more options So many reasons 103 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ToyinDipo(m): 8:38pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:The man is a role model, I heard he was celebrated 27 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:39pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ToyinDipo:Lol so you actually got around to reading the write up eventually, well done 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ToyinDipo(m): 8:41pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:I did, and everyone agrees that Nigeria will be a better place with men like him 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:53pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ToyinDipo:Lol you and your mechanic is now everyone, lol fair enough 42 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ToyinDipo(m): 9:01pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:I didn't get the mechanic reference ![]() What the man did should be passed into the law as how such situation should be handled 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by UFEDO95: 9:12pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
pocohantas:I mean why is it important and not knowing if it is possible Thank you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by UFEDO95: 9:14pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ibkayee:Thank you so much I find this piece interesting 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by dollytino4real(f): 9:21pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
money is a padlock use in closing in-laws mouth from seeing and saying rubbish about u 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by LordKO(m): 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
It's important for one to be financially independent before marriage because it is a sign of economic emancipation and responsibleness. However, it is even better to be resourceful, or to master the act of being resourceful, than to be financially independent, because money remains a visitor. Also, pursuit of financial independence shouldn't be for the purpose to subjugate one's better half, or as a leverage to establish contention in the union. Money will always remain a means to an end but never an end itself. It never defines a sane person. 77 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 12:08am On Feb 08, 2019 |
ToyinDipo:Lol don't worry ![]() A bit extreme, thank God for blessing me with a secure man tbh 16 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ToyinDipo(m): 12:18am On Feb 08, 2019 |
ibkayee: ![]() ![]() Secure how? Is he https Bring him to naija, let's reconfigure him ![]() ![]() 14 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Nobody: 12:44am On Feb 08, 2019 |
LordKO: Your ideology tho.. |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by UFEDO95: 10:11am On Feb 08, 2019 |
dollytino4real:I swear 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 11:49am On Feb 08, 2019 |
LordKO: Word. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 12:23pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
ToyinDipo:Lol you you’ve got jokes Eww ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 12:34pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
ibkayee: ![]() ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 12:36pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ImaIma1(f): 1:55pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
ToyinDipo: And if she did it to the man if he was getting too proud, should it also be written into law? 11 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by ToyinDipo(m): 2:12pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Let such scenario play out first, then we will decide 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Daeylar(f): 4:31pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
So you can walk away from the man if any bullshit,( i.e abuse of any kind) starts from him (before marriage) or anyone at all e.g in-laws.(after marriage, Allthough this has more to do with you having the mindset to walk away than having cash, because some rich women are abused or mistreated and still stay even though they have the money necessary to walk away.) Also, Since it is money that controls Nigeria. Having your own money will help take your kids with you when you walk. (In the event that there are kids and you would like to walk away after marriage). These are the only 2 reasons why it is important to have your own money. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 5:00pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
LordKO: Full-stop. 16 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 5:03pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
Elder0001: Whoever wants to prosper in life should read and do the exact opposite of whatever this man says or type on Nairaland. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Olamsoh: 5:06pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
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Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
Tooth paste, you beg for money. Lip stick, you ask for money. Powder, you ask for money. Unless that man is too cashed up. And naija economy No good again like before. He won't respect you. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by gurunlocker: 5:08pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
Even if your husband is rich, ask yourself if you want to be a liability or an asset! This is 2019, not 1902.... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by HerCuteness(f): 5:08pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
Olamsoh:March born 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is It Important For A Woman To Be Financially Independent Before Marriage? by dwisedgreat: 5:08pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
The lady needs to be financially independent so as not to be a liability and also assist her husband financially too in her own little way .... 6 Likes 1 Share |
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