ToyinDipo:

Let such scenario play out first, then we will decide

Pruwa:




Your sense of reasoning sha

ToyinDipo:

I didn't get the mechanic reference
What the man did should be passed into the law as how such situation should be handled

dollytino4real:
money is a padlock use in closing in-laws mouth from seeing and saying rubbish about u

raumdeuter:


You don abandon Man Utd and dey chase ibkayee all over full time

Divay22:
She has to
To avoid unforeseen circumstances



Hope the immature ones we have here don't bash ladies

ibkayee:
Can’t emphasise the importance of a woman having her own money enough, even if your husband is ok with fully taking care of you, still have something you can fall back on.

It’s empowering, self fufilling, it brings independence, multiple streams of income won’t hurt the household, you’re less of a liability, if your guy falls on bad times you can step in and help, being entirely reliant on your guy can open doors for misbehaviour (cheating, abuse, etc)

There was a recent story of one peanut head Nigerian man who destroyed a business he helped his wife build because he felt she was becoming ‘too proud’. When you have your own, if things go wrong you will have more options

So many reasons

Daeylar:
So you can walk away from the man if any bullshit,( i.e abuse of any kind) starts from him (before marriage) or anyone at all e.g in-laws.(after marriage, Allthough this has more to do with you having the mindset to walk away than having cash, because some rich women are abused or mistreated and still stay even though they have the money necessary to walk away.)

Also, Since it is money that controls Nigeria. Having your own money will help take your kids with you when you walk. (In the event that there are kids and you would like to walk away after marriage).

These are the only 2 reasons why it is important to have your own money.

Daeylar:
So you can walk away from the man if any bullshit,( i.e abuse of any kind) starts from him (before marriage) or anyone at all e.g in-laws.(after marriage, Allthough this has more to do with you having the mindset to walk away than having cash, because some rich women are abused or mistreated and still stay even though they have the money necessary to walk away.)

Also, Since it is money that controls Nigeria. Having your own money will help take your kids with you when you walk. (In the event that there are kids and you would like to walk away after marriage).

These are the only 2 reasons why it is important to have your own money.

ToyinDipo:

I did, and everyone agrees that Nigeria will be a better place with men like him

Olamsoh:
your birth month is what makes you feel better when sad

January – Series
February – Alcohol
March – Money
April – Jogging
May – Food
June – Movies
July – Weed
August – Shopping
September – Cooking
October – Sex
November – Swimming
December – Good Company

ToyinDipo:

I did, and everyone agrees that Nigeria will be a better place with men like him

Saffi:
As much as I lay emphasis on men having money, as a woman you must have your own. This doesn’t mean you’ll be paying rent and dashing your husband money anyhow. But just have your own for necessities and independence.

TheStarsAlign:


Kindly post the link if you still have it. Thanks

Elder0001:
Saffia aka saffi take note.

I used to see some of your posts on the front page and you placed much emphasis on how you must depend on your husband or lover for everything,hopefully this thread is for you .

Your dignity is at stake if you allow your husband to do everything in the house .

vincent561:
The same reason it is important for a man

DanDeeBoss:

pocohantas:

Elder0001:



I believe you don’t understand the term “Financial Independence”.