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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Julietcutie(f): 7:47am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Benito8998:A thread for people to talk about bad memories they must have forgotten seem sad to me ...i must not have a failed marriage to feel sad 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by virginboy1(m): 7:51am On Feb 11, 2019 |
UCyril:Very True 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:54am On Feb 11, 2019 |
MacMkboy:i see u ar on oshomole weed ? |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Nobody: 7:54am On Feb 11, 2019 |
MacMkboy:Open a thread and start revealing to us those things they tell you 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:55am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Batholomeu673:u ar just everywie lyk mtn Mr man u av swore 2 dupe me lets see hw it goes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:56am On Feb 11, 2019 |
chinyce:Yes o ,just lyk dat! |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:58am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Earthbound:Single n searching 4 a mature husband 5 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by lawman88(m): 8:01am On Feb 11, 2019 |
I never aspire divorce but the way things are going, I may divorce my wife. She never respect me and value her more than me. I m 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by husbandsnatcha(f): 8:02am On Feb 11, 2019 |
sonature1:And they ar liking ur childish comment, asiri pple here already knw wat brought about d breakup, it wont come frm my mouth |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Winter4: 8:04am On Feb 11, 2019 |
MacMkboy: Awwwwww.... So sweet. This kain thing rare sha |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Newboss(m): 8:11am On Feb 11, 2019 |
lawman88: Divorce her ASAP and go for the one that has regards for you 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MARKone(m): 8:13am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Mine Ended with a bang, literally. Tom and Jerry kinda of sturvs. The only beautiful thing is the lovely kids. No regrets whatever, some are just not meant to be. 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by paraltero: 8:19am On Feb 11, 2019 |
fetthu: Thanks for the clarification. I just wanted a bit of balance in the whole equation. My worry was that some guys with terrible attitudes and behaviours would read that and think they don't have to improve on themselves and that whatever goes wrong in their marriage is the woman's fault, which is something we see play out all too often. But I get your point now 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 8:21am On Feb 11, 2019 |
sonature1:No. Some are happy to walk out of their marriage. To them divorce is freedom. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by paraltero: 8:25am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Hed0nist: Well, being the kind of partner a good woman would want is also a good advice for men, isn't it? It's not like I totally disagreed with what the guy said. It's just that all too often, women get blamed when things go wrong in a marriage especially here in Nigeria and I felt that without adding the balance that men also need to work on themselves to attract good spouses, some men could read that and have this sense of entitlement that it doesn't matter what they do or how they behave, that the woman is the one that should carry the burden of being the good person in the relationship/marriage. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by paraltero: 8:25am On Feb 11, 2019 |
marvinsync: True, true. Thanks for the correction |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by deebrain(m): 8:26am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Such an unfortunate topic. Dear youth, stop getting into things you are not ready to handle. Aside regretting (sure you will), you will be forever accountable to your kids, yourself and your God. Not to forget the pain when you see a couple that faced even more than you faced AND STILL WITH UNDERSTANDING, PULLING THROUGH! Marriage is not that nonsense you watch on Zee World and telemundo. It is (like my clergy friend would say) a lifetime project. Serious work. 6 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by tosyne2much(m): 8:27am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Quarterbac:I feel your concern bro.. The truth is that women normally take advantage of such men but you don't have a choice than to give it a shot U grab? |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by paraltero: 8:33am On Feb 11, 2019 |
FreeConCiencE: Well, that's the problem. There are a lot of Nigerian men and women who take advice like politicians - if you don't spell everything out in black and white, they use it as an excuse to behave badly then when you call them out for their bad behaviour, they blame you for not giving them complete advice. And yes, as far as love, respect, communication and tolerance goes, men and women share equal responsibility in relationships and marriages. If one person does or has it more than the other, there WILL be problems. 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by hotspec(m): 8:40am On Feb 11, 2019 |
2extremes:Bro,run for ur life. wish someone told me ds bf I married her. imagine my mother in-law asking wife to also "wake up" because she's a graduate. 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by hotspec(m): 8:40am On Feb 11, 2019 |
GREATESTPIANIST:We are divorced already. love is long gone. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by paraltero: 8:42am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Martinez39: Not just freedom - happiness too. People get married for a whole lot of reasons and may find out down the line that their reason for getting married is not enough to keep them happy or united as a couple so they both decide to go their separate ways. The media (not just in Nigeria) likes to paint all divorces as bitter affairs (and they often are, don't get me wrong) but that's not accurate. The fact is that when both parties realize that they'd rather not subject each other and their kids to a life of pain, discontent and unhappiness in the name of staying together till death does them part - the motto of lots of Nigerians - they decide instead to part amicably as friends and maintain a cordial relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by tosyne2much(m): 8:45am On Feb 11, 2019 |
fetthu:A million likes for this comment 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by tosyne2much(m): 8:47am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Naughtysite:This is not a rubbish thread.. It's a thread where many will learn from those who failed in their marital lives 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by missjane: 8:47am On Feb 11, 2019 |
My recommendation. Please find the movie war room n watch it It can still save a marriage on the brink of divorce. If you are yet to get married, still locate it n watch. Marriage is an institution created by God Himself..and only Him has the real blue print of a successful marriage. Having unrealistic expectations that your partner can fulfil every of your needs is a misconception. There are needs in a man or woman that only God himself can fill. If you are tired of fighting loosing battles in your marriage then, it's time to submit to God resist the devil in your home and he will flee from you. God bless your marriage.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by teemy(m): 8:48am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Yigiyaga: Nearly word for word though just working on the divorce. I don't want someone I promised to care about to get hurt or hurt someone else just because of uncontrolled jealousy. If three years separation could not solve the attitude, something permanent would if she has no hold. Painful but necessary. 6 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Mccullum: 8:50am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Bad question because those that ended up as divorcee still in sadness up till date as that wasn't what they negotiated for in their unions. But it happened, that is destiny... May Allah grant them better and rewarding future. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by reginaeb: 8:55am On Feb 11, 2019 |
I'm so glad I walked out of my marriage of three months. I even thank God when I think about it because God saved me. The guy had so much skeletons in his cupboard. So diabolic and fetish. Had I known of those skeletons I wouldn't have accepted his proposal. Say no to long distance relationship. I did it for 4 years only to get married and leave 3 months after. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Uchefame(m): 8:56am On Feb 11, 2019 |
4. Look for mutual dedication. There should be sustained evidence that you and a prospective mate are equally devoted to the relationship; for example, that you are both willing to make sacrifices for each other. If you consistently think you are more dedicated to the relationship than your partner, consider moving on. That’s a bad sign for future marital quality. It’s fine to be looking for love, but it’s smarter to be looking for sacrifice. You made a very good point here: Many people don't consider how committed their intending spouse is to the relationship. Some time, you see a situation where only the man make the calls and sees nothing wrong with that. Secondly, many ladies believe that it's the responsibility of men to make relationship work. Perhaps if the relationship eventually led to marriage and the man realize himself and decides to make adjustments, that is when you begin to see misunderstanding. May God give us the grace to make the right decision. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 9:03am On Feb 11, 2019 |
lawman88:Try talking to her about this. If she refuses to listen, call it quit. She is not worth it. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by hablink: 9:05am On Feb 11, 2019 |
1StopRudeness:I wish I could just hug you right now, you've said it all! 1 Like |
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