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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Nobody: 6:24am On Feb 12, 2019 |
MacMkboy: This is my man's hobby. Even me dey tire of he start. too much negative spirit. mtchew 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 9:45am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Ishilove:Lol. People will always paint themselves as victims or as being in the right. It's something I discovered long ago. NB : it doesn't mean those who shared their story here are lying. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Nobody: 10:19am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by flyca: 10:21am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Elder0001:You were minding yours when you called her out, abi? 4 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by clumsydyna: 10:27am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Quarterbac: Reminds me of the guy who broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years because she never got angry. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Nobody: 10:39am On Feb 12, 2019 |
flyca: Flyca free me na ... do we have problem ?? I didn’t mention you , I mentioned an old friend who has gone astray. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by flyca: 10:49am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Elder0001:She is an adult. She is entitled to independent decisions. Free her. As I already said, your life is not perfect either 6 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by GREATESTPIANIST: 11:08am On Feb 12, 2019 |
fastseo:I envision a blissful marriage Sir, I said envision, implying that even when there are storms , i still keep envisioning a good marriage, it's mindset, who is perfect you just ranting and ranting like am some angel, I have gone through storms sir, but I keep thinking victory no matter what, I never said everything will be smooth, we ain't perfect beings............don't misquote me Biko, carry your theories elsewhere, it will work well for me I repeat, whether you like it or not Sir....... Of course we ain't perfect, I am not perfect and I do not intend to marry an angel, it's a simple mindset ooooooo , leave me and mindset alone oooooooo!!!!!!!! this my mindset, thanks .... and why referring to a man of God whose marriage crashed, what's your business with that, is it your marriage? If it crashed why making fuss about it? Forget him and run your own race, and look unto Jesus the author of our faith......You guys would always refers to pastors just to rubbish them cus they made some mistakes, please it's mindset, run ur race......good morning 9 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by GREATESTPIANIST: 11:21am On Feb 12, 2019 |
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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by lastmessenger: 11:31am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Quarterbac:so your destiny is to be a loner? |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by uncleck: 11:34am On Feb 12, 2019 |
Ishilove:mind you, it's only in the Bible that you find characters writing their own shortfalls. In this thread, most people at fault have not opened up and you should hardly expect them to do so. Moreover, the initial set of people that commented made this thread uninviting. It shouldn't have been on front-page until it had gotten reasonable contribution. so don't start thinking that these ones are painting themselves innocent 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by lastmessenger: 11:48am On Feb 12, 2019 |
realtalk19:Bible said you can't marry again. So you are doomed to be a loner.
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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 11:54am On Feb 12, 2019 |
oyetpel:I had a failed marriage and I was not just a victim, the marriage brought out another side of me. I felt trapped in a loveless marriage. There was violence and abuse but it will be very unfair to say I was saint though my actions were due to frustration. I know I am not a bad person but I have my limits too. Even though we're not in speaking terms, I don't have any thing against him 9 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by zeb04(f): 12:37pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Martinez39:I don’t understand why you think they are making themselves the victims. why did you create the thread in the first place if you will not believe them. 9 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Quarterbac: 12:46pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
lastmessenger: Maybe it's not such a bad thing. And do you have to be married not to be a loner? 7 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Quarterbac: 12:47pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
clumsydyna: Lol, seriously? I would understand if it was a guy, but a girl that doesn't get angry every once in a while? I don't know, I probably would run too |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 1:04pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
zeb04:I didn't say that they are wrong. I simply told Ishilove that normally, human beings will always want to be right but that doesn't mean that their accounts are always wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 1:19pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Martinez39:Don't mind them. English is hard for so many Nairalanders. A close scrutiny of my post will reveal that I did not target any particular post or poster. Rather, it is a commentary on the human psyche. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Winter4: 1:21pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Ishilove: Look at it from this angle: The guilty parties are not talking. The hurt ones are those pouring their minds out. If I was guilty, I wouldn't say a word here also....abi how would I justify cheating on my husband? Or beating my wife to a pulp... 16 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 1:39pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Winter4:That's the angle from which I am seeing it. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 1:40pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Katier00:Thank you for your honesty. This thread is about lessons learned from failed marriages, which should include wisdom gotten from introspection and an acknowledgement of one's flaws. I commented because it seemed no one was willing to admit that perhaps they too had hand in the failure of their marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 1:52pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Ishilove:I noticed that too but most people sharing their stories here,are still hurting, so they are trying to console themselves by believing they were the only victims. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by tizan: 1:57pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
The topic is quite clear so I don't understand why single people are commenting off-topic and even making judgements, and in the process, ending up discouraging those who have actual responses and almost derailing the topic. Single people would do well to take advantages of the potential knowledge they can gain from threads like this, and listen/read and learn more than anything else. Even though I'm married, I came here to learn from experiences of others because I have my own marital issues too, but I think some of the puerile, somewhat ignorant and seemingly judgemental comments may have persuaded those the topic apply to against sharing their experiences. 7 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 1:58pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Katier00:I didn't think of it from this perspective. Thanks. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by lastmessenger: 2:08pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Quarterbac:loner in old age is a must if you are not married |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
flyca: |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Let the Bible try and stop her when she finds someone else lastmessenger: 8 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 3:39pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
cococandy:Are you minding him? I knew about a deeper life woman who couldn't live her marriage because the bible said she shouldn't divorce. Some people ehn. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by realtalk19: 4:16pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
lastmessenger: lol, it's obvious u ar a nassicist and a loner that's why u can't accept success or defeat. funny enough u ar not God . I wil get married and even send u an invite. just stay alive for it. 21 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by realtalk19: 4:16pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Johnny1013: thank u sir |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 4:16pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
realtalk19:That's the spirit. You go girl! 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by realtalk19: 4:20pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
MacMkboy: I didn't generalize but based on observations with most short people I have come across are aggressive and stubborn 1 Like 1 Share |
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