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Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Nobody: 5:13am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Ochuksbaba: Imagine the rubbish people swallow When it comes to where I live I am very sensitive I do not even allow female friends call their friends to come to my place without permission 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Uglymugg: 5:19am On Feb 14, 2019 |
candlewax: Damn. I wish I had friends like you.
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Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Malawian(m): 5:29am On Feb 14, 2019 |
He's already told you guys he looks to buy the guy out of a business, hence the reason he is trying to be diplomatic. This is akin to a fly perching on your scrotum. Not everything is by fire by sword. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Uglymugg: 5:30am On Feb 14, 2019 |
candlewax: Hey man. I don't know anything about busniess but I don't think you should buy that shop. There's a lot you're not being told and I won't be suprised if it later came out at the end after the deal has gone through. Your 'good friend' doesn't seem like the kind that will be honest about his dealings. Sorry for doubting your story. I didn't think people with soft heart still exist in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by TadM: 5:32am On Feb 14, 2019 |
i guess by nairalanders had told you so much you now twice as confused. But i tell man. Humans are different. Some are dangerous, some are emotional. Always mind the way you approach either type, wisdom!. Use this sure format [compliment, attack, justify] in other words, Tell him what you appreciate about him, tell him,what you want, and tell him you both will get along fine doing his short stay. Example: i like the way you take dey do things and you joking nature, but i nor like the way you take they bring women come, i nor gree am for my blood brother, na only that wan i nor like, just enjoy the small stay, without bringing women, i know say you go understand. By doing something like this it always work iron issues wisely. Tell am say you nor mind if e run a for outside shall but nor be inside this compound wey you dey. 4 Likes |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Fela4ese: 5:32am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Me no matter d closeness what I don't like I tell u straight up.wayo nor dey inside Oo tell the guy u won't take that he should never bring a girl to ur hux it at all he must stay with u .n also how long he is staying he should b able to tell u na shebi na u get d hux? |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Analysiscorner: 5:34am On Feb 14, 2019 |
What happened to his own house? He said he would visit you and from there sleeping over and from there bringing girls to your house. Tell him to pack out. You can't compromise everything for business. Chase him out of your house. |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by poyebad: 5:35am On Feb 14, 2019 |
You're such a wimp. Or castrated guy. Or both. In your own house?!!! Tufiakwa! Men should be men. Tell him to get a hotel. And Bleep the business deal altogether. A man should act from time to time like he has nothing to lose. Absolutely nothing to lose. Otherwise people will ride over you every fucking time. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Analysiscorner: 5:38am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Davash222:Exactly |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by joyousever(f): 5:38am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Hello...But trying to buy his business which you feel a lot of ppl might be interested in shouldn't be used as an avenue for exploitation by him. You're actually the one doing him a favour by parting with your money to buy off his business,therefore, it has no connection to why he should take advantage. Allowing him to bring in women to defile your home which is contrary to what you do as a personal policy,is very bad. It could attract bad spirits cos no one can tell what's following him & those free women. So,you need to man up & politely tell him that you're expecting some family members for a family function &theyll be staying over for some days with effect from today's evening. I believe with this excuse,he wouldn't need a seer to tell him that he's no longer welcome. candlewax: |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by damlawrence101: 5:39am On Feb 14, 2019 |
D only problem the OP has is dat is not a womanizer like his friend ......OP pls dont chase him out u might need his help 2moro ..........just take d situation as one d friendship challenge....U RE NOT WEAK OP : GET URSEF A FUCKING ALSO .. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by poyebad: 5:41am On Feb 14, 2019 |
joyousever: Really? I mean literally really? You guys and spirits sha. Why must nice old s*x each time be associated with bad spirits? Nigerians sha. 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Analysiscorner: 5:41am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Malawian:Must he swallow everything for business gain? |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by NewCaliYork: 5:42am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Are you very sure he wants to sell his business or thats just a ploy to hoodwink you into allowing his excesses? |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by joyousever(f): 5:43am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Please, don't use that bedspread again! candlewax: |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Analysiscorner: 5:43am On Feb 14, 2019 |
poyebad:It's very real, Bro. It is not psychology |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by jaxxy(m): 5:45am On Feb 14, 2019 |
candlewax: Oh u want to buy his existing business and Ure complaining instead of unto buy him one Hennessy along for the party. Lol On a serious note u have to apply wisdom all depending on how much u want that business and if in actual fact he wants to sell it to u at favorable conditions for u. Be nice to ur associates to sm extent. Or tell him u will get him a hotel for his shenanigans because Ure a holy man. He shud not desecrate ur home with harlotry. |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by poyebad: 5:46am On Feb 14, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: I love you Ma! That's probably the best advice he'll get here. It's not even about being a man; it's about being a human being with the mind of his own. He probably has a very low self-esteem and survives on others' acceptance of him. He should also stop calling the guy a friend if he can't really tell him what he likes and what he does not like. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by dolak: 5:50am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Hmmm.......my advice, once he's up and leaving, tell him to get the loads that it's val season and your woman is coming to spend 2 weeks. Say it in a way the Lady will hear, this will hook him. He is using you, even if you end up buying the business, he will still use you, bring people in and claim he is in charge. Once you clear him, he will respect you and stay on business level. What effrontery Try get your sister or cousin to act like your woman on phone, and he will clear.,....devil like him don't stay where there is light. |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by poyebad: 5:51am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Analysiscorner: Somehow it is real. Somehow you guys cannot prove it. And somehow such belief system has perpetually kept us backward. It's simple psychology, to propagate a moral culture many Africans rely on cooking up spirits and the likes to scare people into walking a line set by their religious/spiritual rulers. Not, it's not real. It's all a grand illusion. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by joyousever(f): 5:53am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Just listen to yourself! poyebad: |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by frank317: 5:55am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Badt boy... Wacha gonna do when they come for u... |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by dalass(f): 5:57am On Feb 14, 2019 |
Rubbiish: |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Mrschubby: 5:59am On Feb 14, 2019 |
If you’re wondering how exactly you’ll get him out of your house completely and he won’t need to come back, as he’s leaving the door tell him he forgot somethings, put his towel and other clothes in 1 nylon bag so it will be easy for him to carry. I hate people that take advantage of other people. This whole sh!t won’t stop until u stop it. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Afritop(m): 6:00am On Feb 14, 2019 |
candlewax:Since you guys are in the place of business tell him exactly how you feel. In addition tell him the neighbour hood are being suspicious of you on what happened when him and his olosho were banging on the compound gate. I know his type he will continue having fun in your house since you are focused on buying his business which he might not sell to you at the end and will not even relocate |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by frank317: 6:05am On Feb 14, 2019 |
candlewax: Sorry, have u even has sex before... U will be surprised how sex would make u think like a man... Abi are u gay? |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Guruindahouse(m): 6:06am On Feb 14, 2019 |
You and teresafaith will be here again crying foul play if you marry a 'strong man'. Who can understand woman? Comot for road joor 1Sharon: |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by JoseRaji(m): 6:12am On Feb 14, 2019 |
candlewax: Sit down there. Don't excercise your will power as lord and owner of your own crib... Allow someone else to come and be riding on you in your own house. You hear? Don't speak up. Just come to nairaland and be begging for opinions. It baffles me. How you say you let someone sleep over, and then he brought clothes, then one woman after another... And YOU'RE EVEN SLEEPING ON THE COUCH?! Are you mad? |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by boxypane(m): 6:13am On Feb 14, 2019 |
This was the same reason I stopped keeping friends. Last time I checked, I gave him an advice his parents has never given him. He hates me like hell, but who cares. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by Simply29ice(m): 6:14am On Feb 14, 2019 |
i was in the same situation 5years ago, tell him you dont only dislike it,but you dont wish to see such in your house n that you cant accomdate him because your slibing are coming to stay with you. |
Re: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by deltateam: 6:19am On Feb 14, 2019 |
madampresident: You don't entertain girls talk more a prostitute? To my understanding 95% of girls or women are prostitutes. If you have slept with anyone before besides your husband you are a prostitute. If a guy buys you shawmer or anything and bleeps you, you are a prostitute. The baby mama industry is filled with prostitutes even your role models like Linda Ikeji is a prostitute and you are a prostitute. |
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