Toasting or wooing is a normal thing that happens everyday or almost everyday of human life. Guys look for ladies, woo them for relationship, "replies"...But which of these rejections from ladies hurt the most...

(1) Capital NO
(2) Let's just be friends.
(3) I have someone.
(4) Just give me time time time.
(5) Totally blanking without response
(6) You are like a brother to me.
(7) NO with insults.
( NO with flaunting of boo

No 2 and 3 are my favorite lines..... lol

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I hate number 7

5 and 7. Sometimes I feel like beating somebody's daughter.

I don't know about the numbers Op. Coz I always get a yes

A girl I once asked out told me no cause she was afraid that if we started dating I will upset her and she'll kill me.



I was like wtf

CreepyBlackpool:
A girl I once asked out told me no cause she was afraid that if we started dating I will upset her and she'll kill me.



I was like wtf

Geez!!

bobokeshington:
I don't know about the numbers Op. Coz I always get a yes

lai muhammed.

bukkyemotions:
Toasting or wooing is a normal thing that happens everyday or almost everyday of human life. Guys look for ladies, woo them for relationship, "replies"...But which of these rejections from ladies hurt the most...

(1) Capital NO
(2) Let's just be friends.
(3) I have someone.
(4) Just give me time time time.
(5) Totally blanking without response
(6) You are like a brother to me.
(7) NO with insults.
( NO with flaunting of boo

none hurts if you are experienced its normal for a lady to say no to you it depends on how you interpret it .for me i see it as we not been compatible with each other dont feel bad about it. every guy on earth will be rejected once in a while no matter how rich or handsome he is even davido cannot tell me he has not been rejected before.but the day you will meet the one that likes you you wunt even ask her out thing will click for you automatically.but i like guys we handle rejection better and move on easily but girls cannot handle it ,they can even chop winch for you if you bruise their ego.

I need space two days later you see her with another guy

I don't have much experience of what you posted up there. Maybe because am not a fan of 'love at first sight'. I always do my math well but that doesn't mean there has never been a no, just that the chances has always been slim.

One idiot told me It can't be and it can never be....na once I block her
I hate nonsense

It's simple really. Just bloody move on.
Never blame a girl when you get rejected tho.. The proudest and hottest of em are being scooped up daily by a man like you.. Blame yourself and up your game or better yet, just focus on your life and become successful.. Success is a very pretty accessory much like your wristwatch..

As a guy, your response is very important.

Some girls say such because she clearly don't like you and don't want to have any romantic flings with you (but is still keeping the door open "let's just be friends" so she can be chopping your money)

You have to be witty and be able to read if a girl really likes you or not.

If you sense she likes you but really has a boyfriend , you can be smart about it.

"I have someone".

Your reply could be, "...and I'm sure that person is Jesus Christ"
She might chuckle or laugh, key is, keep the convo and vibe alive, remember, be naughty.

Never be tempted to fall on cliché lines when chatting with her "Have you eaten?" "How was your day?"
You can be a bit creative as well as naughty with it...
"How many guys did you confuse with your big bum today? "
"If you like, stay there and think I'll ask you if you've eaten, Tsw".


Just examples.


"I have a boyfriend"

"Cool, and I have two eyes, tell me something I don't know "

Trick is, keep them engaged.
Don't let her see your chat with her as a nuisance and if you notice she starts replying with lol or OK or any short chat killer to show she's becoming bored, you need to do something else..

"You're like a brother to me"

"Do you watch Game of Thrones? ."

Always be naughty with her and never be the nice guy.

Believe me, this works.

I've bleeped girls that have tried to use those lines on me, they even got addicted to me.


Casan0va

number 2 & 3. back then in the university, I met this girl I loved. I tried my best to make her my girl including helping her in academics by teaching her the courses she didn't understand because we were in the same level then(year 1) I was naive in love issues then. She didn't send me but was taking advantage of my academic help to give me hope. I broke up with her in year 2 first semester but didn't stop thinking about her and having feelings for her. then I tried to reunite with her in my year 3. It was then she told me that I'm nothing to her more than just a friend. that she can't date me. I really felt bad because I had other girls who were giving me greenlight but I snubbed them for her sake.. Since that day till my end of academic program in the school, I stopped loving and became a player. that was when I started having girls to bang. That is when I realised that our girls love people who lie to them. Honest people find it difficult to have good relationships. Players always enjoy relationships.. Well, those days are gone sha.
I've passed that stage

bukkyemotions:
Toasting or wooing is a normal thing that happens everyday or almost everyday of human life. Guys look for ladies, woo them for relationship, "replies"...But which of these rejections from ladies hurt the most...

(1) Capital NO
(2) Let's just be friends.
(3) I have someone.
(4) Just give me time time time.
(5) Totally blanking without response
(6) You are like a brother to me.
(7) NO with insults.
( NO with flaunting of boo

first time i got a NO from a girl was during my gce exam days... this fine chocolate babe just dey knock me No, No , No. No matter what i said. To make things worse she was with her group of friends. I talk tire even made them laugh while gisting but she still said NO... I ended up with sever headache that day

CasanOva, you need to meet the really smart ones. You will be beaten in your game.

freedomchild:
number 2 & 3. back then in the university, I met this girl I loved. I tried my best to make her my girl including helping her in academics by teaching her the courses she didn't understand because we were in the same level then(year 1) I was naive in love issues then. She didn't send me but was taking advantage of my academic help to give me hope. I broke up with her in year 2 first semester but didn't stop thinking about her and having feelings for her. then I tried to reunite with her in my year 3. It was then she told me that I'm nothing to her more than just a friend. that she can't date me. I really felt bad because I had other girls who were giving me greenlight but I snubbed them for her sake.. Since that day till my end of academic program in the school, I stopped loving and became a player. that was when I started having girls to bang. That is when I realised that our girls love people who lie to them. Honest people find it difficult to have good relationships. Players always enjoy relationships.. Well, those days are gone sha.
I've passed that stage

Wehl done sir

Some girls will tell you the above listed, but deep down, they'll be crushing on you and hoping you'll try to persuade them before saying yes.

Why do girls derive pleasure in stressing us ?

You stress me, i move to the next available girl.

greatface:
CasanOva, you need to meet the really smart ones. You will be beaten in your game.

I tell you. Some will still reply with one word and you will be looking for the nearest lagoon to end your misery.

Ladies love being comical when you walk up to them, it's a brain reflex, but they always fall when you know their weakness and break through the whole facade..

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