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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by hotspec(m): 9:48pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
Ishilove:Bro, if u had read my previous comments, I've answered d question. dt was d court ruling, but I'm trying my best to give them d best. d only thing they miss is our evening and early morning playing together 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
Ishilove:Not 100% shall. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MacMkboy(m): 12:32am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove:Then Its Either U Are A Rude And Bossy Fellow Or U've Only Met A Few Short People. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MacMkboy(m): 12:39am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Martinez39:And U Read Her Initial Comment Without Understanding. Lol @guilty Conscience And Bias. I've Got Very Wonderful Friends Across Both Heights And Gender Who Sacrifice Their Comfort 4me Without Questions Cos I Do Same 4em. If I Was Biased, I Won't Have Met Them. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MacMkboy(m): 12:43am On Feb 16, 2019 |
kennybelle:Yea, Very Educating Thread. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39(m): 12:43am On Feb 16, 2019 |
MacMkboy:Why are you getting so worked up over this issue? Are you short, crooked, aggressive and controlling? as I have said before, 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MacMkboy(m): 12:46am On Feb 16, 2019 |
realtalk19:U'r Wc |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MacMkboy(m): 12:57am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Martinez39: To all Ur Questions, The Answer Is No And U'r Terribly Wrong To Assume That Bad Sentiments And Jibes Thrown At Me On Nairaland Affect My Mind In Any Way Whatsoeva. I Won't Reply Any Jibe U Throw At Me Again. Nevertheless My Message Remains Clear... When Ur Mind Is Clogged With Bias Toward A Certain Group Of People, U'll Never Fully Get The Good That Could Have Come From Them To You. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 7:59am On Feb 16, 2019 |
MacMkboy:Are you short? It seems you are. I can sense how cantankerous you must be offline. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 8:00am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Martinez39:You sef can sense it, shey? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by MacMkboy(m): 8:13am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove:U Just Confirmed Ur True Nature 2me! |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 8:20am On Feb 16, 2019 |
MacMkboy:Abeg carry your wahala go jor. One-man shortie squad |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by drmikeadams(m): 10:30am On Feb 16, 2019 |
unfortunately we still marry d wrong women even with all d red flags,believing they will change love dey block our brains to realities |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by tizan: 2:38pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: Remember I mentioned it runs in the family? |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 5:49pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
tizan:That is quite unfortunate... |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by kingreign(m): 6:57pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
LadySarah: Trash. How dare you make such a terrible statement? May it be known to you that Marriage is A VERY SPIRITUAL UNION, GOD INSTITUTATED MARRIAGE. BHT IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF BOTH COUPLE TO KEEP THE UNION INTACT. One way the devil is trying to make great men fall is by marriage cos a broken home would cause a huge distraction. It takes serious prayer and fasting and preparation before marriage and continuous self improvement and love and understanding and patience and sacrifice succeed in marriage. WHATSOEVER HAPPENED TO THOSE MEN OF GOD'S MARRIAGE WHOM YOU MENTIONED SHOULDNT BE A YARD STICK TO WEIGHT ANOTHER MANS MARRIAGE. FOR EVERYONE ONE EARTH SHOULD WORK HIS SALVATION, MARRIAGE, SUCCESS, AND WORTH. THE HEAVENLY RACE WE ALL RUN, WE RUN IT INDIVIDUALLY AND NOT COLLECTIVELY. SO ALSO IS MARRIAGE. DONT LET ANY MAN OF GOD'S MARRIAGE FANTASISE YOU, RATHER LET YOUR EYES BE FOCUSED ON THE MARRIAGE BETWEEN CHRIST ANS THE CHURCH. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by kingreign(m): 7:04pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: They wanna buy everyone's pity and sympathy. This is the challenge failures have. They seek who to cast blames rather than looking at their weakness and working to improve on themselves. For their mind they married the wrong people, and they're saints. I laugh in Afrikaans. 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by realtalk19: 7:35pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: u ar on point sis.u just hit the nail on the head. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by kingreign(m): 7:41pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
consultancy: And you believe his storyline? He's a saint and his ex-wife, plus their families are villains? If you believe this, you'd believe any lies. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by realtalk19: 7:44pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
kingreign: some may be genuine and some may not. from mine i am aware of the fact that no one is perfect and it take two to make it work but in a situation where by only one person is doing every thing to make the marriage work and the other spouse isn't making any effort.it can. be frustrating and painful. if eventually the spouse dies in the course of all these especially violence and domestic abuse will u stil say the living spouse is the victim. is the person that wears the shoes that knows where it pinches and hurts. 3 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by kingreign(m): 7:48pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
djon78: There's no such thing as wrong people. Plus correct this notion. For every action, there's equal and opposing reaction. You dated, you were together, saw his/her friends, families, and attitudes and prolly was too naive or blinded by infatuation (which folks think is love). There's always a sign to show no matter how subtle it is, it must show when you're very very prayerful and observant from an unbiased clear level headed stand. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by kingreign(m): 7:52pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
drmikeadams: No be love, na sex, mind blowing sex blow their brains and logical reasonings away. To every young unmarried man reading this thread, please go thru 1. proverbs 21:9 Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife The Bible still repeated it again in proverbs 25:24 Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife 2 Likes |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 8:16pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
realtalk19:I think they are that way because they have persecution complex. The human beings tend to take advantage of small people |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 8:38pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
consultancy:Her father must be related to Rambo: his distant cousin on his maternal grandfather's side. 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by djon78(m): 8:46pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
kingreign: And was that not what I stated in my opinion you cancelled Mr I too know Did I not mention the same stuff Mr man?? Whatever I stated there is the way it is Prayer reveals a lot, and I am speaking from experience. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by djon78(m): 8:52pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: True. One of my relatives is like that, we call him small but mighty. If you see where this guy dey rake. The guy na something else. He come marry very fine, beautiful, calm easy going wife, who is a Medical Doctor. Very jealous guy. You dare not talk to his wife. Although he is very wealthy. |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 9:10pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
djon78:He can't marry someone with his own kind of temperament. The marriage will scatter in a week |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by djon78(m): 9:21pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: Yea he even says it. His brothers also say it. Because he married a very good woman as wife. The kind that brings peace. His wife is the kind of woman you use as example to other women. Beautiful, intelligent, very good natured. In fact I say that God gives some people what they don't deserve, but that's Grace for you. Although sometimes he jokes that the only time in his life he did 40 days fasting and prayer was when he was seeking for wife, and God come give am that wonderful woman. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 9:31pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
djon78:There you have it. People don't factor God in when choosing a life partner, that's why we have so many failed marriages 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by djon78(m): 10:08pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: Sure you hit it spot on. Many people enter into wrong marriages because they don't put in God. It is only God that knows the true condition of a person. What his or her future will be like. But people follow physical appeal which is very fleeting. Also another thing i have come to see is that most times, the things that will make our life better may not be appealing to our senses. It may not really look ideal, but those are the things that will make our life the best. And that is how many people miss out on happiness in life. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Ishilove: 10:23pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
djon78:You are young, but your are filled with wisdom. I couldn't have put it better. You have also opened my eyes to something I have always known in my subconscious but never truly acknowledged. Thanks a lot How I wish people know this. 1 Like |
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by djon78(m): 10:35pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: Well wisdom is from God. Thanks too 2 Likes 1 Share |
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