Even the men are seeing marriage as a favour to women and the women are proving to them that life goes on if the marriage doesn't work

Not true is boils down to the personality

No body prays to be in a marriage that lacks love and happiness, its like eating a pot of soup that doesn't have salt but every other ingredients are in it

Not also true because some persons don't take marriage serious. With the way many men and women are behaving, some feel that they should just get married have children and then divorce.

Quorax:
how many westerners bear African names?

Few

asuustrike1:

Few

how many Nigerians bear Western names?

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flyca:




Maybe they are running away from deadbeat dads, who knows

You always lack sense, why

Aww he’s cute he has the husbands eyes o before them accuse her wrongly check well

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ticoticotico:


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Quorax:
how many Nigerians bear Western names?

Few

Dreyl:
You always lack sense, why

I am NOT your babysitter

wilcox:
Very few understand what marriage is all about.
Your marriage won't work if you don't know how to separate fame from it.
I thank God for the likes of Mercy Johnson and Omotala, and I respect Genevieve for not venturing into what she knows won't work for her.

I don’t think it’s about fame it’s more about lack of communication and also humans and how difficult sometimes we make it when it doesn’t need to be. If People have a smooth and effective way to dialogue with you they won’t go online but when in the name of anger we block the people we claim to love we effectively drive them to seek outside opinions.

I’ve always maintained its compatibility it boils down too it’s not just about who look good it’s who feels good who brings and can build good with you

so her marriage Don crash ni..... chai!! it's a pity

Aijaybaby123:
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netflicks:



WhatsApp?

Aijaybaby123:
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Aijaybaby123:
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The baby looks like the husband.

Thales01:
Which one is Xavier again?I wonder why most African parents opt for foreign names for their kids at the expense of indigenous names that are reflective of our culture and African identity.No wonder our culture is on brink of extinction.We keep co-opting the western culture symptomatic of identity crisis.

nothing wrong with giving your kids foreign names tho

It's a global practice (well except amongst some Muzzues tho)

flyca:




Maybe they are running away from deadbeat dads, who knows

it's but about dead beat dads

these ladies are NOT ready for the rigors of marriage in the real sense of it.

which is not bad in itself

But that's the truth

A married person needs to make a lot of changes in lifestyle

unfortunately, these ones are not ready for that

gabbytabby:
Maybe them tire to endure the deadbeat, cheating and sometimes deceased wey won infect them, thieving, wife beater husbands wey full ground.

Or them suddenly realise say some men are only good for something so them cut their loses and move on.

so in this many instances, it is always the man that is to blame?


which kind twisted logic be this

Quorax:


The government have a role to play. None of my kids will bear English names.

That is your choice

which is good

but don't vilify others who don't want to do same

it's a free world

frozen70:


My dear, no woman goes into marriage and wants divorce

Some situations and circumstances leads to it

Those things that leads to such behaviours are displayed during courtship but the ladies would be thinking it will get better, rather it gets tough and bad every day

No marriage is sweeter

Every marriage is like different pots of jollof rice with different tastes

Even the men are seeing marriage as a favour to women and the women are proving to them that life goes on if the marriage doesn't work

No body prays to be in a marriage that lacks love and happiness, its like eating a pot of soup that doesn't have salt but every other ingredients are in it

Typical of you

Always blame the man

According to your logic, women are never to blame


after my life experiences, I often scrutinise befire I take the woman's side or any side

gloria34:
Most of our mothers sacrificed their lives just to keep their marriages going till old age, what award did they receive? Was a special grave dug 4 them of were they buried in d air? Marriage is sweet when both parties are putting effort to make it work, d minute one party starts to frustrate the other, na to waka dey ground o. I cannot come and kill myself

Not only women back then

even men back in the days had to put up with ill mannered wives but were stuck in such marriages because divorcess were stigmatized

that said, you are right that it takes two parties to make the relationship work

It could be the woman who is not being cooperative, and that is where a lot of women refuse to accept
according to them it can never be the woman's fault.

I agree that men sometimes no dey try, but it's the same for the women too

not all marriages go bad because of the man

asuustrike1:

Is that why Emeka Ike got divorced?

Get to the nitty-gritty and you'll discover that the wife wanted the divorce so badly. Till today, Emeka Ike missed her so much! He fought relentlessly to keep the union but to no avail. Unlike your Saidi Balogun!

Thales01:
Which one is Xavier again?I wonder why most African parents opt for foreign names for their kids at the expense of indigenous names that are reflective of our culture and African identity.No wonder our culture is on brink of extinction.We keep co-opting the western culture symptomatic of identity crisis.

No be today Nigerians dey adopt foreign names.

Names like Bush, Wellington, Osman, and the likes are common in Nigeria and they didn't lose their identity. Your name though can show where you're from is not the completely connection to one's culture.


No be for names like Drinkwater sha

Thales01:
Which one is Xavier again?I wonder why most African parents opt for foreign names for their kids at the expense of indigenous names that are reflective of our culture and African identity.No wonder our culture is on brink of extinction.We keep co-opting the western culture symptomatic of identity crisis.

It’s ignorance.

frozen70:


My dear, no woman goes into marriage and wants divorce

Some situations and circumstances leads to it

Those things that leads to such behaviours are displayed during courtship but the ladies would be thinking it will get better, rather it gets tough and bad every day

No marriage is sweeter

Every marriage is like different pots of jollof rice with different tastes

Even the men are seeing marriage as a favour to women and the women are proving to them that life goes on if the marriage doesn't work

No body prays to be in a marriage that lacks love and happiness, its like eating a pot of soup that doesn't have salt but every other ingredients are in it

u are right.

flyca:




Maybe they are running away from deadbeat dads, who knows

they study their husbands true characters after child birth

Harmony92:
they study their husbands true characters after child birth

Did their husbands realize the kind of women they were after marriage?

flyca:

Did their husbands realize the kind of women they were after marriage?

I guess so.

flyca:

Did their husbands realize the kind of women they were after marriage?

I guess so, marriage is for matured people jare