ashawopikin:
I don't care about newly weds, she is my wife, if I try too much, I fit leave her make she rest on Sundays

cococandy:
5 kids will ensure that she’s always tired. Especially when the last one is still a baby. Lord have mercy.

P.S forcing your way will make sure that she feels revolted some more by the act of sex and maybe even disgusted by you. I wouldn’t ever enjoy anyone who forced himself on me. EVER AGAIN


1) Start by apologizing to her. You have committed a crime against her spirit and body by raping her. Let’s hope she forgives you.
2) consider permanent birth control. If you can afford vasectomy, very good. If you can’t, use condoms. Birth control shouldn’t always be a woman’s problem to deal with. However if she wants to take on the responsibility of birth control for your family, very good as well. Thank her.
3) find out if there are additional issues related to her decreased appetite for sex. Too much work at home or outside the home?, fear of pregnancy, resentment for you for any reasons including your offense of raping her? Etc. resolve those issues.
4) start over. Build the romance up again. Show more interest in her besides sexual interest. That works to make sex more appealing after you’ve been with someone for a while.
5) decrease your expectations.
6) when you do start having sex again, ensure that she enjoys it. Many men see their women as masturbatory aides instead of physical beings who should achieve orgasm same as them. I would get tired too if the sex is always about your orgasm. If it’s over when you cum. Then No thanks.

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

ifyalways:


After 10 years of marriage? yes it is.
Other things count eg companionship,cuddling, shared interests eg sports, discussions about long term retirement plans in bed , body warmth and shared jokes in bed.

@OP, Your youngest child is just 2. Poor woman is scared of another pregnancy plus she might be honestly tired with all the children and housekeeping.
Go with her for family planning.
Take her out on a romantic date or just pay for and send her to a spa .
Her libido is decreasing, you'd have to do more tlc, help around the house more and do more than just jumping on her if you want to get your groove on.
Stop forcing her abeg.

cococandy:
5 kids will ensure that she’s always tired. Especially when the last one is still a baby. Lord have mercy.

P.S forcing your way will make sure that she feels revolted some more by the act of sex and maybe even disgusted by you. I wouldn’t ever enjoy anyone who forced himself on me. EVER AGAIN


1) Start by apologizing to her. You have committed a crime against her spirit and body by raping her. Let’s hope she forgives you.
2) consider permanent birth control. If you can afford vasectomy, very good. If you can’t, use condoms. Birth control shouldn’t always be a woman’s problem to deal with. However if she wants to take on the responsibility of birth control for your family, very good as well. Thank her.
3) find out if there are additional issues related to her decreased appetite for sex. Too much work at home or outside the home?, fear of pregnancy, resentment for you for any reasons including your offense of raping her? Etc. resolve those issues.
4) start over. Build the romance up again. Show more interest in her besides sexual interest. That works to make sex more appealing after you’ve been with someone for a while.
5) decrease your expectations.
6) when you do start having sex again, ensure that she enjoys it. Many men see their women as masturbatory aides instead of physical beings who should achieve orgasm same as them. I would get tired too if the sex is always about your orgasm. If it’s over when you cum. Then No thanks.

agarawu23:
i will be happy if what u guys spew here is what you do in reality.

Twice a week isn't bad for couples married for 20-30 years not to talk of 10 years.

People like u preach holiness here and Fvck olosho outside while you claim holy holy to your wife.

ogawisdom:


Except u took Viagra anything that goes up will naturally come down, just ignore the dick it will behave itself

Pamloveh:
You force your waY sometimes

chiefqueen:

Na wa o. You didn't even understand what she said you're already rambling.
"hope you have 'help'..." as in house help, house girl or boy.


Besides, paying bills doesn't drain energy, it's not an excuse to not do house work.

Also, he didn't mention if his wife is a working class lady, so she might be getting tired from work too.

ifyalways:


After 10 years of marriage? yes it is.
Other things count eg companionship,cuddling, shared interests eg sports, discussions about long term retirement plans in bed , body warmth and shared jokes in bed.

@OP, Your youngest child is just 2. Poor woman is scared of another pregnancy plus she might be honestly tired with all the children and housekeeping.
Go with her for family planning.
Take her out on a romantic date or just pay for and send her to a spa .
Her libido is decreasing, you'd have to do more tlc, help around the house more and do more than just jumping on her if you want to get your groove on.
Stop forcing her abeg.

Oyindidi:
This one go sabi do am

jakandeola:
oyin d guy is saying d right thing. wen u keep denying ur hubby u are pushing him out. did u know some girls out deer no send dey are ready to snatch any man. of course if I cant get it from u I will get it outside

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

nehi!

Viergeachar:


Just say your wife starves you of sexxx and you have gotten used to it and accepted it as your destiny.

Don't generalise or try to make it look normal!

Sissies everywhere!!

Oyindidi:
Unfaithful husband, that is what you'll be. What if you can't satisfy her in bed?

jakandeola:
I sware I have not cheated on my girl b4 and can Neva cheat it will bring me pains to cheaty wife but if I do DAT it means she push me to the wall. to satisfy her is diffrent Dan dis situation abeg we can go to hospital or I take drugs to be beta

Pamloveh:
You force your waY sometimes

Oyindidi:
You didn't answer my question, let me put it this way. What if a married man couldn't satisfy his wife, what will you ask the woman to do?

onatisi:
find another woman outside to be having sex , woman matter is the simplest problem on this planet and there are millions and millions of women who are out there that will satisfy you . have sex outside m satisfy yourself , come back home and be the loving man . if your wife doesnt want sex anymore , let her be , whenever she waants it again , she will come to you herself . this life is just too too short for one to spend time over a simple problem

jakandeola:
oyin read my blogs. if he cant satisfy her why is der no solution or doctor to treat. d guy can take some drugs to make him a general in bed but she didnt say she aint satisfy she refuse. walahi I will show my girl dis cos she aint on NL because I tire for u woman mata. most are in pains looking for hubby yet you treat us like trash. I dont pray to cheat but did woman is pushing dis man.wive submit ur all to ur hubby even bible talk am

Viergeachar:


Just say your wife starves you of sexxx and you have gotten used to it and accepted it as your destiny.

Don't generalise or try to make it look normal!

Sissies everywhere!!

Ahmed0336:
Your own is a joke compared to mine.

Well, if she ll give her consent go to any registered pharmacy and ask for SPANISH FLY.

It will help increase her libido
How is the SPANISH FLY applied?

blindjustice13:
One reason never to bring your sh1t here, people are so miserable that they would rather riun your happiness by deliberately giving you wrong advice . Too many fools on this forum.

Pamloveh:
You force your waY sometimes