I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation

i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife.

many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities, sometimes depression and addiction

many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man.

they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood.

there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship.

i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers

there is also tendency for these type of boys to be drop out or runaways

and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship.

D way Assumptions fly around without Research in Nairaland ehhnn,Boys from single mothers possess the characteristics of a father-figure and are very manly and strong most especially dose only child.Dey grow up to fill in d missin number first in Kindergarten den in reality

Boy, stupidity never got this precise! my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help

ShinqRambq:
D way Assumptions fly around without Research in Nairaland ehhnn,Boys from single mothers possess the characteristics of a father-figure and are very manly and strong most especially dose only child.Dey grow up to fill in d missin number first in Kindergarten den in reality

is my observation not research again? i wrote, that i have friends from single mother homes

Heartbender:
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help

pls stop being emotional, there are successful boys from single mother homes also there are many who came out angry. just because you are a lawyer doesnt not mean everybody made it

wetdick:


is my observation not research again? i wrote, that i have friends from single mother homes

Nxt time,locate a very good Lab,wit a smart Lab attendant before u do any research.I declare dis ur observation null-and-void.

ShinqRambq:

Nxt time,locate a very good Lab,wit a smart Lab attendant before u do any research.I declare dis ur observation null-and-void.

so i have to be in a lap coat and employ an attendant to do research and observe, LMHO,

Raised by my late mum alone. No father no uncle no father figure.

Today, besides being a handy/DIY guy, I think I am a great dad and husband. Awesome at home and at work. (Please let me brag in the face of this insult you posted up there)

I bless my mum and God.

Pathetic observation my brothers are better men with confidence and fear of God.
than most men I know and I've always dated men who's both parents are alive and together yet all mannerless and spoilt pussys with plenty of low self esteem.

wetdick:


so i have to be in a lap coat and employ an attendant to do research and observe, LMHO,

Yes,exactly

ShinqRambq:

Yes,exactly

Amazing you are very funny.

He ain't wrong tho Jst cuz yu guys didn't turn out like dat doesn't mean others will I have a friend who matches this research

ShenTeh:
Raised by my late mum alone. No father no uncle no father figure.

Today, besides being a handy/DIY guy, I think I am a great dad and husband. Awesome at home and at work. (Please let me brag in the face of this insult you posted up there)

I bless my mum and God.

you are taking it the wrong way, this is not an insult. there are plenty of young men without fathers who didnt make it and wished they had a father in their life

Most of them are the "what's she bringing to the table" gang.

They lack that idea of responsibility a man shoulders. I won't blame them, after all they saw their mom toil to take care of them.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Most of them are the "what's she bringing to the table" gang.

They lack that idea of responsibility a man shoulders. I won't blame them, after all they saw their mom toil to take care of them.

Please can i use straw just on one of them?

Jaysolu:
He ain't wrong tho
Jst cuz yu guys didn't turn out like dat doesn't mean others will
I have a friend who matches this research

I have at least 5 people you know, with both parents but match his research. Number one example is wetdick. His moniker alone is a evident

This write up is 70% correct....I have seen most of the mentioned traits in my male friend who's father are not living with their mothers.

It means you grew up with a father.

Heartbender:
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help

wetdick:
I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation

i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife.

many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities

many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man.

they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood.

there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship.

i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers

and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship.

This is a very stupid and fallacious assumption

Nope. He was always on the road. And you mentioned people whose dads were late

Uglymugg:
It means you grew up with a father.

ShinqRambq:
D way Assumptions fly around without Research in Nairaland ehhnn,Boys from single mothers possess the characteristics of a father-figure and are very manly and strong most especially dose only child.Dey grow up to fill in d missin number first in Kindergarten den in reality

Hi

Heartbender:
Nope. He was always on the road. And you mentioned people whose dads were late

He was on the road since he died?

Boxer007:

Hi

gay,don't quote me in ur life again

Yes....the road with your sense. They died together

Uglymugg:
He was on the road since he died?

Heartbender:
Yes....the road with your sense. They died together

Yes! There's that irrational anger from a lad who was brought up by a single mother. Let if flow through you, son.

xendra:
Pathetic observation my brothers are better men with confidence and fear of God.
than most men I know and I've always dated men who's both parents are alive and together yet all mannerless and spoilt pussys with plenty of low self esteem.

How old are you?

wetdick:
I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation

i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife.

many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities

many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man.

they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood.

there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship.

i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers

and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship.

Go and tell the likes of Lebron James, and Shaquile O' Neal that they are Mama's boys

ShinqRambq:

gay,don't quote me in ur life again

Darlin but why do u observe boys and not men. You don't like men? Real men?

Hehehe....this one is bored from wanking

Uglymugg:
Yes! There's that irrational anger from a lad who was brought up by a single mother. Let if flow through you, son.

Boxer007:


Darlin but why do u observe boys and not men. You don't like men? Real men?

Blaady alternate-of-a-feminist

Heartbender:
Hehehe....this one is bored from wanking

Lol... you got me!

Very good write up. Most of the things you stated are true but...

I'm a living example of what you are talking about but...

1. I've never belonged to a secret cult (I'm in my 40s)

2. I've never been in a police cell.

3. I've always had the greatest self confidence (thanks to my uncles).

4. I've always worked hard for my money.

5. I've always had the confidence to walk up to any woman I want and if it doesn't work out I move on.

6. I don't attach emotional undertone to whatever.

But...

Because of the distance between my mother and I, I've always had a liking for women older than me. Agreed; might be because I've always longed for a motherly love. Just maybe...