Mizwisdom:



Please try to ignore that small boy called homeboiy, pay him no attention, he's of no value to you, you won't believe he's still a teenager who you can send on errand or use as your houseboy so please don't respond to him, me I won't reduce myself to that

Back to the matter, yes I'm talking of polygamy. Before your husband travelled abroad he has already told himself that he will marry a citizen abroad for papers, so that he won't be illegal in your country. This doesn't mean that he can't truly fall in love but it might not have been in his initial plan. It's not unusual for him to have left a spouse back home with the promise that he will work and send money home, this didn't start today. My only advice is to do what will make you feel less guilty. Try to meet his real extended family and make friends with his Nigerian friends, amongst them you will find those who will expose him to you (all depends on how down to earth you are) and you can make whatever decision you like afterwards

error4040:


About the new Word, Am sorry if it sounded offensive to you
my advice to your english the more you keep engaging in English the more your vocabulary expand

Well actually Am not from East Nigeria, but I do have friends that once said that in a family A man is expected have a male child that will inherit his inheritance after his death, that in a family with No male but female this lead to his extended family members taking over his inheritance.

But don't take that as an excuse not to love your child & I believe your husband also loves his child

and lastly Your reply was not rude.

Homeboiy:



I believe that the distance between my age and yours is like from Nigeria to Japan

I can feed your family for 20yrs

Stop generalizing

What statistics do u have to say that men cheats

Or Can u prove it to her that husband has a wife in Nigeria?

Nonsense

GameKartel:
@peacefull, you have a very beautiful mind, always learning, very kind-hearted and honest about your feelings and care for your nigerian husband. I never knew a japanese woman can learn so fast about stuff like language, culture and a large country like nigeria. you are a more amazing wife to him than any other woman would ever be, and that's why he is stuck on you and always coming back to you. that igbo man is your legal husband and my advice for you is to try as much as you can to be a better wife to him, mark me this day. He will always miss that special qualities about you and would keep wanting you for himself and never letting you go. all the best of luck in your marriage. note; this next msg is not for you please.
( how i wish me fit get myslf an oversea woman wey sabi relate well with ppl lyk dz, me go jst 4get family pressure and jst leave all these 75% shakara stubborn naija women wey jst dey misbehave lyk say marriage come with user manual. Me go cut out soon, bcuz he don dey ma mine since ..

Nice write up bro. That your ending part got me real Hard

peacefull:


Noooo. Don't say sorry. I'm appreciate you. I learned new English!!! MILFS I'm learning English in here. Thank you so much.
I don't know which is East place in Nigeria. I will ask husband which side is his place.
My reply, I made him feel so bad and angry. Really so bad. I'm really so sorry for him.

You're Welcome I guess

GameKartel:
@peacefull, you have a very beautiful mind, always learning, very kind-hearted and honest about your feelings and care for your nigerian husband. I never knew a japanese woman can learn so fast about stuff like language, culture and a large country like nigeria. you are a more amazing wife to him than any other woman would ever be, and that's why he is stuck on you and always coming back to you. that igbo man is your legal husband and my advice for you is to try as much as you can to be a better wife to him, mark me this day. He will always miss that special qualities about you and would keep wanting you for himself and never letting you go. all the best of luck in your marriage. note; this next msg is not for you please.
( how i wish me fit get myslf an oversea woman wey sabi relate well with ppl lyk dz, me go jst 4get family pressure and jst leave all these 75% shakara stubborn naija women wey jst dey misbehave lyk say marriage come with user manual. Me go cut out soon, bcuz he don dey ma mine since ..

error4040:


You're Welcome I guess

Angela777:
You are a very sweet lady and and everybody, including me, wouldn't like to see you cheated and abandoned. Your husband always coming back when he is in Japan, probably because you are a very supportive person and he doesn't need to be permanently on charge of all bills, he is comfortable coming back to a nice place and your nice heart. You are asking many questions here and I see you have many doubts, your heart knows something is wrong and you know it for years. And now, after so many years, it is up to you if you insist in knowing the truth and end your marriage or you wait and wait until you get older and wasted more years, then abandoned by him. It's very possible he will never tell you the truth about his wife and kids in Nigeria, probably because he was married before marrying you and if he tells the truth, his immigration status in Japan could be compromised because he lied marrying you. Or just he knows, being a bigamist it's a crime in Japan and he will have problems if he admits it.

Graxie:
Ma, you have a beautiful heart, many women in Nigeria lacks these virtues, thank you, i am sorry and ability to forgive. Kindly make Jesus your friend. You are a rare gem. What a lucky man your husband is, to have found a sincere wife.

Graxie:
Ma, you have a beautiful heart, many women in Nigeria lacks these virtues, thank you, i am sorry and ability to forgive. Kindly make Jesus your friend. You are a rare gem. What a lucky man your husband is, to have found a sincere wife.

Angela777:

Yes, he is very lucky and he will be very stupid if he loses her. Unfortunately the good heart is usually used, hurt and mistreated and in love it doesn't work to be a good woman, many men love bitches and abuse the good one.

Graxie:
Ma, you have a beautiful heart, many women in Nigeria lacks these virtues, thank you, i am sorry and ability to forgive. Kindly make Jesus your friend. You are a rare gem. What a lucky man your husband is, to have found a sincere wife.

LoL and Finally here comes the Religious folks With Make Jesus your Friend.
Someone is asking for Relationship Tips trust Nigerians to Always bring their Religious Belief
Madam she Said Earlier that she is SHINTO!



Please Don't take this personal

peacefull:


Many men love bitches
I think bitches are for just playing. Not for serious relationship. And bitches also know that. They just having fun. Am I misunderstanding?
I'm sorry, I know this your message is not for me. Sorry.

error4040:
LMFAO this Reply is Deep!

peacefull:


Many men love bitches
I think bitches are for just playing. Not for serious relationship. And bitches also know that. They just having fun. Am I misunderstanding?
I'm sorry, I know this your message is not for me. Sorry.

Angela777:

I did see many men living with bad abusive women and not appreciating the good ones.

and no, it's not about you, you are a very nice lady and it's sad your Nigerian husband apparently doesn't value you, even he doesn't take you to the hospital when you need it.

peacefull:

My reply is rude again?!

peacefull:
But I maybe only(exclusive?) my husband's bitch Is that what you mean said "Deep"?! Am I correct?

Angela777:

I did see many men living with bad abusive women and not appreciating the good ones.

and no, it's not about you, you are a very nice lady and it's sad your Nigerian husband apparently doesn't value you, even he doesn't take you to the hospital when you need it.

error4040:


Your Reply Was Not Rude, you misunderstood what she ment


Yes

error4040:
This one weak me, I just don't know why someone would treat his wife the way her husband is treating Her.
For God's sake she would be sick yet he won't care to take her & see a doc or pay her bills.

What ever offense she might have committed or in anyway she offended him treating her this way Is Inhuman

well every story is Two sided, meaning Don't judge someone you don't know.

peacefull:


I'm sorry for reply this message.
Yes. Every story have both side story. I'm always not judge only hear one side story. But many peoples on here, helping me and teaching me many things. I'm really really appreciate. My English is very bad. I really can't explain well. That's why I maybe making my husband like a bad person. I'm sorry.

error4040:

Hello, their is nothing to be Sorry About because no Human is perfect. what you need to know is We are All just trying our best no one is Above mistake.

peacefull:

Thank you so much

error4040:

Is their anyway you can Share Japanese Culture with us ?.

peacefull:


Yes!!! Of course!!!
If something I can't answer well, I'm sorry.
But anything you wanna know about Japan, I will try to do my best for share my culture with anyone who wanna know about Japan and Japanese.

error4040:

OK
let's start with

1.Apart from you been married to a black man, How do Japanese see or react to Black's in terms of Racial view or Racism in General.

peacefull:


Some peoples don't like foreigner. Skin color is doesn't matter for them. They just don't like foreigner. But some peoples are always welcome for foreigner. They don't care about skin color.
Some peoples are afraid about Black peoples. Some peoples are admire Black peoples etc,
So I think person by person.

error4040:
How interesting

peacefull:


I just know about many Japanese guys don't wanna have relationship with a girl or woman who had relationship with Black guy or White guy before. Because...