Ishilove:

How come everybody knew he is Billy except me?

The wordings, arrogance, delusion, condescension and word salads gave him away.

Capensis:


You started off aggressive, now you are becoming calm. Soon enough you will fall in love with me and I will treat you right as a queen. This is always how it begins and it does not always end, because I take my time to love ladies and I make no mistakes in my moves.

This is Capensis, not Billy.

If you say so.

*wink wink*

Martinez39:
The wordings, arrogance, delusion, condescension and word salads gave him away.

And I never even noticed

Treasured4eva:


Hey,you really got me wrong.I still run the house because I have a business,just that we had to readjust due to the economic trends.
My kids still attend the same school.I only owe part of the fees which is nothing compared to what I've paid.

I don't think owing about 50k out of about 250k is a big deal.I always transfer the money to her so she could pay to the school,but she decided to embarrass me by letting the school call me.

She has never paid my kids school fees or taken over my responsibilities as the father.Been broke really has levels my brother.

The worse of it all is that ,between December and now,I've spent close to a million both for rent and the family. I even have an on going building project gulping money.Where did I go wrong?

oga there are some things that make a woman bitter and hate you whether or not you spend money

How were you treating her and her family when you were earning better?

Have you ever cheated or are still cheating ? not all women can take it. Especially if she earbs her own money. while some women would make your life a living hell for it some would just silently cheat on you too and enjoy your money

Did you study her well before marriage? like someone above said ,certain traits might not be as a result of stubbornness or bad attitude. It might just be termed bad attitude because you views on some issues are way different from hers. For example, Beyonce can't cook. However I doubt her husband is bothered about it. However some men wouldn't take it lightly if their wives can't cook at all. You get my point?

I'm not saying she's an angel and you are the devil , however we really have to be careful when reading a one sided story.

Eze2000:


By the way, If you wanna write, really write, its a talent not a skill you get from school. I'm a legend in the literature section where you are just starting out with only one like and one comment on two stories.

Two of my books were best sellers on Okadabooks for over 3 years but I am now doing the selling on Amazon, Nook, iBooks and other top stores. You cannot sell up to 5 books there in 5 years if you are not good.

If you ever have an issue contact me but only as a woman, not as the male-minded feminist, Chiefqueen

I don't care about your achievements. I wrote when I felt like, I don't do anymore. I'm very satisfied with my one like and two comments.





I'll always be a feminist, I'll never pretend to think lowly of myself for money. I'm not cheap.


Ps: I'm not male-minded, nothing so special about men.


So erm...gidifuk outta here. The more I talk to you the more I feel like I'm talking to an old man. Don't want to be disrespecting someone's dad...or grandad.

Marriage matter not always easy.

I feel your pain sir. Your wife not giving you the full respect you deserve is distressing.

However, judging from what you typed, your wife is not as bad as I thought from the title.

Think of the good qualities she has, especially the ones that got you attracted to her in the first place.

For the bad qualities, the highest form of emotional intelligence is needed to manage the situation. At least for the sake of your kids.

Remember, don't pay evil for evil. Instead, defeat her evil with good. Kindly tell her how YOU FEEL about some of the things she does and watch how she responds.

Finally, it is not a good idea to want to end a marriage when things are not alright. There are no perfect human beings out there and some are way worse than what you think of your wife.

Ishilove:

If you say so.

*wink wink*

I have twisted your judgment already. Now you are not so sure. Being a woman in itself has some blind spot, it is that aspect of femine energy that we explore.

Building an empire requires supra-level intelligence and those who have it, are masters of the game. It is beyond IQ and EIQ. It is zero emotion feedback reaction to any signal from the environment which is what I did to disengage the output you generated. So I strategically cut off the emotional feedback loop which could have gotten me emotionally reactive to your aggressiveness.

I just wanted to prove something that there is no woman that can not be tamed. I can make you go from anger to being wet in 5 minutes and I mean it. You need a strong man in your life.

chiefqueen:

Shebi you're still sharping mouth? Eh, sissy?

Rest oh! Remain a sexist let me remain a feminist. Don't try to change me cos you can't, okay?


Please don't drag me down to your level of ignorance this night.

Ahhhh, finally she shows her true color and language.

Looks like you've just been watching too much Black American movies, hence your American street-life way of talking. Try to stop it, its not good English. Only unexposed Nigerians will admire you, not well-rounded people who have lived in the US.

I never tried to change you. In fact, i never try to change people over 25 years of age who talk back rudely. It's always hard work. You jumped right into my comment and called me crazy, remember?

Whatever you feel I am, I am that only in your mind so it doesn't really matter to anyone but you

The guy is very unreal,to think some girls are wetting their pants already,smh

Ishilove:

Oh, the poor woman married to you..

I am sorry for whoever is reading and actually pondering on your outrageous submissions.

chiefqueen:

I don't care about your achievements. I wrote when I felt like, I don't do anymore. I'm very satisfied with my one like and two comments.





I'll always be a feminist, I'll never pretend to think lowly of myself for money. I'm not cheap.


Ps: I'm not male-minded, nothing so special about men.


So erm...gidifuk outta here. The more I talk to you the more I feel like I'm talking to an old man. Don't want to be disrespecting someone's dad...or grandad.

Next thing you will say I raped you. How about getting lost yourself cos the more I talk to you the more I fell like I am talking to an ill-bred, free for all kind of woman.

As for my achievements, if you cared I would be surprised. Where did you get the heart when you are perfectly heartless? Wasn't trying to impress you either, just thought you cared for what you tried to write.

My bad

No matter how expensive you feel you are your father will exchange you for just 1 kola-nut

Eze2000:


Ahhhh, finally she shows her true color and language.

Looks like you've just been watching too much Black American movies, hence your American street-life way of talking. Try to stop it, its not good English. Only unexposed Nigerians will admire you, not well-rounded people who have lived in the US.

I never tried to change you. In fact, i never try to change people over 25 years of age who talk back rudely. It's always hard work. You jumped right into my comment and called me crazy, remember?

Whatever you feel I am, I am that only in your mind so it doesn't really matter to anyone but you

25 and above,you say? Lol.

I don't care what 'people who have gone to the US' think of me. Never been the type to try and please anybody.



You are what I think you are. That shouldn't bother you now, should it? So let it be in my mind.



Stop 'sharping' your mouth now.

chiefqueen:



25 and above,you say? Lol.

I don't care what 'people who have gone to the US' think of me. Never been the type to try and please anybody.



You are what I think you are. That shouldn't bother you now, should it? So let it be in my mind.



Stop 'sharping' your mouth now.

God, you speak horribly!


Where did you pick up on Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's ideology? I don't even think you understood it to claim Feminist.


very funny, your feminist joke is

Eze2000:


Next thing you will say I raped you. How about getting lost yourself cos the more I talk to you the more I fell like I am talking to an ill-bred, free for all kind of woman.

As for my achievements, if you cared I would be surprised. Where did you get the heart when you are perfectly heartless? Wasn't trying to impress you either, just thought you cared for what you tried to write.

My bad

No matter how expensive you feel you are your father will exchange you for just 1 kola-nut

And you'll be there to witness the trade? I try to respect you, Ariana least a little. I just can't. It hurts you so much that I don't care about your achievements. What did you expect?


"oh, I'm so sorry for calling myself a feminist. I'm nothing compared to a man really, I'm just the creature made to be the helper, to be under. I need your help to be a successful writer. Without a man, I can't be anything. Please, help me"?




Tsk tsk tsk.



I'm not being exchanged for kola. Even if I was, it would be to someone who knows he hasn't bought me because of some stupid tradition.


So errr....yeah, I guess that's it.

Ishilove:

Shockingly, he has won quite a number of admirers with his skewed world view of marital relationships.

He was able to win them because they either were not perceptive enough to see the misogyny he hid in his first post where he first started his "good" "nice" husband act
Or
They just didn't want to see it.

chiefqueen:




And you'll be there to witness the trade? I try to respect you, Ariana least a little. I just can't. It hurts you so much that I don't care about your achievements. What did you expect?


"oh, I'm so sorry for calling myself a feminist. I'm nothing compared to a man really, I'm just the creature made to be the helper, to be under. I need your help to be a successful writer. Without a man, I can't be anything. Please, help me"?




Tsk tsk tsk.



I'm not being exchanged for kola. Even if I was, it would be to someone who knows he hasn't bought me because of some stupid tradition.


So errr....yeah, I guess that's it.

Sorry for yourself


1 kolanut + 1 alligator pepper..... last

Ishilove:

He is Billyonaire o. Chai, imagine Billy giving marital advice!

Nairaland ehn, una no go kee me

Jst saw this,so he is not married?..can you imagine,ladies need to be very careful and wise,i never fell for his stupid posts

Eze2000:



God, you speak horribly!


Where did you pick up on Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's ideology? I don't even think you understood it to claim Feminist.


very funny, your feminist joke is

Ikr. My English isn't really good.

I'm working on it though.


I don't speak proper English doesn't mean I don't know what I'm saying. You know that.


So, keep trying to shame me. I'm more ashamed that I haven't learned igbo yet.

Eze2000:


Sorry for yourself


1 kolanut + 1 alligator pepper..... last

Can't wait for that day. I do hope though that I find him in Nigeria, male feminists aren't many here. It's sad.

chiefqueen:


Ikr. My English isn't really good.

I'm working on it though.


I don't speak proper English doesn't mean I don't know what I'm saying. You know that.


So, keep trying to shame me. I'm more ashamed that I haven't learned igbo yet.

You hurl insults at me all night long like a scorned witch and you think I'm trying to shame you?

Treasured4eva:
I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.

Truth be told man divorce her if not, your life will still remain terrible. A goid marriage is always a blessed one even without much money there's going to be happiness, think of your parents sir don't they love you too? I sincerely think she's seeing someone else. Infact carryout a dna test on those children.

chiefqueen:


Can't wait for that day. I do hope though that I find him in Nigeria, male feminists aren't many here. It's sad.

You are not worth much after all. The last female given out from my home had a value of 1 kola nut + I alligator pepper + 1.7 million naira

What do you think about that achievement?

Eze2000:



You are not worth much after all. The last female given out from my home had a value of 1 kola nut + I alligator pepper + 1.7 million naira

What do you think about that achievement?

Hmm, cheap enough

Eze2000:


You hurl insults at me all night long like a scorned witch and you think I'm trying to shame you?

Uhmm, I'd say now you're trying to play along when I'm no longer in the mood.

It's your turn to be a bitch though, shine on.

chiefqueen:


Hmm, cheap enough

Maybe too cheap if you understand what I'm trying to say. Your present reply just reminds me of this girl on twitter who DMed me with a handle named 'Second-hand virgin'

chiefqueen:

Uhmm, I'd say now you're trying to play along when I'm no longer in the mood.

It's your turn to be a bitch though, shine on.

A bitch is a female dog in heat. The name, 'in American slang, is best applied to a rude women and that's you!

Eze2000:


Maybe too cheap if you understand what I'm trying to say. Your present reply just reminds me of this girl on twitter who DMed me with a handle named 'Second-hand virgin'

Well that doesn't mean she's cheap, or as cheap your sis.


You asked what I thought, so only my opinion matters...not yours.

chiefqueen:

Well that doesn't mean she's cheap, or as cheap your sis.


You asked what I thought, so only my opinion matters...not yours.

Nah, she was cheap like you and talked cheap like you that's why I made the connection so fast.

Feel free to share your thought, it's just evening in my time zone so I'll be awake for long

Eze2000:


A bitch is a female dog in heat. The name, 'in American slang, is best applied to a rude women and that's you!

Well, not in my dictionary.


Oh, well. It was really nice insulting you. You know, being a respectful teenager can be quite boring. Sometimes I just come online, looking for something worthy enough to cuss. I found you. Won't be surprised if you came out from the asshole,cos you're a piece of s.hit

I hope you don't keep sharping your mouth for too long, cos I have to sleep.


If you still got something to say though, go on.

Eze2000:


Nah, she was cheap like you and talked cheap like you that's why I made the connection so fast.

Feel free to share your thought, it's just evening in my time zone so I'll be awake for long

Well, I already shared my thought. I said "cheap enough"

Capensis:


Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

Did u read the part where he said he lost his job?

chiefqueen:

Well, not in my dictionary.


Oh, well. It was really nice insulting you. You know, being a respectful teenager can be quite boring. Sometimes I just come online, looking for something worthy enough to cuss. I found you. Won't be surprised if you came out from the asshole,cos you're a piece of s.hit

I hope you don't keep sharping your mouth for too long, cos I have to sleep.


If you still got something to say though, go on.

You are a very good lair but not perfect

Whoever trained you in primary school deserves a refund

chiefqueen:


Well, I already shared my thought. I said "cheap enough"

You and sex and cheap. Not a healthy combination